In January my fiance and I got engaged. We planned on surprising our parents in March at my mother's graduation. Well in febuary I found out i was 13 weeks pregnant, and decided to tell our mothers about the pregnancy/engagement. We both would like to marry soon, but finances and a lack of time (5 months till baby's due) prevent planning a traditional ceremony. My suggestion to my fiance was to have a "courthouse ceremony" now and plan for a large traditional ceremony next spring. He thinks that's backwards, and that we will become so busy w/ the baby; 3 yrs will go by, and I'll be unhappy w/ the fact I never had my "dream ceremony". My mom suggested settling for a small ceremony, but upon doing it, I want it to be right. I dont want to "settle" for something I will regret years down the road...What should we do?
2007-03-02
08:55:32
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