I am tangled in between guys and really confussed?

Question

So three guys
one is same age as I am, a lot taller (nt that it matters) I talk to him regularly, some common interest, not sporty at all, smart but weird eyes. nice & great personality.

Other is like litle taller, sporty like me but shy and is 1year undr me in age. Signs that he like me: dif thigs, but then blew me off. He stoped talking 2 me since Nov. don't know what I did. He went out w/oldr grl last year and she broke his heart. I don't want to hurt him just so I can have him. Im going to college so is it pointless??

I feel like Im out of my mind because there is a third one. A "crush" he is like 2years older already in college, we go to same church, talked some, totally HOT but then again I don't know him that well. there were hints that he liked me: waited till I was ready and waked outside with me when it was raining, i walked on, looked back and he looked around for me and then went back inside.

sounds lame i know but I need help. should i go with shy, hot,or nice

Answer 1

Neither, because you have no clue what you need a relationship for, if you did, the choose would be easy. But you neglected that, your just lost, naive, and trying to figure things out (no offense) your dangerous to someones heart. SO personally, it doesn't matter, just have fun, and continue not to take yourself, or life to seriously, time to make some mistakes! Lmao, go after the hot one.....

I more then sure you still think sex is the most important part of a relaitonship, thats a good mistake to make frist....

I know, brutal, but the points valid, relationships are serious, deep things with life long consequences, when you realize that and feel it, choose can be easy, if you fight with it, things get confusing. You don't know what YOU need, so your just sort of at the shoe store and don't know your size, so to speck.......