Ok, i'm a fairly attractive man (i'm not amazingly good looking) and i am attracted to beautiful women (as all streight men are) but not so long ago i went on a date with an beautiful woman but she was so incredibly boring i actually went home early instead of going to her place, and i kno just about every lad will call me an idiot for doing that (all of my friends did) but she was so dull that i felt like walking out during the meal. now do most of you go for a mixture of a good personality and looks or just the one?
2007-12-30 06:04:04 · 47 answers · asked by ? 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
A mixture of BOTH!
If she was boring on the date she would have been dull in bed...so you made a better choice by leaving early!
I did that with a Man who's attractive and everything BUT was too quiet,not a good conversationalist and ate with his mouth open and burped w/out excusing himself GROSS so I prematurely excused myself from that date and actually took home most of my meal/dessert and enjoy it myself!
2007-12-30 06:13:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I guess since you cannot tell the personality just by looking at a person, I say I go for both. But I am with you, it could be the most attractive man in theworld if he is dull or something else he is out. But also the most charming man has to be attractive to me in some way or he has to go. So you are not alone and you can be proud of not being as shallow as your friends.
2007-12-30 06:10:30 · answer #2 · answered by kerstin w 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I actually think someones personality can affect the way you see them, I mean Personality really does shine through just like they say.
Also if someone is really boring obviously you dont want to be with them just because of thier looks. However unfortunately for some people this works the other way round aswell meaning someone who isn't that stunning may have a great personality but they don't always get the chance to make an impression as people aren't attracted to them in the first place!!
Its a cruel world isn't it???
2007-12-30 06:09:42 · answer #3 · answered by MakeYourMakeUpRun 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
That's the problem with men, they always want to go out with really good looking girls (usually physically out of their league anyway, and they won't even settle for pretty, it has to be HOT), and very often these girls have let their supposed good looks go to their head, so they're annoying and arrogant shites.
Yes, it's true, I'm as shallow at first as the next person because good looks are what initially attracts me to someone, but as soon as I notice their personality isn't good, that's it for me.
And if I meet someone who I initially don't think WOW HE'S HOT, but I get to know him and see he's really sweet, he gradually appears more attractive to me, physically as well as personality-wise.
On the other hand, a guy can be insanely attractive at first but his disgusting personality can put me off totally, even making him seem uglier!
2007-12-30 06:21:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mainly personality- thats the most important thing, but you have to be physically attracted as well. You can't go for someone that makes you cringe whenever you go near them- so yeah, a mixture of both is ideal.
And in my opinion, you're not stupid at all. If she bores you, then well done! An admirable man.
2007-12-30 06:08:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I prefer a MIXTURE of both because I have both looks and personality so I would prefer who I am with to have both.
If I have to choose one, PERSONALITY wins. Everyone knows looks fade and cannot be fully restored perhaps upkept with plastic surgery but since most of us cannot afford all that--looks do fade as a result of aging, time, etc. Personality does not fade unless the person grows stubborn do to old age and resentment. This too can be avoided, imo.
2007-12-30 06:14:52 · answer #6 · answered by ♥CJ♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm A female so you might not even want to hear from me BUT,,,,you did the right thing by not going to the beautiful lady's place!!! There needs to be chemistry between 2 people for it to work and you will find the rght girl with personality and beauty,it might be the personality first and then you will see the beauty!!! Hang in there,, She may be right under your nose!!!
2007-12-30 06:11:39 · answer #7 · answered by MissMonk 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You should know by now that looks aren't everything, and that a good relationship will not be sustained by a ***** alone. Anyone worth dating (male or female) will have to have a brain and a personality in order hold someone's interest for an extended period of time.
2007-12-30 06:09:15 · answer #8 · answered by Lori 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I go for the mixture. The guy doesn't have to to look perfect, but not monstrously disgusting. I don't go out with boring guys. My guy has to always give me something to do, something to talk about, or I walk.
2007-12-30 06:12:23 · answer #9 · answered by colleenicole! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
state of affairs one million: The chooser is the guy who might desire to and has finished rights to make the alternative over who has the suitable character. You ask "who has the suitable?" - the reply to that's you have the suitable!!! Who else is meant to chosen for you. you have issues incorrect like some human beings do- we are meant to decide and choose, its what makes us human and how we be certain if we adore some thing, pass away it on your "God" to no longer be judgemental. state of affairs 2: Sorry yet once you do no longer experience stable a pair of ladies seems and character the two she would be in a position to experience that and it nicely at last fail no count what .
2016-10-09 21:39:20 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋