Ok so there's this one popular dude that everyone seems to crush on....but already six of my friends like him and so do I!!! If so, we always seem to argue on who gets him or not -___- (I hate competition!!) Also how do I get that popular guy to like me more than my 6 friends? Like what to wear and how to act? I really appreciate that :] <3
2007-12-30 05:24:20 · 14 answers · asked by Stacy's Mom 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Get the leg up by talking to him and being yourself. When you talk to him act like you don't like him at all...you will stand out if you are the only girl that approaches him that isn't falling all over him. he will respect that and after he gets to know you he may start to like you. And as for your friends idk it's not good for girls to fight over guys and loose a friendship. So maybe you guys should just agree who ever gets him gets him. And not be mad at each other over it..it's really the best way
2007-12-30 05:31:25 · answer #1 · answered by Sexylova49 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, back off. The last thing this guy wants is a ton of girls getting in his way all the time. Call him or talk to him when none of your friends are around. Dress and act the way you usually do. You don't want him liking you for something that your not. Just give him space and tell your friends that you don't care. After a while the guy will come to you because you will be the only one who is leaving him peace.
2007-12-30 13:30:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
First, you can't "make" someone like you. I know this is a hard concept to grasp because I struggled with it for years. Be yourself if the popular boy likes you the best for it great, if not you will find someone who does and you will be much better off. If you try hard to catch this guy you'll have to try hard to keep him and you won't get much joy out of your own life. I really hope this sinks in, and I wish someone had told me this sort of thing way back when.
2007-12-30 13:34:31 · answer #3 · answered by hthr_1974 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You guys are immature. The answer is to not go for him because one of you is gonna freak out and end your friendship and that sure as hell aint worth it for a guy who will probably leave you in a month. Chances are the guy knows he's popular and he knows he can get any girl he wants so why even bother.
2007-12-30 13:33:15 · answer #4 · answered by Danny S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never compete for a guy, because someone will get hurt.
And this popular guy will not pick you or any of your friends. He will pass you guys around like ice cream because a guy like him wants a taste of it all.
He probably knows he's hot stuff and loves the attention.
Find a different guy who doesn't have a huge ego.
Besides, I will bet you ANYTHING this guy is a huge jerk. Actually, I guarentee it.
2007-12-30 13:37:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know what i think..your gonna end up getting into fights with friends..it may not be physically just verbally..your gonna have problems down the road if this continues(thats what it seems like)...and im curious to know have u even talked to the kid yet?..how do u know he is not a a**hole..so your just gonna fall in love with his looks?...i never heard of any s**t like that in my life..if u just like a guy for looks who has no personality, id love to see how long ur relationship lasts..and the last thing..you should what should u wear?..something that looks good..dont dress slutty to impress a guy..its hard to know thats its coming from me..but i dont like when girls dresses like that..its degrading to be honest..i mean yeah they look good..but its not worth it..and how to act?..dont pretend to be someone your not..so in other words..be youself..oh i forgot 1 ur questions..how do u get him to like you more..by talking to him and having a coversation..staring at him across the school isnt gonna make him walk up to you 1 day, just talk to him and try not to be the same boring girl that might approach him...and maybe u just might get him...
2007-12-30 13:42:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it is up to HIM on who he likes...and no amount of "competing" you and your friends do isn't really going to affect that.
And alot of guys think it is funny that girls would behave in such a way over him. He probably gets off on it, and thinks you are all silly.
Any guy who wants to be with a girl isn't going to let her degrade herself by having to "compete." If he really cared about her, then HE would go to her without all of these silly games.
2007-12-30 13:29:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It never works out with popular guys, almost all of them are gigalos. Even if you get him, you are gonna be disappointed... Find yourself someone quiet and cute.
2007-12-30 13:29:27 · answer #8 · answered by ~MJ~ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
girls are stupid... and then they get mad when the guy cheats on them - it's cuz you stupid girls keep choosing the best looking, most popular guy, and then - even if he's taken, you're going to still go for him...
the only way you can get him to like you better than your 6 other friends is if you are prettier than them (or he thinks you are prettier than them). so... you might need to think about
working out... getting a boob job, or other plastic surgery procedures...
people that say "be yourself" are stupid...
2007-12-30 13:29:51 · answer #9 · answered by Rob 2 · 3⤊ 2⤋
Its a shame that you and your friends would compete for a guy whos probably a jerk.
2007-12-30 13:28:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋