Singles & Dating - 30 December 2007

Do you believe in true love? How many different kinds are there and how necessary to you in your life?

2007-12-30 03:19:08 · 15 answers · asked by Ballerina Butterfly Queen 5

When I say a long time I mean your hearts been crushed alot before you really find someone.Or you could just love yourself forever.

2007-12-30 03:10:29 · 23 answers · asked by tiffinynb93 3

2007-12-30 03:10:22 · 50 answers · asked by ginzawasabi 2

I have been wth my bf for neary 3 an a half years, an are relationship is good, but there is something missing that i need ur advice on.
He has had gf's before me but the relationships have never been as special as ours , an i know that.
his past relationships have always gone wrong after sex.
Him an I have not had sex yet, but we both do, but he is unshure, as he is sceard that are relationship is gonna change an get messed up like the past ones. This is maybe somethink he has 2 overcome. But what i struggle with is..the other gf's had him in that way, and i have'nt yet.. but they never really had his heart the way i do.
He said its nice 2b in a relationship where he can feel this way without puting sex 1st...
Do u think i have somethink 2 worry about????

2007-12-30 03:09:21 · 4 answers · asked by Laura 1

It's just I really him, she doesn't. Why does he love her and not me? please give me advice!!

2007-12-30 03:05:12 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I know popular guys does, but the nice, unpopular guys. When they're going out with someone, would they like their gf to play hard-to-get with them, or just a little and still care and pay attention to them like a real gf??

2007-12-30 03:03:19 · 20 answers · asked by Mystify 1

a few times. no sex. he's really friendly and nice and everything when he wants it. then he's like bipolar after he's done. says things like "its so late"(which it usually is) "i have to go now" and just takes off and doesn't want me near him "because he just came" and he's "tired."

i know this sounds obvious that he's using me, but i dont really feel that he is.

can someone please explain what he is doing??

2007-12-30 02:49:49 · 22 answers · asked by waterlilystars 1

i've been invited to a new years party which my ex will be at with his new girlfriend. he practically got with her when we were still together and just stopped speaking to me. i'm still not over him. i do want to go to this party though to see friends, but i don't particularly want to go and see him and her together. i don't know whether to go and try and have a good time, or do something else :S

2007-12-30 02:40:26 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous

the real 2wolfs is hispanic male 58yrs,married,1boy 30yrs, in jail,1girl 32yrs married & working. i need hip replacement.retired service tech. for copiers.one time habitual traffic violator,ex hippy,recovering alcholic,still get chinese eyes, self taught westsider,army vet.intermidiate computer user,light traveler,layed back,grandfather,limp,need dentures,ishine my shoes,natural hair style ala mel gibson,on meds , ex home owner,renting,always broke,honest except to myself,give money away when ihave it,enjoy life,early bird,few real friends,surprize surprize,where are you going to end up?

2007-12-30 02:21:51 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-30 02:20:45 · 6 answers · asked by mohmma n 1

Alright, my mom does NOT trust me and my boyfriend. We've lost all trust to her. My mom is always being so horrible! I admit, I do hang out with my boyfriend a lot alot a lot and she always tells me that she would rather me be miserable than be with him, but it's not like he's a criminal! He's a great guy with straight A's. I need to make her realize it, but he's sort of shy. And everytime I come back rom his house, she complains that I spell like an ash tray because his parents smoke.. what can I do to make her happier and make her understand? I've told her how much I like him, but she just rolls her eyes.

2007-12-30 02:16:25 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

im going out to new years with a bunch of people to a party and i kno this guy is going to be there who is hot and single .. how could i get a new years kiss from him that is only a new years kiss and nothing more like i dont want to date him or hav things be awkward afterwards i just have always wanted a new years kiss and hes a cool guy
should i go for it or might it be weird afterwards. .oh and also my big crush is kinda friends with him but he is out of the country for new years i really like him and things are going well with us will hooking up with this guy change things?

2007-12-30 02:08:54 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been wondering. I mean I dropped not so subtle hints that I was interested in this gentlemen who have been liking me for some time. However, it took me awhile to realize this was the case.

I smiled at him all the time, went out of my way to speak to him and say high every time I saw him. I even would purposely call him over to ask him questions just, so I could talk to him. I went so far as to give him my business card and told him he could call if he ever wanted to talk. I sent him a letter congratulating him on his promotion. I went to congratulate him in person, because his new office is right across the street from my office. He still didn't get it. I followed up with a letter informing him that I found him to be kind and pleasant and would welcome the opportunity to get to know him. I even invited him to drop by my office or call and we could have lunch. After all that, I think he still thinks I was just being professional and friendly. Is that a bad thing?

2007-12-30 02:07:11 · 8 answers · asked by Dimples 2

...any good questions to start a conversation or keep a conversation going?

what about questions to get to know someone better?

Thanks!

2007-12-30 02:04:59 · 10 answers · asked by oboesinger89 3

its a short black dress with a belt and if i go through with it what should i waer underneath shorts? any ideas coments suggestions please will it help me attract the ladies? lol

2007-12-30 01:58:45 · 16 answers · asked by paul265116 1

okay im in love with this girl and she is in love with me. she has a boy though but she cheats on him all the time with me cause she tells me she wants me too. She still wants him though and tells me she cant let go of him because she has tried alot of times and always takes him back. They've been together for 2 years and i just started hanging with her 3 months ago. I always get hurt though because she still does sexual stuff with him and her mom doesnt want me to be around her anymore, so she is usually with him everyday and i only get to chill with her like two or 3 times a week but the boyfriend is always there so i cannot hold her or anything. Idk if i should let go and move on, because if i told her i found another girl she wouldnt even be my friend anymore. So idk what to do. I am in pretty deep and its a hard situation because i do get hurt alot. If you could give me some advice on how to make her mine or what i should do that would be most appreciated. Thanks

2007-12-30 01:52:06 · 25 answers · asked by Jack P 1

I am a chinese girl !and I'm dating with my boyfriend now!and he's been asking me to do sex with him recently !but I am still a virgin! I am 20 now!I am confused !cos differ in America,chinese people always regard it as very important .and I am afried of being regreatful later on in life! now that I don't even know if he really loves me or he just want to sleep with me because it is my frist time!can any body help me ??

2007-12-30 01:46:21 · 16 answers · asked by Yiling 1

i have this friend, he's taken and his girlfriend is my bestfriends cousin. he confess that he love me. he was so sweet so i fall inlove with him too. what will i do now? i dont wanna lose him but he's aready taken.

2007-12-30 01:40:36 · 24 answers · asked by kit 1

I always heard that if a guy likes you he will call you alot. But, I don't think that's the case, at least not in my experience. Guys, please explain.

2007-12-30 01:40:31 · 17 answers · asked by Dimples 2

i dont have a horrible body i have medium length sort of wavy brown/black hair and im a punk who loves black and having fun

2007-12-30 01:28:21 · 10 answers · asked by ? 2

I know it sounds crazy but for me I would say yes ^__^ .
I have always felt ugly, unwanted and stepped over. It was like no matter what I do I would feel less in comparison with other cool and handsome guys weather at school or college. until I realized that me being ugly actually gives me a constant motivation to work on myself and become the best and the most successful person that I can ever be. yes, I do spend lots of time in my house but I use it well, for ex. studying more hours, study investing and busieness, drawing and modeling in 3d max, finding a new hobby .....and I won't attract girls for the wrong reasons :)
what do you guys think?

2007-12-30 01:21:40 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous

Myself and my girlfriend have been together for almost 2 years and finally feel we're both ready to loose our virginity to each other. However, our families after being good friends themselves fell out months back and don't like the fact we're still seeing each other, and our parents don't go out an awful lot so we're finding it hard to be alone to do what we want and have some privacy.

What I really would like to ask is what sort of place we could be alone where it is reasonably comfortable and we can enjoy the experience - obviously we've thought about renting a room for a night but she doesn't want that.

Any suggestions would be most grateful. Thanks

2007-12-30 01:02:23 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

A guy I have no relation to in friends or anything on facebook asked me why I was single... and asked me for my yahoo/aim im name. He doesn't even go to my school anymore, and just by chance thought my profile picture was cute. Should I give him an im name or is he just a pedo and I should ignore the whole thing?

2007-12-30 00:53:38 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

is this lady trying to give me a signal? is she sexually attracted to me?

2007-12-30 00:47:47 · 17 answers · asked by jsmithlong 2

i came up to you and gave you a hug?

2007-12-30 00:46:31 · 10 answers · asked by adam m 1

I've been talking to this guy for about a week and it seemed like we were getting along really well. Sometimes we run out of things to talk about but will think of things after a while. Lately he hasn't really said anything to me, is he sick of having to start the conversations? Would it be better if I talked to him instead? What is he doing?

2007-12-30 00:44:27 · 14 answers · asked by Mandy-Lu 3

Guys do you like a girl who is intelligent, interesting and has her own opinions.

Or do you prefer a very normal girl next door type who never does anything out of the ordinary and is just very normal and typical?

I usually see guys dating the boring, really normal girls and not the ones who have their own opinions and are interesting in some way. What's with that?

2007-12-30 00:42:36 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

in short, I love a girl. A year ago when i told her about my feelings she said she needed time (she liked me too)

Whenever i talk about situation she always say she needs time to think what she wants, and now when i asked again she said she likes me but we are not like other couples, we always like friends.

I think there is a misunderstanding because i thought she still thinking so all this time whenever we went out, I took it as we only going as friends because i was the one who ask her to go somwhere and I tried not to cross my limits as friends.
So i asked her out properly by sending teddy and flowers and asked for a fresh start. she said let her think as if dsnt work i will get hurt & she dnt want to. i told her ill wait for answr

Now after month, we went out for her bday.she was nice and ther was a point we held hands for lil while & also she held my arm while shopping.

PLZ, I need to know if its a sign she want to try, or she being friendly bcz we friends for 5 yrs

2007-12-30 00:39:09 · 25 answers · asked by iamconfuse 1

Can't believe I'm asking on here...
This girl and I were very close friends, she admitted she liked me more then that.
At the time I didn't want to ruin the friendship, although I did like her a lil in that way. Her girlfriends (also close friends with me) would tell me how much she wanted it to be more. A week after we start getting closer she announces she's going out with a guy, also in the same circle of friends. It's been 1 year, and we rarely have talked since then. I'm still hung up over it, esp the loss of friendship as well. Recently I was told she (in her friends words) 'was still obcessed with me when she got with this guy.But their Still together..I'm wondering if she's only with him because she couldn't be with me? But it has been a year.
The guy shes with knows how much she liked me and hes also a "sortof" friend. soI'd feel weird trying to make contact to her after all this time I miss her, but am unsure what to do.
My friends have no idea I like her so muchthis way

2007-12-30 00:34:21 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am male, college student, 19 year old virgin.

Before dating my ex, I was a shy kid around girls. I didn't understand them, but I always respected them. Girls were a luxury to me, and I promised myself if I ever had the chance to date a girl, I'd treat her well, give my virginity to her, and marry her.
However, my perspective on relationships drastically changed as I experienced the complications involved in a relationship. Dating this girl inevitably led to the destruction of my confidence and it's an experience I would like to stay away from for a long time.
I don't want a relationship anymore, but my raging hormones prevent me from leaving females alone. I'm not the type to pursue women for sexual play, but it's a lifestyle I would like to get into. However, I'm one of those guys with emotions and sensitivity; the type of guy who women usually see as "friends". I've made up my mind, I want to be the guy who rakes in all the sexual glory with strangers... but how?

2007-12-30 00:31:25 · 9 answers · asked by Stephen C 2