My husband and I just moved to Washington state (he's in the army). He doesn't spend time as a family when he is home, but yet he wants me to have the energy to go out and do things I don't necessarily think are fun, in public, which seems to be the only place where he will act like a parent. Our daughter, Danielle, is 10 months old. Why is he so hung up on us doing "memorable" things outside the house when he can't even be a memorable parent at home? He wants us to drive out to the ocean, even though it's cold and rainy and a 1 and 1/2 hour drive, and nothing to do for a baby there. Why can't he just go do these things himself? Does he not get that Danielle is still really young and would benefit more from just spending time with him at the park or from him reading her a story or taking her for a walk and talking to her? I feel bad for not wanting to do things like this when it is so cold. He complains that he's going to miss everything. Yet he passes up opportunities everyday?
2007-01-09
07:38:31
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