y do girls usually go out with older guys, more than they go out with same age guys?
2007-12-30 05:51:45 · 14 answers · asked by thefirstamerican 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
we usually like more mature guys. some guys our age still act like kids and we want someone we can actually look up to and say "yea he's the one". but there are some guys our age that are matture. but thats just the way u like it.
2007-12-30 05:56:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
All kinds of reasons........ one of the main ones probably being that older guys are usually more financially secure, and as they've been around longer are often more mature had more time than the same age guys to learn from their mistakes and treat them better.
But then I also seem to have more luck with slightly older women than I do with same age, or younger ones.
2007-12-30 14:12:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Experience and maturity. Some girls won't go for same age guys due to their more thinking about partying, drinking and sex. Of course older guys think the samething, but they're more calm about it, plus girls seem to want to settle quicker than guys and what better way to settle down than to date an older guy who's more likely to be ready as well.
2007-12-30 13:59:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually, I've always tended to date older women - for the same reason that others have listed for women dating older men. Generally (not always) with age comes maturity - you have a better sense of who you are and what you want.
2007-12-30 13:58:14 · answer #4 · answered by lord_fen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a personal preference, not a gender-based one. Though, It's been statistically proven that girls tend to mature faster than guys. So, they prefer people who are on the same plane of maturity as them. Of course this is not always the case, which could be why some girls prefer to date guys who are younger than they.
Personally, I have an aversion to dating guys who are younger and/or smaller than me. It's not that I have anything against them, it's just that I'm not interested in them romantically. It's doubtlessly connected to the fact that I prefer hanging out with people who are bigger than me in general. I just feel most comfortable in a physical situation when I'm smaller than everyone else. Also, my romantic disinterest in younger guys could have something to do with the fact that I have a younger brother.
But yeah, diff'rent strokes for diff'rent folks and that.
2007-12-30 14:16:38 · answer #5 · answered by Sorcha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they just feel that they are more mature. they have a strange attraction for some reason. they usually get tired of being around same age guys
2007-12-30 13:57:47 · answer #6 · answered by Shell H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't speak for anyone but myself! I like older men because they are more mature, most have outgrown the wild party days, and they have life experience. They have decided what they want in life and just want to be content with someone they share interests.
2007-12-30 14:31:04 · answer #7 · answered by CuriousGirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually older guys have more mature converation and most girls think they are mature enough for that
2007-12-30 13:56:53 · answer #8 · answered by crazychic705 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Older guys have money and can provide security better Also many girls have Daddy issues
2007-12-30 14:01:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
older guys are more experienced, and most of the them are tired of playing with girls minds and mature enough to just stick to one . younger man want to have fun with alot of girls and then when they get older settle down.
2007-12-30 13:55:55 · answer #10 · answered by Love 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋