my therapist is really amazing. we share the same taste in music and movies and other things. so sometimes i feel as though i am talking with a friend, although i know i am not. i know it is a professional relationship..i feel like we would be friends if we weren't patient and therapist. so, unrealistically, i wish she would care more about me, or that we could go on walks or go to the movies or she could tell me her problems and i would try to helo her. it's completely ridiculous, i know that. i admit i have a crush on her too..but she is engaged and also straight..i am gay. anyways...do i tell her all this? if i do, i'd probably have to stop seeing her. if i don't, well these feelings way on my mind and sort of sometimes get in the way of sessions b/c i'm wishing she could be this or that. i know it will never be the way i want..i guess i have to just try not to think about it. any suggestions?
2007-04-25
09:26:28
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flyingprimate
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Mental Health