I started talking to this guy knowing he had a girlfriend right off the bat. I just thought it would be a fun time. However, I started getting very attached to him. I told him, maybe twice, how I feel about him but he doesn't do anything about it. He's still with his girlfriend. I have come to realize that he will NEVER leave his gf for me and I have told him to leave me alone and have stopped talking to him. But he can not leave me alone. He would still call me and flirt, and we ended up messing around again. We haven't had sex or anything but it's really hard to get over him. Then I just had it and I'm determined to discontinue this relationship. Does anyone have any tips or advice on how I may get over him?
2007-12-17 19:13:14 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Do not continue this relationship. He should respect you and his relationships. It will only get worse from here because, you will continue to like him and he just want to keep someone on the side for his fun and think about it....his gf that he cares so much about that he can't leave is not even getting the best out of him so imagine what you can.
i was in a similar situation...it is always best to put your foot down and end it or you will be hurting. and remember as time goes by YOU WILL FORGET ABOUT HIM.
2007-12-17 19:19:59 · answer #1 · answered by May 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You aren't carrying through. You told him to leave you alone, but when he calls, you hang on long enough for him to flirt, so you are sending the message that you are still interested. You are disrespecting yourself AND the other woman. The next time he calls, just say, "I told you to leave me alone," and just hang up. Don't get into a discussion about it. If he calls back, don't pick up the phone. Treat him like you would a persistent telemarketer who won't stop calling you. It will stop being fun for him and he will give up. And once he isn't flirting with you, you will get over him.
2007-12-17 19:21:29 · answer #2 · answered by neniaf 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah I have been in this situation. I ended it because I knew he wouldn't leave his girlfriend and I started dating other guys to get my mind off of him. This was the first time I ever talked to a guy that I knew had a girlfriend, I will never do that again. So what I did was started dating other guys, and ignored the texts and calls. Eventually he moves on. Guys like that either have something missing in their relationship and if he breaks it off with his girl to be with you, do you really think he wont do it to you with another girl? He may be sexually attracted to you and that's all?
For your sake, please try to move on and let that be.
2007-12-17 19:31:36 · answer #3 · answered by Jrsygrl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should get over being yourself and change a little first.
2007-12-17 19:17:06 · answer #4 · answered by gerardino0951@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You put yourself in this situation so you deserve what your getting
Don't cut other peoples lunches
Shame on you
2007-12-17 19:18:44 · answer #5 · answered by Hailey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are sending him mixed signals. Stop and move on to someone else.
2007-12-17 19:17:45 · answer #6 · answered by Sunny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋