What are your thoughts, ladies, about women who "accidentally" get pregnant, not really consulting with their partner?
And before you go there, I'm not doing this.
2006-09-19 08:12:01 · 20 answers · asked by Bloom 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
I ask because a very dumb friend of mine has just done this and it weighs heavily on my mind.
2006-09-19 08:17:32 · update #1
I think most women who do this are trying to "trap" their mates into staying with them or trying to make him love her more . . . a smart woman would know that nothing, not even a baby, can keep a man where he doesn't want to be . . .
2006-09-19 08:15:35 · answer #1 · answered by ♥LoisLane♥ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you're asking about women getting pregnant legitamately accidentally, my best friend got pregnant completely accidentally and she's only 17. 100% not prepared to raise a child, but she's working it out one day at a time.
Your question isn't really specific but if you mean women who get pregnant on purpose and SAY it was an accident.. well... they are probably just looking for attention and could be suffering from depression.
If you aren't doing this, why ask the question?
2006-09-19 08:16:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That type of women are not the kind the most men like. Tip: try to avoid those womans, becouse you'll never know what surprise are they "cooking" at anytime. Being pregnant with somebody is not something you can joke about/around.
2006-09-19 08:16:33 · answer #3 · answered by shteck2k6 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think its a very good idea, and on top of that, I think that the women who do that are thinking that it will "help" there Relationship, but it really doesn't having a baby WILL NOT change a man, they will be that way forever.
2006-09-19 08:19:31 · answer #4 · answered by fandj4ever 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you reap what you sew.
In my much younger days i attempted this stunt to keep my man and guess what i ended up having a etopic preganancy and i can never forgive myself for being so selfish and only thinking about me. Since then i have had other children but i really do fell like God was teaching me a lesson. So like i said you reap what you sew
2006-09-19 08:17:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
They are being deceptive and manipulative.
On the otherhand, the partner in question can take most of the "fuzzy" area out, and take control, by either keeping it in his pants, or insisting on wearing a condom.
2006-09-19 08:14:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I feel bad for this baby that was "accidentally" conceived. Your friend is very selfish. Is she going to refer to her child as an "accident" as well? That's really sad.
2006-09-19 08:58:04 · answer #7 · answered by JoesWifee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a game as old as recorded history that is still being played, just not as often.
2006-09-19 08:16:12 · answer #8 · answered by beez 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is really stupid whos to say how long you will be together and what if you partner does not want a child and he leaves you its better ro be excited together
2006-09-19 08:14:34 · answer #9 · answered by Heather N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How does this 'accident' occur exactly?? Does the girl's clothes mysteriously disappears as she slips and fall on her back with her legs spread-eagle and her mate just happen to stubmle on top of her at that precise moment????? ...and ejaculate in her vagina to 'accidentally' conceive a baby????
I am really at a loss when someone says they 'accidentally' get pregnant....Can someone educate me pleeeeeeeeeeeeeease....
2006-09-19 08:13:56 · answer #10 · answered by CATHOLIC PRIEST!! 4 · 2⤊ 2⤋