guys only...... please :)?

Question

Do u think I made the right choice? My ex- bf used 2 always make fun of me because I was supposedly one of his biggest gfs he's ever dated. All the girls he's dated were 90 lbs and under. And I'm 120 lbs, but I have a really big rack so that's why I way a bit more. I broke up with him because I couldn't deal with him anymore and I deserved way better. But all my cheer girls are telling me I made the biggest mistake in my life. And also other people are telling me the same. It seems like everyone is against me :(

Answer 1

I could not focus after the "big rack" comment.

Sorry.

Answer 2

Bianca look, you don't need to even talk to a guy that's going to make fun of you. And, this is going to sound stereotypical and I'm sorry but, from what you say, you're beautiful and you don't need to go out with a guy that is going to make fun of you. You made the right choice.

Answer 3

If u felt he put you down then u did the right thing


but was this a one time comment??

any chance you might have overreacted ?

sometimes i make a lil bit of fun of the ppl i love

maybe this was his way of telling you he loved you no matter what

ever though of that possibility?

email me if u want more help

Answer 4

Honey you need to ditch that guy who is telling you such rubbish!

If you are fit and if you can look at yourself in the mirror and not freak out, you are doing well.

Girls have bad enough self-esteem issues without guys telling them that they are fat! (or big or whatever) ...

Your cheer girls can keep that loser. You don't need him in your life. He will keep on bringing you down. Ignore him. Live life to the fullest! Have a great time!

That way, when he is looking up at you from whatever gutter he winds up rolling into, he will only see a great glam girl who he treated so bad ... and who has gone on without him!

Merry Christmas!

Answer 5

120 is not alot at all .... 90lbs is scary unhealthy skinny .. dont listen to ur cheer girls.. their all stuck up anyway ... u need a guy that can respect you, not make fun of you ... don't worry what anybody else things, you made the right decision

Answer 6

Look, if he made fun of you just for fun and it didn't bother you, then that's all for giggles. But if it did offend you, say something about it and if he didn't respect that then girl, you do what you got to do. It seems he's the jerk if he can't treat you right. All I can say if you weigh less than me, then it's alright.

Answer 7

wht you did is right, and you should find a better group of friends. Seriously, friends should support you know matter what you do, and if they don't, you need to toss em out. As for your weight...lol 120 is not a lot. Really its not

Answer 8

Forget everyone else's opinion! You have your own mind..People will tell you different crap all your life, you need to be confident in your OWN decisions. This is called being an adult. Learn to stand on your own two, people will eventually look up to you for advice.

Answer 9

umm... He's popular, don't let others influence you. They don't know how you feel. They may say "I know how you feel" but they don't. They don't define you. You define yourself. You maybe alittle bit bigger than the past girls he had. But if he's dating you for only your "body" it doesn't sound like a good relationship. Next thing you know you could be pregnant.

Answer 10

obviously i'm not a guy, but i think if he was making you upset, then you did the right thing.

you deserve WAYYYYY better, especially if he's saying your fat or w/e.

from how your describing yourself,
you dont sound fat at all,

and even if you were,
who cares?
its whats on the inside that counts, right?????

well yea, just my imput.
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