my girlfreind is cheating on me but she doesn't know that i know,waht do i do?

Question

HEEEEEEEEEEEEEEELP i like this girl so much but i don't know what to do =[.

Answer 1

I think you should tell her that you already know she's cheating on you. wait and see if she stops, if not then she's definately not your girlfriend. she will do that again and again and you will get hurt over and over, so its best for you to just keep her as a good friend, that is if you really like her.

Answer 2

You have to tell her that you know about it and ask her why she did what she did. Hear her out but there really is no excuse for cheating. Just talk it over with her for a couple hours until you both reach a decision. If she thinks she's gonna do it again dump her if you think she will dump her. But if she feels like this was the only time tell her you need a little break from her so you can try to trust her again and if you can't dump her.

Answer 3

Oh my friend you may just have a golden opportunity to do things most guys only dream of doing and put yourself is a really good situation all at the same time. It sucks you have to go through that, but once you get over the feelings it may not be that bad. Here me out:

You can string her along for a little bit while you plan this out. But if you have it in you, you have the perfect opportunity to completely embarass and humiliate the girl, give yourself a bragable story that will disuede any future girlfriends from ever cheating on you again, make guys look up to you, and actually make girls look up to you too by gaining major rep. points. Or you could simply confront and dump her. It depends on what type of person you are.

You could string her along and keep the benefits of having a girlfriend going for a week or two, even get a Xmas present out of the whole deal. You could treat her like absolute gold and the princess she always wanted you to treat her like and make her live with the guilt of cheating on you (this will make her dump you eventually, so you can't string it out for forever).

Meanwhile, you're plotting some form of ultimate humiliation for her. You know, naked pictures slipped in all the lockers, a stip tease stuck on youtube, a book of embarassing secrets and things you've done to her exposed... something anything. Enlist your buddies to help you. For example: Mark got engaged to Suzie. They spent a lot of time and money planning out the entire wedding (brides parents typically front most of it). 1 month before the wedding, Mark found out that Suzie was cheating on her, so he hired a Private Investigater to follow her around and get some pictures. At the rehersal dinner, Marks speach went like this: "Ladies and Gentlemen, from the bottom of my heart I'd like to thank you for all your love and support and for being here this evening. I've prepared a special presentation for you if you will please find the envelope under your seat. As you can see, enclosed in the envelope is a series of photos taken 2 weeks ago of Suzie and her "other" boyfriend. Please enjoy the rest of your evening and the wedding tomorrow, I will not be attending." then he walked out.

You need to do something along those lines man! It's a GOLDEN opportunity. Can you imagine what that would do for you if you had THAT story under your belt?!?

Answer 4

There are 6 billion people on the planet. Roughly half are female. Out of those, 90% are str8 or bi. You can find another. Don't put yourself in a relationaship where you are always wondering if you can trust her. You don't want to keep getting hurt. Just last week my BF of 9 months did the same thing. We will always be cool to each other, but I will never trust him that way again. It doesn't matter how much you like someone if they arent worthy of your heart.

Answer 5

If you know this for a fact. Call up a radio station, have them call her. Let the station make believe she won a dozen roses and have them ask which "special someone" she wants them sent too. When she says "the other guy" get on the line and bust her on the air and make her look 1 inch tall.

"Lucy....you got some explaining to do..."

Answer 6

You confront her about but before you do so make sure your sources are reliable. Communication is the key to a succesful relashionship and if that doesn't work you tell her that things just aren't working out and you move on to another girl thatr is going to treat you better and respect your feelings.

Answer 7

you either forgive her.......... or you let her go.
if u keep her around the cheating she did will always be in the back of your mind. You can forgive, but forgetting is harder. Everytime she goes out, you'll wonder if she's cheating.

Its obvious that she doesn't feel as strong for you as you do for her - or she wouldn't have cheated.

This is really something only YOU can answer. It all depends on what you're willing to live with.

Answer 8

I know its gonna be hard but you need to dump her, I'm a firm believer in once a cheater always a cheater. You may like this girl so much...but if she liked you any she wouldn't be cheating on you. If you stay with her, your always gonna have a trust issue and if you can't trust her, your relationship is gonna be hard.

Answer 9

Tell her that you know, and how you found out. If she denies it, and you know for a fact that it is true, get rid of her. No one deserves to be cheated on. Find someone who will be true to you. As the saying goes, 'Once a cheater, always a cheater'. If she knows you will let her get away with it, she will continue to do so.

Answer 10

Look, I understand that you really like her but if she's going to cheat now, she's probably going to cheat if and when you get married. Dump her now. It'll hurt for a while, but it's so much easier to do now, rather than when you're married and have kids. Believe me!!!