Singles & Dating - 17 December 2007

Every time a pretty girl comes around my friend seems to get real moody. He's quite good looking so I dont know whats up with his scenario. Does he dislike women or what?

2007-12-17 19:29:46 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-17 19:28:32 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I started talking to this guy knowing he had a girlfriend right off the bat. I just thought it would be a fun time. However, I started getting very attached to him. I told him, maybe twice, how I feel about him but he doesn't do anything about it. He's still with his girlfriend. I have come to realize that he will NEVER leave his gf for me and I have told him to leave me alone and have stopped talking to him. But he can not leave me alone. He would still call me and flirt, and we ended up messing around again. We haven't had sex or anything but it's really hard to get over him. Then I just had it and I'm determined to discontinue this relationship. Does anyone have any tips or advice on how I may get over him?

2007-12-17 19:13:14 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

tattoos?

2007-12-17 19:11:31 · 9 answers · asked by dragonfly 1

this happened a couple of months ago and its been bothering me quite a bit. i am no longer a virgin but in august(i was a virgin) i was very drunk with this guy and we started kissing and made our way into the bedroom. the kissing led to touching and fingering and then he gave me oral. the next thing i remember was him on top of me...and well its kind of a blur. i think we had sex but not sure because i was quite sore the next day but didnt bleed or anything. how do i know if we had sex, i didnt ask or cant ask because i was leaving the next morning and left him asleep :s

2007-12-17 19:06:57 · 12 answers · asked by audrina001 3

My boyfriends ex girlfriend broke up with him broke in May, and we all worked at the same job. As soon as they broke up she quit and a few months later me and tom started going out. She never contacted him after they broke up. In about October, she returned to work and completely ignored him, she looked right passed him, but he was trying 2 give her trouble at work, and was so angry that she was back! He even got in trouble with the managers at work. She wasn't doing anything to him when she came back and lately i've been noticing him staring at her. She is beautiful & 100% italian tho. When i brought this up 2 him he says that i am crazy, and that he hates her and he wishes she never came back to work, and cant stand seeing her, but yet i see him stare at her still, or sneaking in lil glances here n there. I dont know what 2 think. He thinks shesa b****. He says he cares about me, loves me. I know its not a sin to look at someone, but its his ex and its constantly!

2007-12-17 19:02:01 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

whom ive been dating for 2 months? i have a well-paying job but don't want to be too expensive nor inexpensive please help!

2007-12-17 19:00:57 · 7 answers · asked by icecreamgal 1

ok on the 16th of december i tried to call my boyfriend he did not answer any of my calls,by the way we were together in the morning,i kept trying then a girl pick ups his phone when i told him who was that answering your call he just said that no one has answered what must i do or think in a situation like this,he then called me after some 45 minites and told me that he is outside he wants to see me and i refused to come out.did i do the right thing or not.please guys i really need your help.i haven't speaked to him til this morning.

2007-12-17 18:44:50 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Theres this guy I used to like in my old school, and another bunch of girls that I used to hate in my old school. Before, I used to hate these girls, because they were quite mean and they were really two faced. My old BFF was there in that group, and before, after a long fight, we used to hate each other so much, because they treated my BFF really badly. Anyways, now I'm in a new school, and I just heard that the guy I used to like is now with the mean people. I'm starting to have feelings about him again... and I really want to not let him to become 'mean' because he was really nice when I used to like him. What should I do?

2007-12-17 18:38:34 · 1 answers · asked by pingars 2

alright so, I like this girl a lot and we hung out like all day 2day. I made her laugh a lot and we got along great. We have just really started to get to know eachother. As people say she is..."way out of my league" any tips on how I can get her...in my league?

2007-12-17 18:11:09 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-17 18:06:29 · 10 answers · asked by London L 2

okay so i was thinking about puting this thing i wrote for my bf in a card for xmas what do you think tell me the truth cuz this is what it feels like so here it gos..

i love these feeling you give me, anytime i see you i get these butterflys and when you hold me in your arms i sont want to b anywhere else, i swaer its true cuz when you kiss me. i fall inloveall over again and tha way you look at me sends shivers down my spine, the way you make me smile by just one glimps, and anytime im with you i just cant stop smiling what im trying to say is that I LOVE YOU more and more everyday....




so what do you think plzzz tell me

2007-12-17 18:04:12 · 13 answers · asked by CRiPPLE! 1

hi all i need some advise... i think im falling out of love with my partner i dont want to but i cant help it, we were so in love when we met but i think the "honeymoon period" is over, he is different with me too. i dont know what to do with this i have been feeling like this for a while now but ive been trying to block it out.. i dont really look forward to seeing him anymore like i used to (he works away 4 days a week) and he seems blunt towards me i might be over reacting but thats just me when ive told him i love him he gruffly says it back but after we have sex he says it but that hasnt even been happening lately he just cant be bothered or i cant be bothered normally we have a great sex life. im just not that interested anymore and i feel like something is missing in my life i thought it was as fulfilled as it could be but lately i just dont know. any advise would be appreciated. thanks to all

2007-12-17 18:03:00 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

sorry this is so rude, i think it would be reported in a
second,should i go ahead anyway or not?

2007-12-17 17:59:49 · 8 answers · asked by fozz 4

wut do i do when im in a situation where my mom doesnt agree im 21 years old and she doesnt want me to leave just even for a vacation im so sad . she told me if i leave that i cant come back? i feel so mirable i dont know what to do? any suggestions my bf payed the ticket though! he told me its my decision?and its true! he gots a point but see i dont want to leave my mom all mad at me?

2007-12-17 17:54:57 · 2 answers · asked by my 3

i miss this boy so much. just got home for xmas break and cant stop thinking about him. we've never hooked up but hes flirty with me and jokingly hints about making out. lately, the sexual (eye) tension has gotten intense but the only way i really know how to show him is to be mean..i have two older brothers and i have a somewhat tough personality when it comes to guys so its hard for me to be affectionate. i cant be the one to make the first move but i'm pretty sure hes kindof insecure about approaching me..i have a tendency to intimidate guys i think. he plays games with me when hes around his friends and tries to get me to admit that i want more alone time with him than he's giving me. sick of the games, just want to be with him but i cant make the first move..and i really dont want to mess up our friendship because we have a lot of mutual friends and i really do enjoy conversation and being around him. whattodo

2007-12-17 17:54:03 · 1 answers · asked by eliza 1

I'm 22. this all happened after only meeting her twice before....

She gave me her number awhile about a month ago, We had nice conversation and it lead to her telling me about younger guys that she has been with. She said it was fun. I then asked for a kiss, and she said NO. I back off and lost interest when I founf out that I wasn't going to get any. ( I asked for a kiss the second time she came over) Now, when I see her, she asks if I STILL HAVE her number? Why? She already rejected me. IS she playing hard to get? Or is she trying to see how far I will go to get it?

I saw her 2 sundays at a party, I didn't go up too her she came up too me and started talking....then she asked if I still have her #???????????

2007-12-17 17:34:45 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have become an insecure person and its tearing my relationship apart. I was always someone who was very confident, had all of the kids wrapped around my finger, dropped them when they did something wrong. This is my FIRST long term relationship, because I used to end it with guys the first time they messed up. I love my boyfriend so much, but I am starting to really act crazy. When we first started talking we were going to different colleges and the next semester he transferred to a school about 10 mins from me. Before he was staying at home, now he resides in a dorm, and I am afraid that he will meet someone at school and cheat on me. I am so afraid of getting my heart broken. If he doesn't answer the phone i feel like he's with another girl. If he wants to hang out with his friends, i feel like he's cheating. I dont know HOW to not feel so jealous. I just want to catch him, so that I can know that its not going to work. It doesnt make sense but thats how i feel. help me please!!!

2007-12-17 17:23:01 · 4 answers · asked by In Love 1

Please note this is a girl I have known for a long time and been looking to ask her out for as long!

2007-12-17 17:20:53 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

I think I do, and I've been criticised for it, even by girls! Basically, I think all females are special in their own way (i don't believe the same about guys), i very rarely get mad at a female, if i do it never sticks. And the only I reason I like being a guy is to be with girls. One day, I was talking to my friends about how dumb fat married guys get mad when they can't stick with their plans when their wives say "no". They always say stupid things like "she's trying to kill my dreams!". And I was like "Then WHY did you get married?? When you do, it's not all about YOU and your dreams anymore! You should've let her find someone who understands that!" and one of my friends, a girl, was like "okay, are you a GUY or a GIRL, because what your saying, I don't really know now..." I don't understand that, but I guess some people probably don't undersand me and my gender bias.

Are any of you like this? You kind of favour the opposite gender in all matters?

2007-12-17 17:18:55 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

There's this girl (We are both 14) who I have known for a few years, and I know I could just walk up to her and start a conversation without her finding it weird, but thing is, I am very shy.

It's funny because I've known all her friends (Male and female, and most of them were very good friends..) for years, and THAT is what makes me too shy to just walk up to her and start a conversation.

Am I to suppose I am subconsciously ashamed of my past or something?

I am very understanding, have respect for women, don't treat them like dirt, and I have many other qualities that would make me a sweet, caring boyfriend, and from what I know of her, I do think I am her type, but my worse trait is my shyness, which is never on my side. It would be great if you could give me some tips on overcoming it.

By the way, talking to her doesn't make me nervous, but starting a conversation with her is hard for me.

2007-12-17 17:16:57 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Do u think I made the right choice? My ex- bf used 2 always make fun of me because I was supposedly one of his biggest gfs he's ever dated. All the girls he's dated were 90 lbs and under. And I'm 120 lbs, but I have a really big rack so that's why I way a bit more. I broke up with him because I couldn't deal with him anymore and I deserved way better. But all my cheer girls are telling me I made the biggest mistake in my life. And also other people are telling me the same. It seems like everyone is against me :(

2007-12-17 17:15:01 · 13 answers · asked by Cheer_babe29 1

Hi, thanks for dropping by. Alright, sometimes when i'm out alone in public, men cast glances at me and sometimes give the 'second look'. I dont think i'm attractive. I'm 18 but i don't look like 18 at all, i think i look like 15 as i dont have the 'matured' look. I'm an asian and asians tend to look younger than their age.

And for guys, i'm sure you stare or cast glances at girls. So why?

Thanks again!

2007-12-17 17:02:28 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

OK...so what can a guy who screwed up any relationship a couple could have had in the past by not talking to her and making her feel like hes not interested say to a girl to give him another chance? Please help me....I am going to see this girl I like soon and I really want to start over again with her... She is 19 and Im 21 so if any 19-25 yr old girls could help me I would greatly appreciate it

2007-12-17 16:50:59 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-17 16:46:01 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am an asian student & living in Exter looking for females wanting to have close relationship

2007-12-17 16:39:48 · 7 answers · asked by professional k 1

Help me understand because I have no idea...trust me...I am old enough to know :)

2007-12-17 16:35:23 · 27 answers · asked by ? 3

i said i think they all work the same! who is right...me or my bf? please settle this 2 hour conversation we had about door handles! thanks!

2007-12-17 16:29:14 · 4 answers · asked by Giggle Bear 3

I've had a strange crush on my professor this semester --similar age. We had our last class today. He started off liking me, but I gave him dirty looks and then he started giving me a taste of my own medicine. I fell for him. I can't have him because I belong to someone else. But I want to write him an email saying that although I know he dislikes me, I think he has lovely eyes...but not to take it as anything more than a compliment, because I am unavailable. Is it scummy? Stupid?

2007-12-17 16:28:14 · 12 answers · asked by lovebird 3

Would a man really lie about having a relationship with the mother of his child. He says there was never a relationship whatsoever. Child is and has always been under the care of the child's grandmother so he never really had to deal with the mother. Her pregnancy was due to pure irresponsibility, not planned. His child is now 4. Would he really lie for so long about never having a relationship with her?

2007-12-17 16:22:47 · 5 answers · asked by ksolis5 3