i cant make a move?

Question

i miss this boy so much. just got home for xmas break and cant stop thinking about him. we've never hooked up but hes flirty with me and jokingly hints about making out. lately, the sexual (eye) tension has gotten intense but the only way i really know how to show him is to be mean..i have two older brothers and i have a somewhat tough personality when it comes to guys so its hard for me to be affectionate. i cant be the one to make the first move but i'm pretty sure hes kindof insecure about approaching me..i have a tendency to intimidate guys i think. he plays games with me when hes around his friends and tries to get me to admit that i want more alone time with him than he's giving me. sick of the games, just want to be with him but i cant make the first move..and i really dont want to mess up our friendship because we have a lot of mutual friends and i really do enjoy conversation and being around him. whattodo

Answer 1

U really need to think this thru..

if everyone around is friends with everyone..
what happens if u have a close relationship.. and break up..???

it destroys everything..
Ur friendship.. and all the friends begin to take sides.. and it is not good at all

U just have to go with Ur heart..
good luck.. happy holidays