he calls my cell phone and like talk non stop he is soo nice he 3 yrs older than i am but if u think about its not really that bad but idk what to do what do u think about it i mean its not like were going to get married and im in 8th grade and take my word for it im not going to have sex with him so what do u think about my problem ??
he already said he likes me
2006-09-19 08:08:07 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Well, my husband and I are 4 yrs. apart... Talk to him and get to know each other better. If he likes you and you like him... I say go for it... I was only 13 when I met my husband. He was 17... of course we talked but it wasn't untill I turned 16 that we started actually dating... I got married young.. We got married when I was 18. and been married for 8 yrs now... Happy as can be with our first baby boy... Talk to this guy you like... You are stil young don't need to rush things but if you like each other... Give it a chance..
2006-09-19 08:14:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a friend who dates a guy that is 6 years older than her. They respect each other, so the relationship works really well. If you and him both are confortable with the age difference, then it's just fine. Four years isn't very much time. I personally wouldn't date a younger guy, I would date an older one, so your situation sounds perfect to me. Good luck with the relationship. Just remember that you probably won't stay with him forever, so ignore people if they make fun of you.
2006-09-20 14:47:00 · answer #2 · answered by Yoshi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't settle on one guy too quickly. Enjoy your time getting to know him but keep your options open. At your specific ages 3 years is a considerable amount of time.....so just keep it light and simple.
Remember you can never turn back time - you have to enjoy everything the first time, so enjoy your youth!
2006-09-19 15:11:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its okay to have a friendship with him and to talk to him and get to know him better BUT please be really really careful with him! Alot of older guys will pcik younger girls like you just in hopes of the sex thing. he wont tell YOU that but its tru so just be careful sweetheart! Never ever do anything you dont want to do and never let anyone pressure you!
2006-09-19 17:05:08 · answer #4 · answered by cstinkerbell6969 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats not a problem at all. 3 yrs isnt much if you ask me. Just talk more and then decide on if you want him to become your boyfriend,
2006-09-19 16:45:21 · answer #5 · answered by kenyarae1407 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you feel comfortable around him, then go ahead!! Just be safe and make sure your parents are aware!!
2006-09-19 16:35:25 · answer #6 · answered by meamy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you tell me cause I don't see a problem, go for it
2006-09-19 15:36:59 · answer #7 · answered by waynekirsten 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋