Mental Health - December 2006

My fiance has used pot for many years on a daily basis, alternating with regular cigarettes. He hasn't had any for about three or four months at all and has only been smoking cigarettes. He seemed fine when off of the pot, but he recently got some a few days ago and has been smoking it a LOT since. He seems fine, although his eyes are really red and he doesn't seem to be sleeping much. Has anyone been in the situation? If so, can you tell me what it feels like? He hasn't been going to bed until 4:00 or 5:00 in the morning, seems to be eating a little more and sex seems of low priority, when he usually has a healthy sex drive.

I really need to know what to think. I miss him terribly physically, but is pot that important to him right now? I need to know before I talk to him about it tonight. Thanks! I need to say too that I have absolutely no problem whatsoever with the pot. If it makes him happy, I'm fine with it - I just miss our normal intimacy.

2006-12-18 03:21:47 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

My heart just breaks especially for the children who right now are being abused by the people who brought them into the world, who are hungry and sick and unloved and are parentless. My heart breaks for the planet we're destroying especially for my 2 little girls who will undoubtedly suffer for it. My heart breaks for every living creature who is suffering as I type this. I know there is a lot of good in the world but I have such a hard time focusing on that while so many unspeakable horrors are going on at this very second. Is there anyone else out there struggling with this?

2006-12-18 03:19:12 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-18 03:08:06 · 3 answers · asked by lindsay m 1

2006-12-18 02:27:01 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous

As i self harm my doc and therapist agree its in my best interest not to be on my own when not working so I have to go to my family.When im not at home she is hounding me on the phone.The minute i see my mother i get so annoyed, for no apparent reason. Everything she says is a dig at me, i can do nothing right, havent done for years, despite having my own home and a good job. When she wants something done, i do it, to keep her off my back. Its generally not according to her standards anyway, but she still persists i do it. It consistently makes me want to harm myself (and i usually do). My mother is aware of my mental health issue, but doesnt seem to care. I ve tried standing up to her and explaining to her what in fact she is doing, but her aim appears to be always getting the last word. She is a good woman and i do love her as i know she loves me but i really dont know how to handle the pressure im feeling anymore without causing further harm to myself. Can anyone help?

2006-12-18 02:05:31 · 16 answers · asked by mitchdurrango 1

2006-12-18 01:56:05 · 10 answers · asked by larry n 1

2006-12-18 01:53:02 · 7 answers · asked by Bran Bran 1

after partying for years off my face i no longer touch anything..
ie coke e"s skunk.. feel quite mental but know it is the years of abuse, has any one else suffered when they have stopped it all

2006-12-18 01:34:28 · 17 answers · asked by missnikid 4

I'm going to be all alone on Christmas and it's really depressing me. And I'm already going thru a depression and this is making it worst. What am I supposed to do?

2006-12-18 01:27:01 · 15 answers · asked by krstybrghtlght2001 1

Well,as we age,our minds seems to develop too and some of the earlier 'files' that we had will be 'stored' somewhere in our brains.I seemed to have forgotten most of my childhood memories.Is there really a way to bring back these 'files'?

2006-12-18 01:19:08 · 3 answers · asked by evilevo75 1

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2006-12-18 00:40:26 · 16 answers · asked by vitamin exist 1

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2006-12-17 23:44:08 · 2 answers · asked by ratina_k 1

my family has allways said that im not all there a while back sum 1 tryed to refer me to a mental home! am i mental or normal? i dont think im mental i think its just that i have no confidence and i hate myself

2006-12-17 22:39:17 · 22 answers · asked by Miss vegetable crisps 1

I have tried asking her things such as "Anything I could do to satisfy you more? What do you hope to accomplish by buying things for people, myself included, that we often say we do not need?". But fact is my g/f can not keep a savings (spends all job money on luxuries) and seems to be constantly flirting and, in the meantime, has no real hobbies (no music, cooking, reading, etc. ...just watching movies of non-mutual interest). She constantly mentions having kids but between savings, lack of will to stay in shape (and corresponding frequent sickness), and a short temper I find myself walking "out of the room" a lot and fear she does not have the energy or discipline to raise kids well. It admittedly has become a game of give-and-take: when she continually asks me to, say, see chick flicks for 5 evenings in a row, I say "no let's go out, exercise, or do something fun or healthy like we used to in our early dating days". But she's just not the same how do I get through to her?

2006-12-17 22:10:16 · 9 answers · asked by M S 5

2006-12-17 21:54:33 · 4 answers · asked by breitlastmouse 2

I'm not talking about dying while sleeping. I'm talking about dying in your dreams. If you did die in your dreams, what happen afterwards?

2006-12-17 21:41:26 · 17 answers · asked by Smile Everyday 1

Or seriously slow down the aging process?

2006-12-17 21:38:28 · 9 answers · asked by lonehawk23 1

I would like to know how to deal with depression with out taking the meds that the doctors give me? I was told that some people do it but i wasnt sure how.

2006-12-17 21:21:15 · 19 answers · asked by Dusty B 2

It has been ten years now...but there is not a day I dont think of her. I am sure in my heart I was too old for her and I am married. She had a personality tht made every man wish they could have her in their life. And through my eyes I felt she was beautiful. I though she looked like Monica Potter. Everyone could see how I felt (I was her supervisor) Someone called my wife and hinted there was something going on. There was nothing physical. But I still can remember things she would say or do and it brings a bit of pain but with a smile. How do I forget her...how do I move on? I can not talk to anyone. I did find some relief through a dream. In the dream I was able to tell her how I felt. Maybe I just need affirmation that my feelings were real.

2006-12-17 21:17:56 · 9 answers · asked by Wat Da Hell 5

A couple of days ago i dreamed my whole family got drafted into the army .My fifty year old dad and my younger siblings which happen to be under eighteen .Wierd .

2006-12-17 21:14:00 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

my boy friend has depression, he knows, but doesn't want to do anything with it.. lately, (after 4 years together) he told me, nothing can helps with his depression, and he just wants to be alone. its very hurtful to me, but i really don't know what to do.. help

2006-12-17 20:38:13 · 8 answers · asked by :) 1

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2006-12-17 20:19:02 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hey I care!

2006-12-17 20:01:50 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-17 18:58:19 · 9 answers · asked by ♥♥happening♥♥ 2

cuz they dont know the words so how they think?!

2006-12-17 18:49:28 · 4 answers · asked by narcisse . 1

things have really got on top of me lately, i work constant nightshift and work every weekend never get enough sleep needless to say im constantly tired and worn out,hardly get to spend quality time with my partner who is off every weekend, housework etc is suffering also, i was paid off from my last job nearly a year ago so been in this rut for a year, feel i really need 2-3 weeks off to catch up with things can my doctor refuse me a sick line if i ask for one?

2006-12-17 18:46:58 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous