I have been with my bf on and off for 6 years, I told him about 3 years ago that I was ready to get married and he said that I need to wait because he had just graduated Grad school and he wanted to work and get a house. So I respected his decision and understood, that as a man he wants to be settled, before having a family. Now 3 years later I brought it up again, and he says he isn't ready, he says he hasn't saved up enough money (Mind you he works for a computer effect company, cushy job from what I hear).
He tells me that he knows we will get married, but just not now, but he says maybe in a another few years...but that would mean we have been dating for 10 years and I don't think I want to wait that long.
Furthermore, my parents are pressuring me to get married,I am 25 years old and in my culture we have arranged marriages (AM) and I don't want to marry a stranger. In addition to that my parents and I have an agreement, that if I get into Med school,I can postpone the AM. help?
2006-07-23
15:49:20
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Strawberry
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