And they make rude remarks that hurts your character of being a good friend. especially when they befriend you?
2006-10-23 10:24:47 · 7 answers · asked by David H 3 in Health ➔ Mental Health
The best way of handling these type of people is to act as if they don't exist in your world. Then, don't allow them to. Don't acknowledge them, don't think about them, don't talk about them, and if others do, don't acknowledge it. They have no place in your world.
2006-10-23 10:33:48 · answer #1 · answered by LindaLou 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I take it for granted that you are an open, friendly , good natured person who cares for others and has good principles.
This means you have nothing to hide or fear, except the normal mistakes we all make in life, because nobody is perfect.
This means you should remain open minded, have a good discerning spirit and think first before you talk.
The truth has a way of proving itself over time anyway, and you will come out tops every time , with no excuses to make , and no one to apologise to. You will have good solid friends, and the unwanteds will sort themselves out, because birds of a feather, flock together.
2006-10-23 17:39:14 · answer #2 · answered by Featherman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Haha - sounds just like my job! What I do - is I confront them - I tell them what I heard them say and from whom. When you confront people like this they are less likely to gossip about you because the point of gossiping is not to let the party know who you are talking about. This always catches 'em off guard!
2006-10-23 17:27:38 · answer #3 · answered by IrishGuy85 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I "X" them. People who talk badly about you usually have some kind of self esteem problem. I don't know about you, but I don't want any more drama in my life, so I "X" them out. It's not worth your time to worry about stupid people.
2006-10-23 17:37:16 · answer #4 · answered by gstfox 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that two faced person does not care about you, obviously just breakup the friend ship or if you still want the friendship then tell them that you know about their two faced actions.
2006-10-23 17:30:26 · answer #5 · answered by bittykittietwinklepie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know who you are. Just ignore them and keep your cool as you know you are not like what they say. Keep your dignity no matter what people say - do your work well and no one can say anything.
2006-10-23 23:21:45 · answer #6 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are not your friends so forget them. you will never be able to trust or respect them and they don't respect you. you don't need them in your life. with friends like that you don't need enemies..
2006-10-23 17:38:33 · answer #7 · answered by StarShine G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋