he is always asking me if i am cheating on him and he is heaps paranoid!! the other night he got a msg i asked who it was from and he said that it was from his mum i asked him what it said and he wouldn't show me i tryed to get it off him but he fought me.. then he told me that the message was from his mate which makes me think maybe it wasn't from a mate maybe another girl? also he has profiles on dating sites he told me he closed them all he hasn't.. and this girl that he slept with likes him i was talking to her on msn last night pretending to be my bf and she told me that she has feelings for him when i told him his face lit up and he smiled wtf HELP ME
2006-07-23 14:23:30 · 18 answers · asked by sexylilbiatch1988 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
cmon people HELP
2006-07-23 14:57:24 · update #1
You should SPY ON HIM or call 1-800-cheatin
2006-07-23 14:27:04 · answer #1 · answered by allyflowerpower 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheating and enjoying being admired are two different things, in the same category. It doesn't sound like he's cheating, only that the he doesn't realize that he's in a serious relationship and things like dating profiles and flirting with girls on MSN aren't appropriate anymore, even if they make him feel like a big man. Getting even and doing the same thing back won't work. It will only ruin your relationship. Have a serious talk with him about why you're upset, why you're worried, and what you expect. Sometimes guys don't even know that their little flirtations are not only cruel to their girlfriends but to the single gals they lead on as well. Let him know it isn't appropriate and that you deserve for him to stop.
2006-07-29 03:12:33 · answer #2 · answered by KeM 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Paranoia about a mate cheating is the classic sign of a cheater. The second sign is the hiding and lying he is doing -- if it was his mom he wouldn't have wrestled you for the phone. He would have had a different attitude He probably hasn't closed those dating sites either . He sounds like he keeps his options open "just in case". ( Just in case he gets found out) Dump him immediately because he has his cake and is eatting it too!!
2006-07-29 14:41:05 · answer #3 · answered by caribeegurl01 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you've received some signs that your bf wants out of the relationship. don't fret over it though. Whenver Mr. Wrong walks out the door, it leaves the door wide open for Mr. right to walk in. If a man is very secretive about messages he receives or phone calls he gets, he definately has something to hide. I suggest you tell him to be a man, and open up with you, or the relationship is not worth having. Good luck
2006-07-23 16:40:43 · answer #4 · answered by english_argie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your suspicions are probably correct and he is probably cheating on you and you should tell him that you suspect him and that you want to leave him for his cheating ways. You are going to need to follow through with the breakup because he does not care for you. If he had cared for you he wouldn't hide things from you. He would have shown you the message had it been from his mother, but then he changed it to his mate. If he cared for you he wouldn't be suspicious of you cheating. If he cared for you he also would not be cheating on you. You need to find yourself a better boyfriend than this guy.
2006-07-23 15:26:12 · answer #5 · answered by mom of girls 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may be giving off the signals that guys interpret that you're cheating on him. Since you say you aren't doing so I would have to say that he may be a bit paranoid due to his own insecurities.
My ex-fiance cheated on me and I knew it from the beginning but I did my research first. Yes I stalked her, all I can say is that I'm glad I found out when I did than AFTER our potential marriage. It hurt but it was for the better.
2006-07-23 14:30:25 · answer #6 · answered by tropicalturbodave 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You both sound like children. It is scary how the internet controls you guys.
There shouldn't be a question of what you should do.....leave the creep asap!
Break up.....the guy is a player and you are being used.
People who can't be faithful shouldn't be in relationships.
And people who can't have a life beyond this internet thing........wow thats scary.
2006-07-29 19:58:34 · answer #7 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since this question is posted in the weddings section, I assume you two are getting married. If that is the case, you two seriously need to sit down and talk. Don't get married f there is even the slightest doubt as to his faitfulness. It will only get worse.
2006-07-23 14:51:51 · answer #8 · answered by Andielion 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just pull him a side and ask him what is really goin on, if he can't answer with a straight answer then that's when you investigate, but if you don't see him cheatin' on you don't worry bout it but just watch his eyes and his body language if its telling you bad things....drop him you don't need to worry yourself over some childish ish aight. You can do better if he is not doin what he supposed to do.
2006-07-29 07:44:22 · answer #9 · answered by Baby Bear 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry..Sounds like you may have a cheater on your hands.
Trust your instincts and keep your ears and eyes open.
If it does'nt feel right?..It probably isn't. Good Luck
2006-07-23 15:35:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋