Singles & Dating - 17 December 2007

he is a friend but i may like him as more than a friend

2007-12-17 07:22:39 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

okay so i like this guy but there is about an 4 year age difference and i really like him and he really likes me but see he is older and expects to get alot from a girl but i am not ready to give him most of those things.......and i have told him that am not comfortable going all the way with him bc of the age difference.......and he said that he understands but yet i am not sure that he does.....i mean we know alot about each other and everything but the whole age difference thing is holding me back.......i am so confused on what to do.....i know that i have really stronge feelings about him and i know that he really likes me to but....i don't know!!!! see if i don't go for it then i will regret it and if i do go for it then there is a 50% chamce that i will regret it too. like if i do decide to go all the way with him after we have been together for a while then i get preg. then i will regret that too! i am so confused....HELP!

2007-12-17 07:20:17 · 22 answers · asked by Hottie 101 1

If you were in a 3 year relationship, and the other person forgot your birthday all 3 years and Christmas all 3 years and even Valentines day all 3 years. Would you be mad. Do you think I should be because its happening to me.

2007-12-17 07:16:28 · 12 answers · asked by Crimson 5

I want to get some feedback, closure and truth from an ex. I want to move forward, date new people, and find love again.

Relationship is frustrating as she shuts down....all I want is feedback, and closure. If she wants, what I want, closure and distance, is this too much to ask? How to approach it?

Possible problems is that she cheated, and treated me poorly, and doesn't want to come clean. But 19 months have passed...8 with no contact....should this be an issue?

2007-12-17 07:15:10 · 5 answers · asked by someguy_in_halifax 3

i really need to get over this guy!?! but i am still not sure how, i mean he seems so charming and sweet on the outside, but he has hurt me in so many ways, but im so stupid i just want to talk to him more then anything, and just hang with him or something, and that is totally messed up, because i need to get over him! any good suggestions on how to get over losers, i want some subtle stuff if you know what i mean? thanks in advance

2007-12-17 07:13:01 · 29 answers · asked by charlie 2

I'm 20 years old, I met a girl a looooooong time ago, probably about 5 years ago. We've had an off and on friend relationship.. In highschool we kissed (drunk) and then the next day she told me she wanted nothing to do with me. Then the same thing happened again a year later while I was in a relationship and we talked about getting together - the next day she sobered up and didn't respond to me for about 3 months. Then she contacted me and we acted like the situation never happened and went back to being friends, about a year ago we (drunk again) kissed and well you get the picture rinse and repeat. We didn't stop being friends this time we just never talked about this situation. I asked her out sometime after that and she said she just got out of a relationship... So I got pissed, stopped talking to her, and she somehow got back into my life again.. So were friends again I just feel like I'm addicted to this girl.. What should I do?

2007-12-17 07:06:23 · 10 answers · asked by Jetboy77 1

If i like a guy I can't look him in the eye or look at him at all. If you've seen my other questions I've seen this guy stealing glances at me but I'm way too shy to look back.

What can I do to help this, what would guys think if they knew I was this shy?? Any advice thats HELPFUL and please be nice. I'm trying to improve myself for the better.

2007-12-17 07:03:22 · 8 answers · asked by yeahrightlove 2

What do you make of it? Do you get pissed? Do you think of the guy any less? Or does it make you more intrigued?

I have been building some rapport with this girl in one of my college classes and got her phone number last week. I haven't called her yet and will be seeing her again on Wednesday.

I have been busy with work and other social stuff, but I plan to directly ask her out on Wednesday, by bluntly asking her when we are going out.

Just wanted to hear some female opinions on what they think when a guy doesn't call.

2007-12-17 07:01:13 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Yesterday, I was shopping at a local mall and was carrying a few small packages in both hands, when I meet a female co worker. We stood in the isle talking, and I noticed some girls (teens) were snickering at us. I kept talking to her trying to ignore them. Then I noticed they were looking at my crotch.
I didn't know it but my fly was open, and the end of my johnson was taking a peek. That's when she noticed it too. She smiled and asked for my gifts, which allowed me to put it back and close the door. I was so embarrassed. She hasn't said anything, but smiled at me when I came through the front door of the office. But, could I get in trouble by the police if I go back to the mall?

2007-12-17 07:00:16 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm a teen(female),and i recently found out that masturbating is normal for us because it helps to calm our sexual urges.Right now i just need help,can anyone tell me how to do it and i mean so that i can calm my really bad urges.I mean like expert advice!!!!!!!!(I am still a virgin and i don't intend to have sex for a LONG while)

2007-12-17 06:59:57 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay so I have this friend at school who has this HUGE crush of this guy I know. She's terrified to talk to him since she doesn't know him that well and he doesn't go to our school so she doesn't see him often. The guy she likes is a semi-friend of mine. We're not really close but we talk whenever we see each other. I offered to help her out but now I don't know what to do. I got his home phone number but I don't want to just randomly call him up and say, "hey my friend likes you" (especially since we aren't close friends). What can I do? How do I get them together without making either of them uncomfortable?

2007-12-17 06:57:18 · 4 answers · asked by GreenEyedGirl 3

wel i been with my bf for 4months. And i want to know if i should be with him ?? he tells me that nothing is going to change between us but i ready dnt know wat should do?? I dnt want to do things wrong n plus is going to be my first time n yup Iam 18 years old

2007-12-17 06:54:24 · 2 answers · asked by Jackie 1

My girlfriend, who I really like, has just shown me her sexual urges. Last night, as we were making love, she tried to de?fecate in my mouth. I am not sure what to do. What should I do

2007-12-17 06:49:34 · 10 answers · asked by OUSooner 2

I'm bisexual and I want to admit in love to another bisexual girl. How is better to do it. Suggest me any beautiful words, pliz!

2007-12-17 06:49:10 · 9 answers · asked by sweetaylin532 1

do you all think you are gentlemen-
think you have good manners?

2007-12-17 06:45:42 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok ive never done it so i wana know... how does it all work out?

do women usually carry condoms on them just in case...?

or should guys have them stored at their place or even on them?

these arrangements aren't addressed in popular culture... like in movies they just do it... kinda kills the moment if u gotta stop and got to 7-11 for condoms... so that leads to my nexy question:

is sex always planed out so u can get the condoms or does it just suddenly happen with no warning?

and do u ejaculate with the condom on or off when your done? girls do u expect to be ejaculated on?

2007-12-17 06:43:47 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-17 06:40:30 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

I make a little comment about a woman packing on a little too much weight, and I'm a jerk. All I did was take the twinkie out of her hand and say "anymore and you'll start mooing!" I was being humourous and trying to help her out, for crying out loud! I just don't get it; I tell her I don't find all that flab attractive and she gets insulted---I'm just being honest!

Why do women take every little thing wrong???

2007-12-17 06:39:33 · 32 answers · asked by Jack B, goodbye, Yahoo! 6

my family doesnt kno, how is the best way i can tell them, the guy im with really wants to meet my family however my family is "somewhat racist" and if it matters ima white gurl with a black guy.... please help!

2007-12-17 06:38:40 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Eventhough I have a girlfriend. I won't have sex with her or anything I just want to sneak over there and see what she is doing. She is really fine. What
are some of the ways I could do it without getting
into trouble with my girlfriend?

2007-12-17 06:37:48 · 6 answers · asked by Michael 1

Is anyone else tired of these commercials?

2007-12-17 06:29:48 · 48 answers · asked by icunurse85 7

I ask this in fashion on a whim. Answers in relationships suck, and my gf is into clothes and style, so maybe somebody here can relate to her

Me and my gf went out for half a year, broke up, and then got back together. we only broke up for two months, and that was cause of a mix up. when we were getting back together she admitted that basically, she'd been the type of girl that had a one nighter hear or there. not excessive. like once every six months. but she said she would get the urge for a make out or more with the wrong type of guy about once a month, usually right before her period, and about every six months she'd cave. i asked her if she ever cheated, and she said not on me.

Compared to me, she is a realy sexual person. sounds unusual that the girl would be more sex driven then a guy, but in this case its true. I’m busy and tired a lot, and just more easily satisfied I guese.

now - i never told her this, and it sounds sick, but the thought of her hook up is intense for me. In fact, the though of her being the wrong type of a girl is intense. Like being with a sexual rockstar. like a turn on. i fantasize about it. what happened. etc.

I’ve breached the topic, and talked about the possibilities, but when we were fooling around - and I act like its dirty talk I’m doing for her benefit - like to make sure we take of her itch before or after she goes out with her freinds.

i realy realy want to give her the go ahead to do it again. call me crazy, and i'll admit it. i want to give her a rubber, and say use at your pleasure. Like, she’s not a ho, so it won’t be like she’ll be doing it every time she goes out, but in the rare time when she really feels it, I want her to feel like she can without ruining our relationship. For me, I think the risk, and not knowing, and the cahcne something is hoppening is HOT!!!!!

I want to tell her but I’m worried about her reaction.

2007-12-17 06:29:47 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

Me and my g/f have been going out for 8, close to 9, months and she's a really great girl. We have a lot in common and we care about each other alot. However, she has been having thoughts about whether or not we should be together (if i'm her Mr. Right) and its causing her great deals of sadness/guilt to where she cries or becomes stressed out...should i take this as a sign to just end it for her sake or keep trying to explain why she shouldn't worry herself about it?

2007-12-17 06:28:18 · 28 answers · asked by Dillan 1

Me and my boyfriend live together and he is always eating up my snacks after I specifically tell him not to; He has his own snacks, but after he eats all of his, he eats mine! I am so fed up! Is it wrong to kick him out?

2007-12-17 06:27:06 · 22 answers · asked by shalwalk 1

I am dating a woman who just became an officer in the military. She will have to go away to school for a few months. She also has various trainings/exercises where she is away. I guess I just wanted to know from those who have experienced it- how bad is this whole situation. I love and trust her dearly, but also know that she is a very pretty woman and I guess I assume that military men would attempt to proposition her, etc. She does admit that while she was serving in Iraq a few years back (for 13 months) she cheated on her then boyfriend- she claims she learned her lesson about sleeping with "a person she also has to work with" and says there is no way she would ever do it again. She also says that she thinks she did it because the relationship with the then-boyfriend was pretty much dead anyways and being in a war zone and facing death on a daily basis kind of was rough on her. So with all that- can anyone in the military or dealing with a military girlfriend give advice?

2007-12-17 06:24:33 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

This is a folow-up.My wife cheated on me before with a good friend of ours, or was.That was about 6 years ago. They used to live next to or home but move shortly after. I also walked in on her kissing another man at a party about 10 years ago. The first man she was seeing for about 5 months.What are the chances that she is still seeing the man or e-mailing the man that lived next to our home with his wife and kids. I know she liek him ALOT, maybe even fell in love, or lust with him. When she was seeing him, she was very sexual with me, that is kind of how i knew. I got the left over FIRE!! I still to this day walk in on her mostly early morning on her work computer but dont get close enough to see what she is reading or typing because she will click to another screen or click off and lock the computer. She says she is working but this has been going on a long long time and I think she is maybe Emailing him at his home too. She is not much sexual with me too this day ither.

?????

2007-12-17 06:18:54 · 13 answers · asked by danomanfishing 1

okay i've been on and off with this boy and hes in a higher grade and he's like the sweetest guy ever and he's all i ever wanted in a boy. but next year he will be in high school and i wont, and im afraid he will forget about me and like other girls and i know i will still have feelings for him. i've talked to him about it a lot and he said he wont forget about me but i dont know.

2007-12-17 06:15:00 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend of six years has a best friend that is ALWAYS around. He even thinks it is funny when people call him my second boyfriend. It's gotten a little better since he recently got a new job and is working out of state, but he still comes in every saturday night. Therefore instead of an evening out with my boyfriend we have to have his friend tag-along every sat. night. And the worse part is that my boyfriend doesn't see any wrong in his annoying friend. I've tried to find him a girlfriend to get him off our backs but no one can tolerate him! Any suggestions?!

2007-12-17 06:13:45 · 10 answers · asked by Spa Consultant PB 2

Ive been with him 3 yrs and its getting shaky- too many things I am not happy with- and Im really considering breaking with him- yet I hate to do it right before X-mas.... should I retain the relationship throughout the holidays- yet not be overly fake- and do the deed come January?
This isn't about a present either- because due to finances- we agreed to keep it very simple.

2007-12-17 06:06:00 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

i was iceskating with my friends and this one guy that i like kept coming up behind me and either snapping my bra straps or grabbing my shirt and the back of my bra.
it was so annoying i wanted to kick him but i just told him to stop but he kept doing it and i know it was on purpose.
why the heck do guys do that?
and how can you get them to stop.
thanks.

2007-12-17 06:01:33 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous