I have a cousin who is getting married in the summer and she has chosen to have her 3 cousins and brothers wife (sister-in-law) as honorary bridesmaids. I spoke with her on the phone today and she was talking about all sorts of obligations for the honorary bridesmaids the day before and day of the ceremony, ie. decorating the church and the reception hall. I have been a bridesmaid and an honorary bridesmaid in the past and have never been solely responsbile for decorations, there has always been a give and take and a sharing of responsibilities. The last weddings I was an honorary and Bridesmaid in I helped take down decorations after the ceremony but didn't decorate. I guess my real question is what is a reasonable amount of effort to contribute, what should I do as an Honorary, what is too much for her to ask?
2007-03-12
15:17:28
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lovey1486
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