Recently my son brought his last report card home to say the least it he didn’t perform as well as we know he can. The girls have done a great job thus far. The in laws promised to take the girls out to celebrate. When they learned that our son wasn't going, they totally flipped the script, said we were punishing him, they behaved like my 4 year old would when she can’t get her way, etc. and decided not to take the girls. This isn't the first incident my husband and I have had with his parents regarding the kids. My husband and I have sat them down numerous times regarding the kids, and they need to respect our decision as the parents. We feel like we constantly have to explain ourselves as to why we do this or that because they feel we are keeping the kids away from them, etc. This last incident was the last straw; a person can only take so much. I've decided not to deal with them at all. Like for example, when they call I refuse to answer the phone at all. My husband is soon to be traveling a lot on business, and I refuse to deal with them. Especially if we have plans or if they kids haven't done what is expected of them. I refuse to go through that non-sense again with them. Right now, this method is a quick fix but I know I can't do this forever.
2006-11-01
13:24:06
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