Pregnancy & Parenting - 19 September 2006

This happened to my fiances brother, the girl told me and a friend of mine she knew she wasn't on the pill and still had sex with him with no condom but didn't tell him. The child is 1 year old next month and I still can't get that out of my head. They are not living together, she thinks they are together but he dates around. They're both in their early 20's and he gives her $1300 a month, she works and HIS mom watches the baby for free while they work. My morals tell me I need to tell someone...but does it matter now? She's already 1 year, will I only make things worse? He is a DJ and to the babys mama he is like a god. Should I but out...or step in because he's complaining he gives her too much $$ and would rather give her cash then go through child support. By the way, they are both horrible parents and pawn the baby off on who-ever will take her on the weekends so they can go out and party and do drugs.

2006-09-19 08:42:45 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Pregnancy & Parenting

I am 37 weeks pregnant with my 2nd child and my Dr. says I have a small pelvis and that my cervix just wont dilate. I had to have a C-section with my first because the same thing happened. Come to find out the cord was wrapped around his neck. Has anyone else ever been told this and if so were you able to have the baby naturally or did you have a C-section? Also with this pregnancy I have been to the hospital twice and now take medicine every day for the contractions. Should I just try to see if I go into labor on my own?

2006-09-19 08:39:48 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy

i was wondering, if there is anyone who is pregnant that their first symptoms was sore boobs or nipples? If so, when did you start feeling it? I think i may be pregnant, i took a pregnancy test saturday morning but it came out negative. today it makes exactly two weeks since my missed period. have i taken it too early? for the past three days my breast especially my nipples have been sore to the touch. i feel fatigue during the afternoon and thats about it. anyone with this situation or has had this happen?

2006-09-19 08:38:53 · 14 answers · asked by cheryl 1 in Pregnancy

I'm going to be taken off brethine tommorow, sure I'll admit everyonce in a while I'll experince cramping (like what you get when you have your period) or slight painful (not to painful) contractions. The contractions don't last very long. I told my doctor about the cramps he said don't worry about. also I experince pain sharp pain in my vagina when I get up and am laying down.

2006-09-19 08:36:52 · 5 answers · asked by Alexikai 2 in Pregnancy

My Friend 17-yr.old son live with me and his girlfriend she is 7 months pregnant.. She don't take her prenantal pills like she suppose too She let the boyfriend tell her what to do all the time,So can the pregnant women give me advice to give her if she listen to me when the boy-toy is not around..And also can u tell me what happen to the baby if she don't take her prenantal pills like she suppose too.. Thanks

2006-09-19 08:36:37 · 16 answers · asked by LeeLee34Lickabooty-Minniemouse34 2 in Pregnancy

I know it can take anywhere from months to years. Id just like to see how long it took in your case.

2006-09-19 08:35:23 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy

2006-09-19 08:30:02 · 12 answers · asked by Lauren 3 in Adolescent

The rash is circular like with raised edges. It itches when scratched or when my thighs rub together. I have had it for over a month. At times it seem to get better but then flares up again. My doctor told me to use hydrocortizone and benadyrl. I am 36 weeks pregnant and very worried.

2006-09-19 08:28:01 · 13 answers · asked by firella_04 1 in Pregnancy

Ive tryed stoping her drinking 2 hrs before bed and nothings working????? Any ideas?????

2006-09-19 08:25:34 · 20 answers · asked by angelbabyjeb 2 in Toddler & Preschooler

its not like im doing it to bother them . i just think different people may answer and i would like to get all the opinions and answers i can

2006-09-19 08:24:38 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy

i have bin tryin for 3 months now , i am sad that i have not conceived yet, but i wanted to know how many of u out ther got pregnant when u started to do diffrent thing to acomplish the deal)(making a baby) i want to know if when u started to do diffrent things u got pregnant that month. Give me ur story and examples
thank ladys for ur support. only women that r mature and ttc. thank you
god bless.

2006-09-19 08:23:59 · 15 answers · asked by >>..<< Wilmy 2 in Trying to Conceive

I am not trying to put anyone down, but why are some people so rude to you when you complain about the aches and pains of pregnancy? One woman asked why it was hard to lift her legs and someone told her she was lazy. I don't see how that is called for. Isn't it common knowledge that every pregnancy is different and some woman hurt more than others? I know it is accepted that some women get morning sickness or swelling more than others, so why is it so hard for some people to believe that some women are more physcially affected by pregnancy? More power to the women who can exercise every day of their pregnancy, but I feel the pain of the ones who can barely move. I have many days like that.

2006-09-19 08:22:41 · 16 answers · asked by S. O. 4 in Pregnancy

i've heard of it but don't know where to get it apparently you cant get it in this country so if anyone got some they dont need or know of where to get any please let me know. trying to conceive and want all the help i can get.

2006-09-19 08:21:30 · 2 answers · asked by mum in training 1 in Trying to Conceive

Have been trying ever since to get pregnant, would fertility drugs help.

2006-09-19 08:20:55 · 3 answers · asked by Robo 1 in Trying to Conceive

My cousin julie asked about having melanie her daughter live with me and my parents for a while?I dont now what the exact problem is? child serves called yesterday for me to speak to them. I now my cousins bf is an ex drug addict and have seen him smack her daughter for a accident. I am 18 yrs old and have baby say her daughter since she as born delayed my 4 yr college for a year to help her out so i am in a community college as a transfer student. so would you ask you parents about your cousins daughter coming to live with them and you?

2006-09-19 08:20:26 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Parenting

I would like to just invite some family over to celebrate my daughter's birthday. But my family is nagging about a birthday party. Do you think she is too young for a birthday party? I dont know any other children to invite her age.

2006-09-19 08:19:46 · 27 answers · asked by Jackeeeee 3 in Parenting

Ive been watching super nanny lately and the time out corner actually does really good sometimes. But I want something more concrete like an award system for my child.

2006-09-19 08:16:57 · 18 answers · asked by Jackeeeee 3 in Parenting

Does anyone know (or know where I can do research) how much the parent's age or progression of development affects their child(ren)'s? For example, if I began walking at 9 mos (and my husband), will our son walk earlier or later? Or does that not have any influence on his development? Thanks!

2006-09-19 08:14:50 · 5 answers · asked by CB 3 in Newborn & Baby

okay...I am on the pill...just had a baby 7 months ago...i missed a pill last month and then took 2 the next day....ended my pill this past Saturday...took a pregancy test yesterday...very faint line(for positive)...I am talking so faint that you had to look at it outside in the sunlight....so took another one today...same thing....is it just me eying too much/or pregnant....also about 4 hours I took the test I had very light bleeding...what do you thing?

2006-09-19 08:14:12 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy

2006-09-19 08:13:43 · 20 answers · asked by motherofthree 2 in Other - Pregnancy & Parenting

2006-09-19 08:13:27 · 4 answers · asked by brittany s 1 in Other - Pregnancy & Parenting

How exactly do you start? I know there are signs to look for (seems uncomfortable in a poopy diaper, pulls diaper off, etc.) What other signs should I look for? Should I just put him on his little potty during the day when he *usually* has to poop (he's like clockwork), hoping he will? Should I start by training him to pee in the potty? I don't know!!

2006-09-19 08:12:59 · 13 answers · asked by brevejunkie 7 in Toddler & Preschooler

What are your thoughts, ladies, about women who "accidentally" get pregnant, not really consulting with their partner?

And before you go there, I'm not doing this.

2006-09-19 08:12:01 · 20 answers · asked by Bloom 2 in Pregnancy

My baby girl is 12 days old now. I had her by c-section due to some complications. Since my husband and I have brought her home my 2 Year old son is not listening at all.....he is getting into things that he would of never done before over and over again no matter how many times you tell him NO! He does absolutely anything to try and wake her up.....Is this normal?? Any suggestions on how to help him adapt?

2006-09-19 08:09:36 · 19 answers · asked by Robyn D 1 in Newborn & Baby

no sex but physical contant

2006-09-19 08:09:23 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Adolescent

at 5 wekks and 4 days i am showing , my belly is already getting hard . My mothers fathe had 2 sets of twins with two diffrent ladies . so i know it ruins in the familey . are chances better because it comed from my mothers side of the familey ?

2006-09-19 08:08:25 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy

he calls my cell phone and like talk non stop he is soo nice he 3 yrs older than i am but if u think about its not really that bad but idk what to do what do u think about it i mean its not like were going to get married and im in 8th grade and take my word for it im not going to have sex with him so what do u think about my problem ??

he already said he likes me

2006-09-19 08:08:07 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Adolescent

For example: putting on pants/getting dressed, walking, exercising.

2006-09-19 08:07:01 · 17 answers · asked by rubyxxxooo 1 in Pregnancy

I'm 6 months pregnant and my back is just killing me.My b-f rubs it every once in awhile but it always seems to worsen.Can someone please help me out?

2006-09-19 08:05:40 · 19 answers · asked by justins_babygurl06 1 in Pregnancy

me and my son argue all the time is this the teenage yrs....but later on he feels sorry and so do i ..is this what teenagers do???or what.

2006-09-19 08:05:28 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Parenting