Singles & Dating - 17 December 2007

I am a single, straight, successful, educated, 28 year old male. I have never had a girlfriend and I have only gone on three dates in my entire lifetime. I haven't even experienced my first kiss yet, lol. I have no problem with this as I am not a very affectionate person and I don't have the need for it that most people have. If I find someone to love I'll go for it I suppose, but it doesn't really matter. I also still live at home rent free, nice right? My question is as follows: Why do my friends "The Guys" coworkers and even some family members seem to have more of a problem with my life than I do? They say it's not healthy not to date and/or have no experience with love along with still living at home. I told them it's not an objective of mine. There were even some friends asking if I were gay! Lol, geez is everyone automatically labeled gay if they aren't over-sexed? I am attracted to females and females only, but I can resist the "temptation" very easily.What are your thoughts?

2007-12-17 10:40:26 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was with my first love for three years. We have been broken up for about two years, a year with absolutely no contact. He and I have both moved on and I do not want him back in any way but I can't help but think about him and wonder if he ever thinks about me.
I am currently in a relationship and happily in love so I don't understand why I can't stop thinking about my ex. Do you ever get over your first love or will he continue to haunt my memories?

2007-12-17 10:38:23 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

A little after thanksgiving I asked my boyfriend what his X-mas plans he said he was doing nothing. So I invited him over to my for X-mas dinner @ my house and he agreed. Just recently, he told me that his mom said that his family was coming down from out of town and I suppose she was expecting him to be home X-mas. So recently someone asked him his X-mas plans ...he was like I am going home for X-mas forgetting that he had already committed to X-mas dinner w/ my family.

So when he told me this I became really upset...b/c how is he going make plans w/ me then 4-get... (1) Don't you think that he should stick w/ the plans of spending dinner w/ me? I mean am I wrong to want to spend the holidays w/ him. He was like his mom is going be mad. What about making me mad /upset b/c I will be?He just saw all his family on Thanksgiving.I am not saying that he cant be w/ him family...he can go be w/ his family over the weekend, X-mas eve and morning.he would still get to spend time w/ me.....

2007-12-17 10:38:18 · 19 answers · asked by ashc21133 2

Like if you were pretty, but acted like you had no idea, does it add to the prettiness?

2007-12-17 10:36:49 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

Or keep pictures of the ex in their night stand, flash drive, computer and know that they are still looking at the pictures.....

2007-12-17 10:31:35 · 8 answers · asked by HappyCat 1

My Boyfriend isnt the coolest guy ever none of my friends think hes "cool" i really like him but every time i with him my friends make faces or talk about him what should i do?

2007-12-17 10:28:42 · 9 answers · asked by nicole s 2

uhh.. ok well i really like my neighbor.. && well he acctually hates me and idk why what can i do to get him to likee me?

2007-12-17 10:20:27 · 5 answers · asked by Nichole S 1

One thing that is just completely untolerable from another person

Mine is drinking so much they get sick all over. Ugh can't stand a man that doesnt know when to quit

2007-12-17 10:18:32 · 28 answers · asked by ehrlich 6

Do you girls have names for your boobs? If so, what are they and who came up with them?

2007-12-17 10:18:04 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

i just wanna be happy

2007-12-17 10:10:27 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

asked her out and her freind told me her father wont let her date till shes 16. Before she was a huge flirt and now she wont talk to me. But I made a website (dont ask why) and she posted this today " Jeff your sooo cool I really want 2 go out with u now so next time u see me in school just come over and plant a nice big fat kiss on my lips I LOVE YOU See u on monday babe <3".
How fake do you think this is 0-100%? I mean it sounds too stupid for a boy (sorry).Why wont she talk to me? (I asked her) out on a note.

2007-12-17 10:09:45 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

My now ex g/f told me that she needs to get better mentally b/c of an autoimmune disorder. We started to be just friends and that lasted about a week after I found from a friends roommate that she was on match.com lookin for love. After I confronted her about this she told me to move on through a text message. Fine, I have plenty of girls as friends that want something long term. She told me one day before that I am very handsome, sweet, and great. She says that I'm a great kisser and I'm a 12 out of 10 in bed, without even asking her. I don't need her, but I wanted to be with her. If she wants to get better by having time alone and she calls me perfect, why is she going on line looking for something else?

2007-12-17 10:02:44 · 3 answers · asked by cappatown23 3

If nice guys finish last, then who finishes first?

My whole life ive been an asshole, till a few months ago when i realised that giant flaw. Since then ive been a totally different person, and have had many people mention it. Yet, relationship wise, i just get lead on then stabbed in the back basically. So the question is, if nice guys finish last, then who finishes first?

2007-12-17 10:01:15 · 11 answers · asked by Enviro-Mentally Retarded 3

Wouldn't that be so much easier.

(this would be a good time to be a feminist, right)

2007-12-17 09:58:32 · 9 answers · asked by Mokey 3

Today I broke up for my girlfriend, for complicated reasons. Basically, she did some things that really hurt me, and I although I tried to forgive her, it made me lose trust. also, my passion was gone and it didn't feel right. i broke up with her in person, and was very nice about it, but she broke down. she flipped out and threatened to kill herself and begged me not to leave her. i feel so bad because i hate hurting people, especially her. i don't know what i am writing this, i just feel like crap, but i was trying to do the right thing. i don't know what to do.

2007-12-17 09:58:20 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

well i had a question on here before about the same thing but this is a different guy now anyway i dont know him I DONT EVEN KNOW HIS NAME but hes like always staring at me and i mean sometimes he doesnt but like when i see him i can feel him staring and i also see him staring too WHAT DO I DO? please hlp me!!!

2007-12-17 09:56:02 · 6 answers · asked by hollister 2

i met a great guy today, he is italian strong accent great job 26 quite wealthy, and acts wealthy!
im black 20 in uni, (not as wealthy) or as wealthy in behaviour...
he seemed very sweet, we had lunch, he even got me a gift £50 dior perfume set for my mum as an xmas gift...
he had great hair... (i loved his hair...so sexyy!)
with such different backgrounds do you think it could work...

2007-12-17 09:50:56 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok so you meet someone either in a bar, mall, starbucks etc ( setting doesnt really matter) and your texting and speaking on the phone and then you dont hear off the guy for like 3 weeks and then suddenly he is back in contact with you asking you out on a date and seeing if we could meet up somewhere....what is the deal with that?

2007-12-17 09:47:13 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

What do you do when you have all these goals in mind and are studying hard to reach them (trying to get into med school), but you feel extreamly lonley that you have no "relationship" type things going on and you have no time? I never had, as in with a guy, and all the guys are know are put off by the fact that I have to study so hard.

So am I really just stuck to keep waiting for *any* guy to show up?

2007-12-17 09:44:28 · 6 answers · asked by mellei 1

Just wondering because a lot of guys like me and stare and my boobs.....

2007-12-17 09:42:03 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok heres the situation. I've been best friends with this guy all year and the other day when we were talking online, he said he was in love with me. i really like him too but havent actually seen him for ages. im meeting him in 2 days only im worried because last time he saw me i had long hair and clear skin. now well i hacked all my hair off and my skin...well its christmas so been eating heaps of crap. what the hell do i do? Now i know he's in love with me I'm really happy but nervous because what if he sees me and decides he only liked the old me?

2007-12-17 09:41:49 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

well i like this guys n hes an amazing friend at times...but idk hes just being acting different lately..we were really close friends but now i sometimes even doubt that we are friends...he loves flirting wit me but i don't get y he does it...its annoying cause he knows i like him..so y is he like saying i love you to me n making silly comments..acting as if he actually liked me...im very confused and i don't know what to do..should i talk to him about how hes acting? but i don't want it to be awkward between us...but hes just getting on my nerves =P what should i do



P.S- im sure he knows i like him n we are both 14

2007-12-17 09:41:09 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

cuz i relly like a girl and idk if im being used or what

2007-12-17 09:40:02 · 5 answers · asked by josh z 1

There is this junior that i like at my school but i don't know him that well. he is really hott and people tell me he is nice. I would love to get to know him!i am a freshmen though. but EVERYDAY when i pass him in the hallways he always glances at me, he glances at me at lunch, he looks at me when he thinks i am not looking but my friends are for me, he sometimes stares at me in the morning times, and he will kinda show off by bending over to tie his shoes in front of me, sticking his butt out in front of me, and standing right in front of me stretching and taking off his sweatshirt. My friends think he is interested in me but he has a gf from a diff town and they have been goin out for like 3 weeks.

All this stuff that I listed above was going on for like 2 1/2 weeks and today at school he didn't look at me.not even once. What is going on? Do you think he is just trying to play with my head? He did look back a few times in my direction at lunch but idk if it was directly @ me.

2007-12-17 09:39:58 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

It's almost christmas so i want to make a poem for my girlfriend but i can't think of any so can you tell me a poem about christmas love? Like how seeing her reminds me of something nice

2007-12-17 09:38:28 · 2 answers · asked by Richard 1

In my class ther is this girl that i like, and whenever i see her i'll say hi

the problem is that i dont know if she likes me back

How do you know if a girl likes you?

also, How can you tell if someone is flirting with you?

2007-12-17 09:38:11 · 2 answers · asked by banmeyouloser 2

This week Im going on my first get away weekend with my boyfriend and this is actually my first one ever. We are going to the Plaza and stayin the night!! All I know bc he is want it all to be a surprise! So those of you have had a get away weekend with your significant other, anything important I need to bring that I would never think of? Minds out of the gutter Im not thinkin anything sexual. THanks

2007-12-17 09:38:02 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

this guy and I talk on the phone every chance we get, we have never met before..however i am really begining to like him..and i cant quite tell if he feels the same about me..are there any clues to look for throughout a phone conversation that might mean he likes me too???

2007-12-17 09:36:16 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Can you give me some scent ideas?

Sandlewood?
Green Apple?
Clean Linen?

If you have some sources, like Maxium, GQ or something like that, that would be awesome.

2007-12-17 09:35:32 · 34 answers · asked by dougfr007 3

and, well, we don't know. this is kind of a hypothetical. but answer anyway -

suppose my freind had a gf who just came home from iraq, and was thinking of asking her if she was faithfull the entire time she was away (a bit more than a year, never technically in "combat", and for a period certainly under fire), but was admonished by military wives he was freinds with. presuming that pregnancy and vd are not in issue - which of the following reasons are good, which are just bogus, and why?

1. asking her disrespects her and her service.

2. she was facing life and death situations, and sometimes people under that stress need to get laid. just a fact of life.

3. whatever guy she may or may not have been with was facing the same situation. think about moral. support the troops and get over your possessiveness under this extraordinary circumstance.

4. she's home. she's in one piece. what are you worried about?

5. it was a year and a half for crying out loud!

6. Its inpolite. Women have been accepting their husbands home for time immemorial without asking, even with knowledge that many service men get with prostitutes in those hard times. When she was serving, she may have needed to releive some stress the old fashioned way, and now its your turn to buck up. and at least it wasn’t probably with a call girl, but another gi.

2007-12-17 09:32:35 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous