Teens don't like parents who 'nag'- they want to be independent. Fine, but when your 16 yr old still NEEDS help with remembering basic stuff (hygine, school work, getting ready for a trip, getting organized ect), what do you do ?!?
I dont want to be co-dependent, with another person's problems, and when he turns 18 , fine I will back off. But my kid is NOT on meds -I have only used behaviour management all theses years. Now he has reached a new milestone, now has a girlfriend, and thinks hes an adult.
He's really starting to 'power struggle' with me and resist more than ever. NO matter how 'nice' or 'neutral' or 'authoritative' or 'diplomatic' or 'agressive' or 'indirectly' or 'helpfully' or 'casualy' or, I approach it, he snaps at me.
I am simply, calmly (most of the time) trying apply the 'extra-hard-work' parenting I have been doing all these years...and he resists.
Until hes 18 I am responsible to see he baths, goes to school, has clothing, a coat, ect
2006-10-23
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