Pregnancy & Parenting - 28 October 2006

do you regret having your kids so early?

2006-10-28 04:57:16 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy

I'm a girl,age 13(in December I turn 14).On 16 January this year I was raped by an unknown criminal while I was getting back from a party at midnight.I got pregnant and I kept the baby.3 weeks ago I delivered a girl.Now the girl is at home and my mother(my father is absent parent) takes the care for the girl and doesn't let me hold her and even touch her.She lets me see her only once a day for a minute and then locks the door of my daughter's room and doesn't let me go inthere.The baby is healthy and everything is ok with her and there is no reason for me not to see her.I want to see my baby and take the care of her.What should I do?

2006-10-28 04:54:01 · 19 answers · asked by linda j 1 in Parenting

So far we're going with Jadian Shemar Waters but it's still undecided. Any suggestions would help.

2006-10-28 04:51:50 · 11 answers · asked by pink_xcstasy 2 in Newborn & Baby

2006-10-28 04:44:50 · 6 answers · asked by Mary 1 in Toddler & Preschooler

We are ttc. My period is due the 31st. I took a first response preg. test the 26 and it was neg. Today I noticed my cervix is slightly tilted, high, kind of soft, and closed. I also have watery cm. I don't want to take anouther hpt yet but does my cervix position mean I am preg. or is this the normal position for it to be in before your period starts?I have no preg. symptoms except a sharp pain in my right nipple.

2006-10-28 04:38:59 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Trying to Conceive

My daughter is 10 months and I would like to stop breasfeeding soon. She does not like a bottle or cup with a spout at all. She has never taken a suthor (although I've tried) she just chews the nipples. I'm noticing that when she nurses its only for comfort till she falls asleep and during the night she only uses me as a suthor. I'm starting to feel the effects of lack of sleep. Any advice? Oh and she still sleeps in bed with mom and dad I think she slept in her crib once in 10 months. I know I did it to myself!!!

2006-10-28 04:36:50 · 12 answers · asked by tdashnay 2 in Newborn & Baby

I saw a woman leave her son in the car while she went into the store for about 20 min, when she returned my friend confronted her and told her that she should have took her son inside with her, and the woman asked us whats wrong with leaving her son alone in the car, her son looked about three yrs old, is that okay? (to leave him in the car)

2006-10-28 04:35:33 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Toddler & Preschooler

last month i had my period from the 22-24th and this month from the 24-25th they both were very light and they normally last for 4-5 days and a 28 day cycle. i have been feeling sick to my stomach at different times of the day for the last couple of weeks.....took an hpt yesterday morning was neg. last night had sex and almost cried because it hurt real bad. i am 24 yrs old and not on bc does any know what could be going on i am worried. serious answers PLEASE

2006-10-28 04:35:21 · 6 answers · asked by Heather 1 in Trying to Conceive

ok so i had protected sex about 4-5 days after my period but there was a hole in the condom. since then ive had flu-like symptoms, my breasts became very sore, hard, blue veiny, and bigger. im getting butterflys in my stomach (could be nerves) started my period 3 days late and only have bled very little and it is brown color. i ALWAYS get bad cramps leading up to my period and during and so far nothing. im already 2 days into it and i already know this isnt a normal period. ive taken a preg test but it was neg.. what do you think??

2006-10-28 04:33:08 · 10 answers · asked by Ashton M 1 in Pregnancy

Could this be braxton hicks or just my baby moving around because afterwards the baby moves when it loosens up? (Baby movements aren't frantic, they're normal)

2006-10-28 04:32:00 · 8 answers · asked by Brandie R 1 in Pregnancy

Hi. Last night we found out we had a virus and found it was from my eight year old son looking at porn. I don't know why he would do that! My husband used to look at porn back in high school but he says he doesn't anymore so I know it couldn't have been him. I'm always around the computer while my son is on so he must be sneaking around at night and must have found out our password for the computer lock. I just don't know what to do! What's an appropriate punishment when boys look at porn?

2006-10-28 04:27:00 · 45 answers · asked by Karma Lucille 1 in Grade-Schooler

My daughter is a very young, but thin girl. She is thirteen and in the 7th grade. I've asked her where she has been going during dinner time, she usually says, "Oh I went to my friend's house, we ate dinner, very yummy." She is very active in almost every sport. But I've found an workout planning sheet in her bedroom. I've asked her how much she weighs, she says, "I weigh 76 pounds now." I've tried to stop her, but she won't listen. I don't have to worry about her with those people on myspace or xanga, because she doesn't have a computer. And suggestions?

2006-10-28 04:26:35 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Grade-Schooler

My eldest daughter is ten and wants to start shaving her legs, my wife says no, but I am unsure. My argument is that her hair on her legs is quite dark and now that she is going swimming with the school I am worried about bullying. My wife thinks that she is still too young and that once she starts shaving she'll be doing it forever. My daughter wants to shave her legs as it will make her feel/appear more geown up. What do you think?

2006-10-28 04:25:30 · 79 answers · asked by Hendo 5 in Adolescent

If I am 11 weeks since last period, how long should I wait for the miscarriage to happen. It seems it happened at about 7 weeks.

2006-10-28 04:25:26 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy

My daughter is 15yrs and is a follower of my house rules which are probably quite strict, but not without reason. Meaning that they are consistant and do not bend. However, she has had a boyfriend for about 6 months of who I disaprove of as he is a BAD BOY (15) who has and is often in trouble with the law. I cannot split them as I have tried and I can only punish her if she does wrong. I have waited for them to split naturally which has not happened and they claim to be in love.
My problem is that he has difficulty following my house rules and he will not do as I ask when asked to go away or not harrass her when she is upset with him. In my opinion he treats her with intimidating tactics and threats of finishing. He is someone that you can talk to once you have got past his initial anger but it is the anger and pure defiance that I cannot deal with. Has anyone any ideas as i am at the end of my tether and I cannot take him getting in my hubbies face cos he knows he cannot touch him.

2006-10-28 04:25:12 · 21 answers · asked by sugar blonde 1 in Adolescent

My daughter is like a black panther being let out of it's cage.She gets pms so bad.If you did not know her you would think she was out to kill.She will even say things to her best friends that are off the wall.She will call people b**** and f*****s Is there some kind of medical imbalance ?Becuase it only happens duiring her periods.

2006-10-28 04:23:53 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Adolescent

My sister was opearted and has removed chocolate twists from her body!

When I asked her, She said she don't know!
What they might be?

2006-10-28 04:22:45 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Toddler & Preschooler

Yesterday was a really rough day for us. We've just found out my husband will be serving a second deployment to Iraq. Not only that but my cousin (who lives with us and has been for the past two years) has now convinced his class that he gets multiple birthday parties and has invited them over. He was born on 9/9/01--two days before 9/11. This year we had a birthday party for him and then we had a party to honor those lives lost and those serving for the events that happened on September 11th. He now believes that they were both for him. I explained to him that on 9/11 people died for a very sad reason. I've explained to him that Tio (my husband) has to go to war during his last deployment. He is five years old and now asking a lot of questions. I don't know how to deal with it! I don't know how to explain. How do you explain war and death to a five year old? How can we do this without scaring him? Any advice is appreciated!

2006-10-28 04:22:27 · 8 answers · asked by .vato. 6 in Parenting

2006-10-28 04:21:39 · 5 answers · asked by ticklefoot 4 in Trying to Conceive

i was at school and my teacher told me to liook at the grils paper so i did it and when i got my test back i got a 0

2006-10-28 04:20:28 · 8 answers · asked by shanya 2 in Grade-Schooler

Is this possible or will it not happen until you've had a period. It seems I may have had an early miscarriage and not bled yet. Not that I want 2 be pregnant straight away as that would be weird but don't want to risk getting pregnant before it is expelled from me. Sorry if tmi!

2006-10-28 04:19:33 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy

carrying higher?? And also, how do you know if your carrying the baby towards your back? How does that happen???

2006-10-28 04:19:12 · 3 answers · asked by Melissa t 2 in Pregnancy

Other than fertility drugs, IVF, etc.

2006-10-28 04:18:51 · 6 answers · asked by sarafaith7 3 in Trying to Conceive

I am using Yasmin pills 10 months if i stop now and i get pregnant soon,can it be bad for pregnancy and baby?

2006-10-28 04:12:18 · 9 answers · asked by ML 1 in Pregnancy

I read several articles warning that human over population will be the end of our existance on the planet.. our growth is consuming farm land for housing.. polluting the skies and water and soil.. that in 100 years life expectancy will be ENFORCED (shortened by death to older individuals) to reduce the numbers... that in 50 years there may be a "every man for himself" way of killing off others...

so.. how many kids is too many??? becuase if we dont act now.. the future for every kid we have is going to be bleak....

2006-10-28 04:11:44 · 14 answers · asked by CF_ 7 in Other - Pregnancy & Parenting

I'm a worrier, and I would like to know how soon you can tell when you're pregnant. I have a lot going on right now, and it would be good if I could find out pretty quickly whether or not I am.

2006-10-28 04:09:30 · 8 answers · asked by a 1 in Pregnancy

2006-10-28 04:09:08 · 3 answers · asked by Dora 3 in Pregnancy

He is constantly crying all day long everyday. Ever since he was born. He's gotten better, he will actually let me put him down now and entertain himself. But the smallest thing will set him off. I've tried everything, and his doctor is no help. My mom thinks he is mentally handicapped or that its something serious. I don't know. Someone help please

2006-10-28 04:09:08 · 20 answers · asked by ANNETTE D 1 in Toddler & Preschooler

I'm getting married 2 weeks after my due date.

2006-10-28 04:07:38 · 10 answers · asked by john doe 1 in Pregnancy

2006-10-28 03:58:13 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Trying to Conceive