I like a black guy (I am white/Mexican), I have never never never seen him using a wedding ring in fact he does not use rings but recently I knew that he is married since 3 years ago, is that he is separated and getting divorced o what? I am confused! please help! I don't want to get hurt loving someone married.
2007-03-12 14:46:20 · 7 answers · asked by Fatima 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Please don't tell me that I should ask him because I knew him in a basket ball game in Mexico because he is a basket ball player and now he got back to USA and I have not way to communicate with him.
2007-03-12 15:08:45 · update #1
Don't get me wrong! I am not racist or trying to be mean I just want to leave clear that he is black because I know for whites in America is very important use the wedding ring so I don't know if is the same for black people.
2007-03-12 15:11:08 · update #2
Oh and I saw him after the games using earrings and his watch and anyway he never used any ring.
2007-03-12 15:34:55 · update #3
oh how i wish you would have just said a man who doesn't wear his ring. that way the question would include all men who dont wear them.
That man doesn't wear it because he isn't faithful to his wife. but please dont think that if a man does wear it that he will be any more faithful than the one you like. A ring is just s symbol. It takes a real man to respect his wife enough to NOT mess with anyone else. But really though- some men cannot wear their rings (work or allergies or whatever).
You would be silly to stay in light of the info you just found out. No matter his race- he is a dog... find a man who isn't involved.
My fiance (who is black) will be wearing his all the time. Unless that man has divorce papers, he is still married- even if he isn't with her. You sound like a lovely young lady- go find someone who will respect you.
BTW- those athletes and superstars (not all of them) wont tell women they meet that they are married or involved- they just want to get some...
Also- there are plenty of white men who dont wear their rings... someof them are faithful, some of them cheat....
2007-03-12 15:09:14 · answer #1 · answered by glorymomof3 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
What? Separated men usually remove their wedding rings if they have one. He has been separated for 3 years? You may want to think about moving on. Point of confusion: What has being BLACK got to do with wearing a ring?
2007-03-12 22:08:17 · answer #2 · answered by the Goddess Angel 5 · 2⤊ 2⤋
I wish I had a different answer for you, but it sounds like you're his girl on the side and he just takes his wedding ring off when he wants to get some action with you.
You deserve better.
2007-03-12 22:17:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he is separated from his wife then why does he need to wear his ring? He letting everybody know that he is single again that probably why he doesn't wear a ring. Or why dont you just ask him if hes married or not.?
2007-03-12 21:54:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Consider him off the market and look else where. why? Well honestly I wouldn't be shocked to hear he wasn't wearing the ring when playing it may be uncomfortable. (my husband doesn't wear his at work because of fear of losing it and it is a safety concern guys in his field have lost fingers because they get caught.
2 you have no way to get a hold of him you can't have a relationship if you are unable to communicate.
Keep looking there is someone else out there.
2007-03-12 22:14:54 · answer #5 · answered by emmandal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have two good friends both co workers an both black one he uses his wedding band every day an never takes it off an i have another one who doesnt use his due to he doesnt want it to bend or brake when at work an if we are in a emergancy he doesnt want it to get cut ( we are all in corrections) becouse he feels he should only have one ring in his entire life an has it on a chain around his neck or in his special wallet in his pocket
2007-03-12 22:57:32 · answer #6 · answered by rodeogirl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can not communicate with him then why does it matter? And furthermore, maybe it is his choice not to wear his ring but yes culturally they wear their rings. It may be his personal preference.
2007-03-12 22:32:38 · answer #7 · answered by sjlova86 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋