Singles & Dating - 17 December 2007

Why bother asking questions when you are normally going to get a bunch of "amateur physcologist" answers?

2007-12-17 22:12:56 · 4 answers · asked by rockwynd1 2

2007-12-17 22:12:08 · 14 answers · asked by gangadhar g 1

Me and my bf having affair from past two years and i didn't give him any gift till now so i wanted to do something very special to him on this christmas and wanted to give something precious. Im not so much rich to give something very expensive but im wanted to make him happy. pls give some suggestions.

2007-12-17 22:08:17 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

when i tlak to people i think i come forward as someone really clingy and self-obsessed, i cant help but mension something about myself every 2 seonds...its a total turn off i know..and i think i pay too much attension to someone i may like, how do you give equal attension to everyone and still appear not desperate to get to know them..you know a bit reserved..

thanks!

2007-12-17 21:53:43 · 3 answers · asked by Jessica_Rabbit 3

She used to live here and we didnt meet until she moved. She sent them to my close friend that she liked for 2 years before she left but he never returned the feelings. He let me borrow his phone when mine broke and i found the pics. I already confronted her and she said she swears she loves me and only wants me, but on the other hand said shes known him too long to stop talking to him as a friend and promises it wont happen again What do i do?

2007-12-17 21:51:04 · 10 answers · asked by chris p 1

I met this guy about 6 months ago. He was great, but I noticed a change after a month or so. Come to find out that he was getting over a previous gf of 3 yrs. but he has known her for 25 years. They had only been apart 8 months.

All of a sudden, she seems to be back in the picture. She doesn't want him, but she wants him to still want her.

I really care about this guy, but I am beginning to feel taken for granted, and somewhat used.

What can I do to make him realize what he has in me? He says that he loves me, but I know that he still has love for her too.

He gets angry every time I try to talk to him about the situation. He says that I should not even bring it up. That just frustrates me more.

I need a strategy to turn him around, or I am out of there.

2007-12-17 21:47:33 · 12 answers · asked by PEGGY S 7

They start making "plans"...don't they know it's just a bit of fun?

2007-12-17 21:44:17 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-17 21:40:00 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

Just for the record, I do

2007-12-17 21:32:45 · 22 answers · asked by kagen_4 2

There's this girl that was initially my friend, which evolved into a very good friend for me, as i was for her. We went out together alot(i mean just me and her), and always shared problems with each other. Gradually i fell for her, and I sent her flowers one day. She told me not to chase her, and that's the only sentence that ended any discussion about our relationship. Somehow she became further and further out of my reach, and i can't stop thinking about her. What should i do? Working class answers only please.. thanks!

2007-12-17 21:31:35 · 10 answers · asked by RuBbish 1

My boyfriends ex girlfriend broke up with him broke in May, and we all worked at the same job. As soon as they broke up she went to rehab for 4 months for pills and a few months later me and tom started going out. She never contacted him after they broke up. As soon as she got out in October, she returned to work and completely ignored him, she looked right passed him, but he was trying 2 give her trouble at work, and was so angry that she was back! He even got in trouble with the managers at work. She wasn't doing anything to him when she came back and lately i've been noticing him staring at her. Every time she passes he looks at her. I am not bugging, other people notice it too! She is very pretty, every1 thinks she is beautiful, and very nice & funny. Apparently she told a coworker they broke up bc he called her friend that was a sl*t when he was wasted to "hang out 4 60 seconds" and didnt remember it, and she cursed him out. He thinks she is a B*tch

2007-12-17 21:29:28 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok, I met this guy at work. I really like him! He's good to me, he make me laugh! All the good stuff! But........ I'm still in love with my x.... I really dont think about my X when i'm with the new guy, But when i'm by myself, i think about him! What should i do?? The other guy said that he will wait till i'm over my x... Will that ever happend? can i ever get over my frist love? or I'm using this guy to get over my X? My X cheated on me, Thats y we're not together! And this guy make me feel happy and calm! I havent felt that in a long time! I just dont know what to do? Need Help!! ANYONE CAN HELP ME????

2007-12-17 21:25:58 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

Where did u meet ur current bf and who did the chasing...?

2007-12-17 21:23:28 · 18 answers · asked by rock_chick28 4

Hi

I have just started to get it together with a male friend of mine. We have been close friend for a couple of years, and he has always been there for me.

However, yet again, I am starting to panic about being in a relationship. I've been hurt many many times very badly by men, starting with my father and including my ex-husband, and have been physically and emotionally abused by everyone I've ever been with. Which has left me pretty messed up.

I know that *he* is not like this, but I'm still starting to feel like I want to run and hide rather than let him close to me.

Part of me feels if he were the right one then I wouldn't be feeling like this, but part of me feels that I just need to work through the hurt I've been through.

Logically, this man is everything I could wish for. But there's something that is still making me want to push him away.

Is it my instinct telling me he's not right... Or is it my fragile heart trying to protect myself unecessarily?

2007-12-17 21:21:00 · 16 answers · asked by rollacoasta 3

well, he really liked me. we hooked up. he still liked me. and i didnt like him and let him know it.
time passed...about a month..
then i started liking him, he still liked me. we hooked up again. things were going well. then all of a sudden he stopped liking me.

i talked to one of his friends who said '' you cant chase him, the best way to get him is to ignore him, but you may have already ****** it up for good by texing/going to see him a lot'


whaaaaaaaat

2007-12-17 21:00:38 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

gimme ratings (on the scale 1-10) for the below questions:::::

how much crazy are u to answer my previous questions:::

how much crazy are u kno my name :::::

how much crazy are u to see my pic:::::

how much crazy are u to chat wid me:::::

lol.bye for now....uhm thnx =)

2007-12-17 20:51:10 · 11 answers · asked by nothing special 3

I met this guy about 6 months ago. He was great, but I noticed a change after a month or so. Come to find out that he was getting over a previous gf of 3 yrs. but he has known her for 25 years. They had only been apart 8 months.

All of a sudden, she seems to be back in the picture. She doesn't want him, but she wants him to still want her.

I really care about this guy, but I am beginning to feel taken for granted, and somewhat used.

What can I do to make him realize what he has in me? He says that he loves me, but I know that he still has love for her too.

2007-12-17 20:47:27 · 16 answers · asked by PEGGY S 7

ok i know this may sound strange...i am a college student and im studying engineering...im a straight A student in eveything and i feel like im missing something...in my whole life , i've been living with calculus , physics, programming and all these crazy stuffs but when i see my friends i thinkg they know more artistic things, like they talk about art , poets , writers , musicians and i think i need to learn more about art and stuff...what are some good books to read like about psychology , philosophy or something interesting which gives me interesting topics when im on a date... does any girl would like to talk about engineering things when she is on a date ? lol, i hope so cuz i can amaze her with a little robot !

2007-12-17 20:47:06 · 13 answers · asked by Ali 4

my girlfriend bought a strap on and wanted to try it out on me. I love her very much so I agreed. Well its been 2 weeks and it still hurts to sit down. Is this normal? If so how do homosexual men get through life? It hurts alot.

2007-12-17 20:40:05 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

not to look for someone else,,

2007-12-17 20:36:01 · 18 answers · asked by windy 1

2007-12-17 20:30:02 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-17 20:29:18 · 1 answers · asked by Ali 4

It's a question of a person who says it's eternal question !!

2007-12-17 20:28:33 · 4 answers · asked by citizen high 6

Why is it that I'm always depressed about something. I'm like always trying to find my self. Sometimes I just days out. People starting to think I have problems because of the way I'm actting.

My girl friend just broke up with me but I still freaking like her. Everytime I see her I try to act like something I'm not. I'm always trying to impress her. She said we can still be friends and I'm really nice to her but she NEVER CALLS ME. I really want to make this thing happen again but I think she made it's care its over. Yet I can't get over her.

Last "Acne" lol...I got this stuff that works well but now I'm scared to eat. They told me to eat stuff with Vitamin C. I CAN'T EVEN EAT WHAT I WANT TO EAT NOW!. Like my big sister gave me candy and I'm like "I don't want it" looking like a freaking clown scared to eat a piece of freaking candy. Some freaking girl said I looked ugly!...Funny but true I'm starting to believe it.

P.S I told my GF how I really felt and scared her away...lol

2007-12-17 20:25:33 · 11 answers · asked by ew 2 de extreme 4

ok, i have a guy friend that i've known since the third grade and i am now 23, and all that time i haven't gone out with him. Since hurricane katrina happened, I got back intouch with him, and we got to talking about if we went out together what would happen. anyway, now it seems that I am finally realizing that i may love him, but im not sure how he feels about me. So is there anyway that i can tell him that i love him without me scareing him off or without him out right rejecting me?

2007-12-17 20:23:47 · 7 answers · asked by princess_selena_491 1

It was morning about 10:00 and someone was at my door, i just got up so I wandered downstairs and opened the door and standing there was a serious hot young girl selling magazines.
I mean she was a little natural looking plain hottie, She asked me to buy some magazines after giving me the whole speil about trying to win a trip to Italy.
I said come in and I offered her a cool-aid and we talked about traveling and the magazines that I was not interested in, She said to me are you home alone maybe your wife would like a magazine?
I said I was not married and she moved closer to touching me and we kissed, I was in heaven to have the lord send me this tramp, We ended up in bed for an hour and she left, I`m concerned because she was young very young maybe 15, I feel bad but, I have not seen her again and what if she comes back and accuses me of something?
Could I go to jail? I`m 45

2007-12-17 20:22:37 · 8 answers · asked by Kiss 1

to find your perfect match

2007-12-17 20:12:32 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-17 20:10:10 · 12 answers · asked by Cowin L 1

2007-12-17 20:02:51 · 14 answers · asked by baba buttons 2

We broke up one week ago, her decision. She wants to be friends. says that we can be friends, start from the beginning, and take things slow. She doesn't want to see me right now bc she says i still have feelings and only when i can be her friend we can see each other..

We started out our relationship really fast from the get go, three weeks of knowing each other and have been dating. for 2 months, until last week.

It is so hard to see her as a friend than a gf.
She says she wants to be single, have fun with her friends..

what should i do?
is it the end?
this is really bothering me.

She has been hanging out with her guy friends and will take vacations with them this holiday. She wont even spend Christmas with me, instead it will be with someone else whom she calls a friend, an the unknown gender, due to information, when i spoke with her three days ago. In doing no contact and will try to heal my inner wounds.. hope i will be okay and over her soon. thx for reading.

2007-12-17 19:46:09 · 9 answers · asked by mangolove 1