I was going good with a guy I've suddenly fallen madly in love with, and we kissed, and he said he was starting to love me, and we argued last week and he said we're not going anywhere, but he won't let us go back to how we were cos he thinks it won't be the same and he'll get bored blah blah, but I can't go out with him when we're like this, it's just not right!
I know he likes me, and claims he's starting to love me, but what do I do?? I've felt so depressed not speaking to him and I've been crying every day. Help!
What do I do next?
I'm scared he's going to say something that will upset me, I'm a bit emotionally unstable!
xx
2007-12-30 06:31:58 · 17 answers · asked by Noobo<3 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We are humans not pets
You can't go around putting "I Love You" leashes or cages around people.
Well unless there a type of Human Animal we call : Criminal
Both of you were "free" when you met, and it didn't stop ya'll from being "good friends" to each other.
Sorry but........not only dose he sound like a good Man ....
He sounds like an even better friend.
He just don't want to tie anyone up ,or be tied by anyone.
You just keep being his "friend" , and before you know it , both of ya'll will be "tied" with a really good friendship.
1 you can kiss on too............
1 that accepts each other for who they really are, and dose not try to control them , or get jealous over the other.
Try it........
2007-12-30 06:54:52 · answer #1 · answered by "Not today, Zurg!" 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as it has been aptly said:"if u don't hve a reason to die for , u are n't fit to live".so now u atleast have a reason.are u in really love with him or its just an attraction.....
if its attraction just donot pay any heed to him..and start your life once again with the same warmth and fun.
and if u r in love with each other then ur really in insane.so firstly
try to explain him the whole arena once again very much seriously and very calmly....if u think he is ready for the same..u can proceed and if not just leave him right at that very moment.......
its not at all better to be with such a man who donot care about ur feelings and ur sentiments......better give him a nice kick on his *** in he end..so he should remember u entire life........that he should never go for ditching a beautiful girl like u.....so better enjoy ur life....**** that bloody crap.....****** his ideas his values......just live ur life ur way......the way u wanna live like
so better be like a person of ur own rather than like a dumbshell....waiting for some other asshole to come and giving a favour
so tk cr..
enjoy ur life
from abhyudaya
happy new year,and merry christmas.
abhyudayaupadhyay@gmail.com
reply soon what happened
2007-12-30 06:52:08 · answer #2 · answered by abhyudaya u 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you really sure this guy s worth all that. All he could say was he was starting to love you. You confessed you were madly in love with him.
HE is already telling you he cant commit. HE might get board. What was that? Be smart don't settle for less! I no you love him, I understand, but already he is up front telling you he not ready.
2007-12-30 06:41:09 · answer #3 · answered by Michelle C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said you are emotionally unstable, and you will have to overcome that before you can have a normal relationship. And when a guy says a relationship isn't going anywhere, he means it. Time to move on.
2007-12-30 06:37:39 · answer #4 · answered by No Shortage 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A guy that makes you feel that desprate and depressed isnt worth your time. If he says he loves u but dosnt want to b w/ u than he cant love u that much, dont waste ur time cryin! find another guy that wil treat u right!!!!!!!!!! If he "loves u" so much he would'nt make u feel this horrible for this long. And if hes goin to make u freak out, hes just being a jerk!
2007-12-30 06:38:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ever on account that i grow to be little and til as we talk i've got continually referred to as my mum "Mummy" and my dad "Daddy". purely with the aid of fact they in no way replied to "mum"/"dad". and it rather is often caught, i think. comparable with my siblings, too. I swear each and every time my mom calls me at artwork, and that i answer asserting "hi, mummy", i'm getting the main strangest seems from my artwork colleagues. They continually locate that hilarious and many times take the mic. and that i will fairly see why that's humorous lol yet, that's in no way replaced, and that i doubt that's going to. dad and mom will continually be Mummy and Daddy. And in particular with the aid of fact they gained't respond to the rest from their babies! : )
2016-11-26 21:18:01 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
from the sounds of it he might just be messing with you and doesn't really love you. you probably should start trying to move on and look for a new guy. cause when you do either he will get jealous and start trying to get you back or you will see that you didn't really love him at all and you might just find out that your a lot happy er with someone else.
2007-12-30 06:43:59 · answer #7 · answered by UFO 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is amazing how guys tend to tell you they love you right before they break up with you. If it is meant to be your relationship will evolve. If you apply to much pressure and get worked up about it you will just damage yourself and the relationship. Let things happen naturally, if they do not it was not meant to be.
2007-12-30 06:36:24 · answer #8 · answered by discomic 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are with someone who is going to take you on a long roller coaster right up and down. I would get off the ride before you get hurt anymore.
2007-12-30 06:36:32 · answer #9 · answered by David M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, hes not being very nice to you. Become less available if you want him to come around... I would and have explored my options during times like this. Its not always Disneyland, peaks and valleys, but he shouldn't hurt your feelings... communication is the key to making it thru, hes not being careful with your feelings. Its not suppossed to be so much drama.
2007-12-30 06:40:29 · answer #10 · answered by chequemate 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋