Singles & Dating - 30 December 2007

im thinking of calling this guy (we met at this college club at least 4 times...but he's 23 and im 18) to ask him to movies on sat/sun.

i feel really comfortable in calling him BUT
what im worried is
what if he says something like "oh sorry busy this weekend"

what should i do then?

should i be like "no prob. take care" and never contact again?

i've never dated btw XDDD

2007-12-30 06:48:45 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I went out with this man for 7 months we keep broking up he has some commitmnt problems & when he drinks him filts to much with other woman .Well we talk & brok it off last year .I went out of stat to get way from things like him ! It did not work to well but we did not have any contact for a while .When i get home i got a new job & was doing good i meet this man how is great we are seeing each other could not ask for better !
My ex started seeing some one 2 witch is good but We see each other out one day & talked for about 4 houres .He & I still feelings for eachother !! He told me he still loved me but dose not want to do any thing to mess up me & this great guy !
I have been seeing my Ex for luvch & talking alot when i can !
I feel very bad for doing this to my new guy but i cant lose my ex because he was my best friend not only my lover!
I have been depressed & feel so sad alot til i see my ex i feel happy again ! My ex asked me this how & what would i do if he wanted to get

2007-12-30 06:43:40 · 7 answers · asked by Hart 1

Ok at the end of 2005 I dated this guy (James) for a few months, and I fell completely in love with him. He treated me with respect and he wasnt like the other guys I've dated. I ended it, simply because at the time I felt paranoid about what my friends were saying about me and him, stupid and shallow i know, i regret it.
Since that, he's had girlfriends, and I've tried so so hard to get over him. There have been other boys that liked me, who were willing to give it a chance but I can never get James out of my goddamn head. I've tried everything. Literally everything. I've been on holidays away for weeks, tried having fun with my friends and forget about him, spend time with my family. None of it works. I havent talked to him properly in about a year, how sad is that? I feel pathetic for feeling like this. It's just i miss him so badly, and everytime he insults me as a joke, or just messing about, it hurts and I dwell on it for weeks.

2007-12-30 06:41:24 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was going good with a guy I've suddenly fallen madly in love with, and we kissed, and he said he was starting to love me, and we argued last week and he said we're not going anywhere, but he won't let us go back to how we were cos he thinks it won't be the same and he'll get bored blah blah, but I can't go out with him when we're like this, it's just not right!
I know he likes me, and claims he's starting to love me, but what do I do?? I've felt so depressed not speaking to him and I've been crying every day. Help!
What do I do next?
I'm scared he's going to say something that will upset me, I'm a bit emotionally unstable!
xx

2007-12-30 06:31:58 · 17 answers · asked by Noobo<3 2

Me and this guy have been talking a lot lately. We chat for hours together online, and we text a lot even during class, and study together too. When we are actually among other friends though, we are pretty platonic, even though we flirt a lot online and when we study. Recently, his friends brought it up to my friend how we talk online for hours together, and how this guy doesn't even do his hw sometimes so that he can talk to me. Of course, there is no way they can know this unless this guy told them. I guess he also told them we talk a lot at school and study together. They kept pushing it to my friend how I MUST like him if I talk to him so much. I'm not sure what that means...he acts platonic in front of our friends, but then is telling them we talk a lot anyways? Does he have a thing for me maybe?? And why would I be the one who likes him if we are BOTH doing the talking and flirting. Regardless though, I actually really like him haha

2007-12-30 06:29:46 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hi

I live alone which can be a struggle and lonely some times, I split up with long term financee a couple of years back. Since then I had small relationships which have ended up in heart ache, guess I know how to pick em lol.

My confidence is very low and I am feeling very low, bit lonely also I guess espeically at weekends. I recently started seeing this women its now a couple of months in, and found out on xmas eve she done the dirty on me.

Does anyone else have a rough few years like this, does it get better and all work out for the best in the end? I feel like giving up, sick of going to work coming home to empty house and getting hurt in relationships.

I hate being by myself and on my own.

2007-12-30 06:26:27 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hi guys,
Im pretty bored, yeah talking to some random guy who just i/med me, then I thought, Hey! y not have multiple conversations at once...So if u wanna chat, bout wutever the hell is on ur mind, or mine then i/m me!

Plus, im the chillest chick youll ever talk to

I only got 2 words

C'mooon!!

2007-12-30 06:14:31 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

At my school we get yearbooks at the end of the 1st semester which is only a few weeks away . I want something that says I loved being your friend and I think ur funny but not in an obvious way .

2007-12-30 06:09:31 · 2 answers · asked by Marli 3

Ok, i'm a fairly attractive man (i'm not amazingly good looking) and i am attracted to beautiful women (as all streight men are) but not so long ago i went on a date with an beautiful woman but she was so incredibly boring i actually went home early instead of going to her place, and i kno just about every lad will call me an idiot for doing that (all of my friends did) but she was so dull that i felt like walking out during the meal. now do most of you go for a mixture of a good personality and looks or just the one?

2007-12-30 06:04:04 · 47 answers · asked by ? 1

ONLY CHOOSE 3

- sweet
- romantic
- good in bed
- looks
- intelligence
- nice
- gentle
- respectful
- loves you
- funny
- exciting

ONLY 3 :P

2007-12-30 06:01:42 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

A couple weeks ago a women cut my face with a knife after we got in a heated argument. You never think someone is going to pull out a weapon when you're in an argument. *sigh* But anyway... the doctor told me that I will likely have deep scaring where I was cut. It starts from the bridge of my nose and goes down across my left cheek. Obviously, I don't exactly feel "pretty" any more - not even on my good days.

But be honest with me, is a girl with a scar like that even date material?

2007-12-30 05:53:51 · 15 answers · asked by 9th Life 1

y do girls usually go out with older guys, more than they go out with same age guys?

2007-12-30 05:51:45 · 14 answers · asked by thefirstamerican 1

used to know this girl when i was young(8 ish), we went round each others house from time to time and then we went to disneyland together. I had a crush one her when i was young and i think i told her or something? but nothing happend anyway.

Then she moved away for 5 years to america, and now's she back. The trouble is i really like her and she's 15 and im 14 but i don't no wat to do to make a move or anything.

We met up the other day for a party with my parents have't seen her since but spoke to her quickly a couple of times on bebo and msn.

But according to her bro she seemed slightly intrested ( i dont no how much though)

2 top it off shes really busy workin @ my step mums salon nd other skool stuff so cn nvr really get hold of her lon enough 4 a gd chat (no wat i mean)

i cnt get her out of me head, im deppressed a lot and only seem to be eatin 1 meal a day

I HAVE DECIDED 2 ASK HER OUT BUT DNT NO HOW I SHOULD GO ABOUT

2007-12-30 05:44:24 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

i'm 10 months in recovery, 50 years old, devorcing, don't go to bars or church, cyberspace affairs are vacuous. how do i meet women?

2007-12-30 05:42:16 · 1 answers · asked by bob 2

2007-12-30 05:37:16 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

what are the bases?
in order...?

2007-12-30 05:33:21 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Just in general. Thanks. :] Please be completely honest.

2007-12-30 05:28:43 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok so there's this one popular dude that everyone seems to crush on....but already six of my friends like him and so do I!!! If so, we always seem to argue on who gets him or not -___- (I hate competition!!) Also how do I get that popular guy to like me more than my 6 friends? Like what to wear and how to act? I really appreciate that :] <3

2007-12-30 05:24:20 · 14 answers · asked by Stacy's Mom 3

I know how women flirt, but how do men flirt?

2007-12-30 05:19:35 · 1 answers · asked by 1Up 7

I am in love with someone. our families are ready for our marriage but she wants pre marriage sex.
Is it right or not?

2007-12-30 05:17:17 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

I dont actually go out lots.. in fact I never go out but thats kind of what scares me...Im scared that I missed my whole youth. What Im wondering is if 22 is too old to start to go out and have fun?

2007-12-30 05:09:47 · 33 answers · asked by Cera Lily 1

im 20 and im 15 stone, i want your honest opinion

2007-12-30 05:03:45 · 53 answers · asked by Anonymous

What are the myths that you've heard about reguarding dating and relationships.

2007-12-30 05:02:35 · 3 answers · asked by Adeptus Astartes 5

Well.... I am in HS. And I like this girl. This girl figures me to be her best friend type of person. Whatever. So... shes then like, "can i tell you a secret, I like your best friend." . So, my best friend knew the whole time that I liked her. Once he found out he was like "I dont want to go out with her... blah blah blah.. we bros, i cant do that to you". 3 weeks later, they go out. Now, i still like her and I am unsure what to do.

Any tips?

2007-12-30 05:01:14 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

last night i was talking to my bf on the phone while i was in the tub taking a bubble bath
and i guess he heard the water or something because he asked me what i was doing and i told him i was taking a bubble bath.

then there was a long pause
then i was like what?
then he said nothing it's just that when i think of a woman taking a bubble bath i immedately think of her touching herself
and i said of course i'm touching myself i'm taking a bath
and he laughed and said no like masturbating
and i called him a pervert and hung up

why do guys always have to associate normal things with sex?

2007-12-30 04:49:07 · 8 answers · asked by ? 2

Say you were dating someone and it just didn't work out...you know you'll never be right for eachother as boyfriend/girlfriend. You are both very busy and don't really have time right now to start dating again but you still have "needs". You still have a lot of physical chemistry with this person so you want to be "Friends With Benefits"...what are the ground rules? Should we wait a little while after the dating phase to begin the fwb phase or just jump right in? What are some do's and dont's...lol. Thanks!

2007-12-30 04:38:52 · 12 answers · asked by Shera 3

i went to a nightclub last night, my regular, and i was chatting all evening to a chap i'd spoken to last time, he touched me up a bit, which really got me going, though i hid it well, he was obviously excited too, he wanted me to go back to his place, i refrained, but i really want to,as i was so worked up. we're kind've mates who really 'click' emotionally and physically. i have a free reign from my hubby to have one night stands and do whatever i wish, as long as i still love him, any thoughts? he's ok with me being an escort.

2007-12-30 04:35:16 · 17 answers · asked by chakra girl 7

I live in England but i heard this Ameican Man talk on yahoo chat yesterday and i was OMG...His voice was sexy as hell....Soooo Hot....any English girls think like me?

2007-12-30 04:34:20 · 14 answers · asked by karen_punto 2

ALL my friends have lost their virginity ( im the oldest at 15, everyone else is 14) Is this common in all schools in the uk or is it just mine? I always thought the average age to lose your virginity would be 17 but i guess its 14 now lol. I know people who lost it even younger. Personaly i am waiting till i find someone i love and im older but im just curious. Any answers would be appreciated. Im in the UK by the way.

2007-12-30 04:34:02 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

So me and a female friend went to a concert a few nights ago and just went as friends..We both had a good time and at the end of the night we were sitting in my car at her house talking and she hugged me said goodnight and got out.. she didnt give me the chance to walk her to the door. I just sat in the car and waited for her to get into the door, it was kinda awkward actually.. Is this strange? or was she was just nervous i was going to kiss her?

2007-12-30 04:33:45 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous