"do the deed" at all? I need to know what I should expect after a busy day!! ;-)
2006-07-23 14:04:04 · 13 answers · asked by Left Footed 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
to be honest to your question.when it comes to the day you get married, yes you are so busy that day getting ready and all. that when you do get married and all the things after the church, theres the meal and all and at the end of the nite you and your new husband are very tired and all you want to do is go to sleep after your long day. it's the next day and nite that you will make great love and enjoy it for thats the day you start your marriage fully rested.i've been married for 29 years now and my daughter just got married 3 years ago and she asked me the same thing and i told her the same thing it's such a long day for the both of you and with all the people that you and your new husband has to talk to , dance with and all the other things that you have to do that nite, you are both very tired that nite when you leave everyone that all you want to do is sleep and if you do try to make love you don't have that much energy to enjoy it. the next day is much better. the best to you and your husband to be.
2006-07-23 15:44:18 · answer #1 · answered by Linda M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him in advance. This is part of the planning process. We did not have sex after our wedding. The wedding was around 4:00 pm and the reception did not start till around 6:00 pm. It was after 10:00 pm before we had cleaned up the hall and got away from the crowds. We were both exhausted. We stayed at my parents home that night (my wedding was in my hometown, which was not where I, nor my husband lived).It was the next day before we left for the honeymoon, after we were well rested.
The night after the wedding was so much better, we had chilled champagne, fresh fruit, good music and a wonderful sexual experience. But, we planned it all in advance.
2006-07-23 15:48:17 · answer #2 · answered by Seeking 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to make it spicy and hot, however hard it may be, abstain from sexual conduct in any form for a set time before the wedding (and I dont mean a few hours.) If you are having sex every day, a week should have you salivating. If you only do it once a week, maybe you should abstain for a month before you wedding. Trust me itwill be hard, but stay busy,and that way you will be wanting each other by the end of the wedding day and it can be great!
2006-07-24 16:00:23 · answer #3 · answered by Barefoot 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I gave different people things to do for my wedding so all I had to do was show up and look pretty. Don't spend to long at the reception. Your guest will appreciate and so will you guys later. I would say 3 hour minimum...really..people get bored after that. We did our vows in 10 minutes and a 2 hour reception. We waited to have sex so maybe that's why we were in such a hurry, but nobody complained. In fact, people said they really enjoyed our wedding.
2006-07-23 14:24:47 · answer #4 · answered by abbasgirlie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I was too tired after our wedding. When we got home I had my husband help me out of my dress and we headed to bed.
I only got about 4 hours of sleep the night before (I was up pampering myself and getting things ready) and spent the whole day running around getting ready. Then we had the wedding and reception where we parited hard. By the time we got home I was so exhausted. We took a bottle of champange to bed with us, had a romantic toast and went to sleep.
The moring after our wedding we went out to breakfast with family and some friends before we left for our honeymoon.
My husband understood how tired I was, and since we had been having sex before we got married, it wasn't a big deal to us wait until the next night.
2006-07-23 16:29:43 · answer #5 · answered by Just Jess 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I wasn't too tired, but my husband drank way too much and he passed out before anything could happen. It was no big deal, I just relaxed with a beer and began opening presents. We left for our honeymoon the next day and he made up for it. Before the wedding, though, all of our friends said they were too tired to have sex on their wedding nights and they just wanted to go to sleep. I didn't believe it would happen to us, until my husband passed out. Your best bet is to chill on the drinking and keep an eye on your man's drinking, too. And just stay relaxed on your wedding day, don't get too stressed. But, if it doesn't happen, there is always the next night, it's not the end of the world.
2006-07-24 02:22:45 · answer #6 · answered by SweetPea 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think we had wonderful sex on our wedding night. He was so gentle and slow. I was still a virgin on our wedding night ( 28 years old at the time) . We made love 3 times before we went to sleep at about 4 AM.
2006-07-23 14:26:58 · answer #7 · answered by LITTLE 1 :o) 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
WE DID!! And I might add that it was wonderful and more than just once.
We decided against the traditional wedding and eloped to Gatlinburg. We still had the little Christian service, but they took care of flowers, photography, decorations. All we had to do was show up, get dressed, have the ceremony, and then be on our way. I would do it again if I had to.
2006-07-23 22:15:13 · answer #8 · answered by mrslang1976 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, honestly, we were both dead tired!! After all the church service and the party afterwards... we were up ( well I know I was up ) at 5 am... and we didn't get to our hotel until 2am... WOW! We were both just too tired... but we did have awesome sex the next morning before we checked out!!!!
2006-07-24 06:17:52 · answer #9 · answered by -- 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the two of you need to talk about it ahead of time so you are prepared for the passion you deserve...take it easy on the drinking...whisper in each other's ear during the reception how you can't wait to get to the room...take advantage of that tradition of making love in the room they have for the two of you at the reception...maybe not make love there but at least please each other ...the thrill of knowing you are doing that while in a place where so many people are there for you is quite a turn-on...ENJOY!!
2006-07-23 14:14:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋