At the Bachelor party i got a little crazy and my brother was crazy from the heat of the moment and it was really late, basically in the wee hours of the morning. He told me he trusted me the most in the world and i could tell him anything...so i told him he could do better. Hi fiance is mean (My parents don't like her) and she is ugley. I told him she looked like a truck and bull dog all in one and now he is mad at me. What is up with this...
2006-07-23 14:49:24 · 11 answers · asked by Yes I Am The Gorgeous One 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Nope... Maybe he might rethink marrying her..
2006-07-23 15:04:56 · answer #1 · answered by kat_burk76 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
That was a little mean of u, but he's the one marrying her not you. Ur parents don't like her because u all think she's ugly?
The reason he's mad is because it was really mean of u to say that about the woman he plans to marry and maybe spend the rest of his life with, he doesn't want you all making her feel bad when she over to visit, because u and the parents think she's ugly. I mean if she's ugly she's ugly but that doesn't mean he shouldn't be with her because u and the family feel this way about her.
But one upside of it all, he doesn't have to worry about u trying to hookup with her =-)
Does she know u all feel this way about her?
I hope u and he make peace with it and the kids take after ur side of the family.
A truck and a bull dog? =-)
I REALLY REALLY HOPE THE KIDS TAKE AFTER YOUR SIDE OF THE FAMILY WHEN IT COMES TO LOOKS
U don't want any little bull puppies trucks running and driving around at the family reunions =-)
2006-07-23 16:17:19 · answer #2 · answered by itspink22@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've insulted the man's future wife...what do you think is up with this. Just because he trusts you doesn't mean he wants to know that you and the rest of his family hates the woman he is in love with enough to marry. Tell him you were really wasted and you got a little loose with your words and that you support any decision he makes because it is HIS life, NOT yours. Apologize and if he is a good brother he will forgive you and then you can still maintain a relationship with him post wedding. Good luck to ya!
2006-07-23 15:30:28 · answer #3 · answered by blueeyedlovebug 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've gotta agree with Cat C. If you felt this way...and your parents felt this way...someone should have tried to point these things out BEFORE the bachelor party. If your brother TRULY loves his fiancee and she truly loves him, then that is what matters. As long as she is not being hurtful to you or your family, then I'd say it's none of your affair. That is unless your brother asked you what you really thought of his bride-to-be. And if he did ask, then He should have asked for your opinion before they got engaged. B/c obviously your opinion matters to him. Otherwise he wouldn't be upset.
2006-07-23 15:20:39 · answer #4 · answered by Beth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-15 03:22:06 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, it's not bad if he asked... but for future reference, I've learned that it is SO important to hold your tongue when it comes to your friends and family and the matter of their love life. Inevitably they will reconcile with their love and you look like the jerk.
Regarding your situation now... if your brothers fiancee is just ugly... ignore it... but if she's mean and you think he is making a mistake you owe it to him to let him know.
Good Luck.
2006-07-23 19:15:17 · answer #6 · answered by Yassie2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just get her a dog collar for a wedding present.
2006-07-23 15:28:49 · answer #7 · answered by James 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not really, but you could have picked a better time to tell him that, like when he first introduced her to you,
2006-07-23 15:14:22 · answer #8 · answered by Cat C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should have kept that to yourself. It really isn't necessary to be so rude. You should not try to hurt family members the way you do.
2006-07-23 15:09:47 · answer #9 · answered by nastaany1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course he got mad at you, you dumba$$.......get a brain!
2006-07-23 15:43:34 · answer #10 · answered by bluez 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋