My daughter and her boyfriend have recently become engaged.He lives in England ,and she lives in Wales, with us, her parents. The dilemma is, she really wants to get married locally, and the vast majority in the wedding will be our family and her friends. He has a small family, and the issue is, that his mother is suffering from ME. In think he's worried that she won't be able to make it. 5 years ago my son got married and I was too ill to attend owing to depression. I would not like to see anyone else miss out. However, is it fair to even consider having the wedding where my son inlaw to be is from? I know it wouldn't be the same for my daughter, and it would cause a lot of anemosity in our family. His mother could even be too ill to attend if it was local, as her illness is so unpredictable. I can do without this. Seeing as we would be paying for the wedding and the majority of guests are on my daughter's side, what do you think please?
2006-10-27
05:57:57
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Linda
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