I am in love with someone. our families are ready for our marriage but she wants pre marriage sex.
Is it right or not?
2007-12-30 05:17:17 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think it helps the relationship. I'm engaged and we have sex alot.
2007-12-30 05:21:10 · answer #1 · answered by jaggernut 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
There could be religious implications that might hold up your wedding if you have pre-marital sex. Otherwise I think it is a great idea to confirm that you are sexually compatible. It also brings you together in a way you can't even imagine or explain.
Hopefully even if the sex isn't the greatest in the world she won't leave you and will stick it out. It sounds like you could quite possibly be a virgin so chances are you are going to last about 15 seconds with a condom and 6 without. She might look on this negatively and question whether she really wants to marry somebody who can't perform. I'd just let her know about your v-card situation (if this is in fact the case) and let her know that you love her and over time you will get better as you learn her body.
2007-12-30 05:25:29 · answer #2 · answered by thegrassisbrown 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
till you're making the vow in the previous God, you're no longer married. Sampling the products in the previous the vows is fornication and that's incorrect. intercourse replaced into meant for marriage to bind 2 human beings as one and if the act isn't gratifying to a minimum of one or the different, ahead of marriage, the celebration could choose to circulate away the relationship. If the two have been virgins, now neither are.
2016-10-20 10:11:47 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that comparing people in love to buying a car is not a good comparison. Is ok with you if several others have 'test driven' her?? If you like the idea of waiting until your married to have sex, then stand firm. Waiting makes for a great wedding night! I know.
2007-12-30 05:30:57 · answer #4 · answered by Romy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are in love there is nothing wrong with it thats your decision you don't have to be married to be in love. It's great that you ready to marry but you don't have to wait to have pre-marital sex I say it is right but it depends on how you both feel.
2007-12-30 05:20:20 · answer #5 · answered by ♫ Think happy thoughts ♪ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The fact that you have to seek advice from strangers on the Internet tells me it is YOU who are not ready and if this is the case you should not only wait, but explore your reasons for being so hesitant.
2007-12-30 06:46:45 · answer #6 · answered by Perki88 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say you should wait. Just to make sure she is not just in it for the sex. If she is willing to get married to you than have sex, shes a good pick
2007-12-30 05:26:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you are non religious, there is no pint for me to tell you it's a sin. But also, statistics says that couples who don't have sex before martiage have a small number of divorces, and are usually happier in their marriage. So I would advice you to wait, if you really care.
2007-12-30 05:23:39 · answer #8 · answered by ~MJ~ 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I think premarital sex is wrong but most people do as they please. I love when people compare getting married to buying a car and not buying a car until you take the car on a test drive.
2007-12-30 05:39:42 · answer #9 · answered by Dave 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
haha, you are lucky man!! it's not often that it's the female side who ask for it!!
Some marriage failed becos they are not compatible in sex after their marriage-of cos, i mean those who dun have pre-marriage sex lah..
So, maybe if it dun work as well on bed, maybe you can find your reason to back out sooner!! Haha.
2007-12-30 05:24:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is no such thing as right and wrong. It is about what works and what does not work. If it does not work for you then there is your answer. It does not matter what I say. It does matter what you think and want to do.
Good Luck
2007-12-30 05:22:02 · answer #11 · answered by LDB449 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋