Singles & Dating - 17 December 2007

I fell for this woman a couple of months ago and last week built up the courage to tell her, she is devorced of 7 years and we get on really well, she says she has feelings for me but doesn't want to feel insecure around me if we went out, due to me being younger. I want to move on but my feelings won't pass as I think her excuse is overcomeable. It hurts so bad and I don't know what to do. All constructive advise welcome

2007-12-17 13:29:48 · 27 answers · asked by r9eds 1

This was the girl who said hi to me every day with so much enthusiasm she even smiled and waved when doing it. But now when no other girl was good enough the one I thought liked me has not done anything else to show for it but this-
At the dance she smiled at me and said Hi and waved at the same time and said my name while doing it. Here is how it went when I asked her out
The story starts out by my friend telling her I wanted to talk to her, she said hold a sec. Then she came over to me and stood very close and looked at me dead in the eyes. I said hey do you go out with anyone and she said no. Then I asked her does she want to go out with me and she smiled. She smiled like she was flattered. Then she tapped me on my left arm twice while saying" I'll have to think about that Cameron". I asked her if she wanted my numbeer and she said okay with enthusiasm. I gave it to her and she asked me did I already save it. The dance was December 14, it's the 16th and she ahs not called

2007-12-17 13:26:29 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

How many of you waitied until marriage to have sex?

How many of you are waiting till marriage to have sex?

How did that work for you? And are u happy with ur choices?

2007-12-17 13:26:16 · 45 answers · asked by Anonymous

I met a woman not to long ago and recently found out she had implants. I have always said I would never date a woman who had implants because women who get that procedure done are shallow and she would probably pick apart my imperfections. Women say size doesn't matter but they are the ones getting the enlargements.I think I am going to end this relationship

2007-12-17 13:16:30 · 17 answers · asked by Steel D 2

i like this guy and he doesnt know it and i want to tell him but i dont want to feel weird afterwards and what if he doesnt like me? any advice on what to do?

2007-12-17 13:16:00 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have no real experiance with this love thing and have limited knowledge on it. My best friend just found out that the guy she loves just moved away. She moved away back in the summer, but still had some contact when she visited with her aunt out there. She never had a chance to tell him how she really feels. I've had that happen to me and my best freind (still waiting for her to write me back on my page), but still have no clue what to tell her. I dont want her to be all depressed and down. If you guys can help with some good words of encouragement, it would be greatly appreciated. blessed be

2007-12-17 13:12:36 · 1 answers · asked by corpsmanlove1! 3

Ok, so here's the deal. I like this person, and I thought that he liked me too. He was always flirting w/ me and i thought I thought that I was reading the signs correctly. But I found that he doesn't like me, but he likes my best friend! She has a boyfriend, so she doesn't like him. I never told anyone that I liked this guy and know I think its a good thing i didn't. I am really upset and confused. i don't know what to do. How can i make him like me? My Best friend rejected him, but I still like him and can't stop! =[

2007-12-17 13:10:53 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

i like this girl from work ..i am 30 shes 24. shes cute i flirt . i bring her donuts or food or help her at everything . I talk to her . i try to smile at her at all the time . i give her high fives .. i really like her but there is a problem i have 3 kids and a girlfriend ..yeah .. suc*ks n ways. she didnt knwo this till a nother girl killed it for me and said aloud oh hows your kids and the girl i liked said .. WOW.she was surprised .. i think she liked me .. but not no more .. i am sad .. she even said how come i didnt go to the x mas party ? what was i doing ?

do you think i should go for it ?

2007-12-17 13:05:51 · 13 answers · asked by oc714dude77 1

HEEEEEEEEEEEEEEELP i like this girl so much but i don't know what to do =[.

2007-12-17 13:03:39 · 71 answers · asked by ?????? 1

and settle for the best bargain on the street?

Would not that save us all the pain and the heartache in trying to find one true "genuine" love which is "everlasting"?

2007-12-17 12:59:24 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

there is this gril at my college that i talked to a few times over facebook and was in one of my classes.....i think she really cool but idk asking her to go some place on a date would be weird...i have only talked to her in person like twice and it was only to say hi.... it is weird to ask someone out i dont know at all?

2007-12-17 12:48:18 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok so this guy is like way hot and super sexy to the max !!!
me and my friends want him ohhhhhhhhh Baby!!!
but we did something very stupid and now we think he is going to think we are crazy people what dhould we do ??
any tips thanks

2007-12-17 12:45:34 · 17 answers · asked by jenna 1

OK, well, I love my boyfriend to death, withall of my heart. I want to be with him forever. We've been together a year, and recently things have been at the worst. I messed up a while back, just by being too "emotional" or whatever, but I wanted to be with him so much and so I decided to do better and I have. I've definitely done all I can for him. Well, things used to be wonderful, we were so close and I could tell he wanted to be with me everyday and I could tell he was just as crazy about me. Lately it hasn't felt that way. Because of something I did a while back, he's said he's "lost feelings for me", but yet he still wants to be with me. I found a journal of his where he mentioned wanting to be with other girls, and how he regretted not takling to someone, and how he HAS to talk to this one girl sometime this year. And I just broke up with him, I wasn't upset, I just felt so disrespected and worthless, so I let him go. But he kept calling me, and of course I DON'T want to lose him. Now I'm thinking about moving, I want to just be his friend so he can think about whether he really wants to be with me or not. I told him this, since he's supposedly lost feelings for me. But he never does anything for me, he never asks to be with me, he never wants to call me because he truly wants to. I can just tell he's lost feelings for me as well. As heartbreaking as it is, I told him I'd be his friend while he thought about, but he says he's sure he loves me and he;s sure he wants to be with me forever. He keeps changing his mind. I want to believe him because I want to be with him, but I don't know. I know nothing will probably change and I'll end up hurting again. What should I do???

2007-12-17 12:45:31 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

So three guys
one is same age as I am, a lot taller (nt that it matters) I talk to him regularly, some common interest, not sporty at all, smart but weird eyes. nice & great personality.

Other is like litle taller, sporty like me but shy and is 1year undr me in age. Signs that he like me: dif thigs, but then blew me off. He stoped talking 2 me since Nov. don't know what I did. He went out w/oldr grl last year and she broke his heart. I don't want to hurt him just so I can have him. Im going to college so is it pointless??

I feel like Im out of my mind because there is a third one. A "crush" he is like 2years older already in college, we go to same church, talked some, totally HOT but then again I don't know him that well. there were hints that he liked me: waited till I was ready and waked outside with me when it was raining, i walked on, looked back and he looked around for me and then went back inside.

sounds lame i know but I need help. should i go with shy, hot,or nice

2007-12-17 12:44:42 · 1 answers · asked by Elizabeth 1

i mean like anything, long hair, short skirts, laughing.
just like what is it that makes you look at a girl anf go, huh?lol
im just curious to see if guys are as shallow as i think or if i underestimate them.

2007-12-17 12:40:27 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

so my neighbor and i have been really good friends for several years but now i think im falling for him.......do you think he is with me? He is always looking at me when i look at him and he seems to always point me out singlely when having a conversation. my friends say he like me but im not sure? i had his sister ask him what he tought of me and he said that im a really good friend? is it good to date a really close friend? what are some signs? I JUST CANT GET HIM OUT OF MY HEAD!!!!!! thanks!

2007-12-17 12:39:14 · 3 answers · asked by Michelle 3

ok i told this guy that i like friend that i did something and it was personal and i think he told him and now he is like looking at me and like asked me out and stuff and i think he only aske dme out becuse of what his friend told him should i say yes or no i really have liked this guy for 4 years

2007-12-17 12:38:37 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

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hee hee hee...I made my friend ugly.

2007-12-17 12:29:06 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

Me and my ex were dating for a couple weeks when she decided she was not ready for a serious relationship. Now were talking again and getting to know each other better but its like i feel her becoming more distant from me. How do i let her know i wont hurt her and get her to let her guard down? How do i get my girlfriend back? Im 17 in high school and i could really see myself settling down with her.

2007-12-17 12:28:51 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

There is a guy that I work with whom seems to be trying to make overture towards me. The problem is that I am not interested in him in that way. I like him as a person but that's it. The guy has no car, he has 3 kids and I am pretty sure that there is an old lady in the picture.

2007-12-17 12:26:31 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

I bought one the other day that said "i love you so much, but I just can't deal with you". And wore it when my ex boyfriend came over. I saw another one like it for females that said "you can have him".

2007-12-17 12:26:30 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-17 12:22:53 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous

im a virgin, and i keep saying that i am waiting for the right guy, that i trust. im 16, and i have never met him, but i still think i am young. but my question is, how do i know when i meet him?

2007-12-17 12:21:46 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have always had a wonderful relationship with my Mom, but now she is acting so pissed off about every thing, she says she accepts the fact that I am in love with a black man, but she had changed, and she doesn't seem happy any more, and I am getting depressed, help me

2007-12-17 12:21:40 · 3 answers · asked by Audrey 1

I dont like to hang out much. I like to be myself and stuff. Well anyway my main focus is on my studies, my friends are rebels, they like to have sex, do drugs and all. I like them, and hang out with them when I want to, but not all times.
Well when my friend tells me something about her like her boyfriend that she only knew for 2 days, it kind of upsets me because shes going through all this stuff, and im not. But I dont want to anyway but It still upsets, I think its not worth what my friends are doing but I still feel upset about that. Anything I can do?

2007-12-17 12:21:04 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

Me and my girl have been together for a year now but now all of a sudden shes always on the phone with her ex boyfriend....were still together and she even has conversations in front of me with him...nothing personal tho but one night she forgot to call me and two hours later called and lied...come to find out she was talking to him and now she even taunts me sometimes sayin ill be talking to him all night....i mean just to make me mad or is she really trying to break this off with me...i need a ladies opinion

2007-12-17 12:19:12 · 18 answers · asked by slimblack24 1

2007-12-17 12:17:45 · 34 answers · asked by Peter 4

I drove my boyfriend home - i wasn't expecting to have to leave so quickly - you know just.. drop him off and go with a quick goodbye ((i hate saying goodbye to him but oh well that's besides the point)) I didn't want to drive off right away... I just felt like sitting and chilling so i just sat in my car for a few minutes outside of his house. He calls me like wtf? telling me i'm a creepy stalker girlfriend and he's half considering calling the cops on me...
I mean i could've turned my head lights off but i wasn't thinking about that. ((you couldn't see me from the house anyway, i wasn't parked out front)) I was just relaxing a little before i had to get back on the interstate and go home.
On a scale of 1 to 10, how creepy is that? 10 being the creepiest.

2007-12-17 12:12:27 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hey! I am 23 and my boyfriend is 22 i am about to move in with him and i dont even know his middle name!!! I know it starts with an F but he wont tell me! do you think he is embarrassed or what?????

2007-12-17 12:11:56 · 2 answers · asked by Mychele h 2

So there was this guy I would talk to about a good 2-3 months ago. we would literally text every minute. we got into a big fight cuz this girl came in and started drama and we haven't talked since then. so now today i wanna text him but i dont know what to text him. like i cant just say "hey whats up" or i dont know. HELPPP MEE

or should i just forget about it...?

2007-12-17 12:05:07 · 28 answers · asked by theresa =] 2