I thought this was rude and it has left me with a bad taste in my mouth--you just don't DEMAND that someone bestow an honor on you. This (along with a couple other minor incidents of a similar nature) is bugging me to the point that I see his brother as needy and bratty; I don't even want to be around him. Ultimately it is my fiancee's decision to choose his own best man, however, I have been to several weddings where the best man is the groom's best friend or father, not automatically his brother just because he has one. I have discussed this with my fiancee and I'm not quite sure how to resolve my feelings. Now he is inviting himself to come visit us for several days based on his convenience (he wants us to rearrange our schedules accordingly, take time off from work, entertain him, etc.) rather than visit around a holiday or a particular activity/event. I don't want it to become a 'him or me' situation, but I don't know how to feel comfortable around his brother anymore. Help!
2007-04-17
01:21:17
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