If nice guys finish last, then who finishes first?
My whole life ive been an asshole, till a few months ago when i realised that giant flaw. Since then ive been a totally different person, and have had many people mention it. Yet, relationship wise, i just get lead on then stabbed in the back basically. So the question is, if nice guys finish last, then who finishes first?
2007-12-17 10:01:15 · 11 answers · asked by Enviro-Mentally Retarded 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Girls may say they want a nice guy, but I've noticed that I get more girls when I act like the jerk/ bad boy/ whatever you wanna call it, so....
Source: personal experiences
2007-12-17 10:03:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you want to get technical, nice guys don't finish last; in fact, they don't finish at all! When's the last time you heard about a nice guy getting laid??? If you know of someone who has, let me know, because I'd love to meet the reincarnation of Christ! Anyway, As for who finishes first: I know you're thinking the jerk. To an extent, this is correct; however, many men who understand the fact that Jerks always prevail tend to think that being a jerk means adopting cruel behavior in order to succeed in the dating world. Being a "jerk", at least an effective one, is being a hybrid of the two sides: nice guy and jerk. Be nice, but not too nice, stand your ground and establish yourself as the prize they must win over; get the point? Hope this helps, good luck!
2007-12-17 10:15:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The guy who is a perfect balance between asshole (a little bad boy, spontaneous, confident) and a "nice guy" (caring, considerate, loyal). It doesn't have to be one or the other.. Guys that are just themselves are the ones that I like the most. And if girls are still going for the "asshole" then they probably aren't mature or old enough to appreciate the quality of a real man.
2007-12-17 10:04:35 · answer #3 · answered by sophia bush 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The good thing about relationships is there is no race. No one finish last or first it only works at a constant pace and both you and your partner have to be at the same exact point in order to end in a winning position. You see the only way anyone wins is if you both work together. This is not a race, it takes patience and time to love someone unconditionally.
2007-12-17 10:06:27 · answer #4 · answered by Ceci 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it kinda like guy sleep with slu*s but date nice girls same here only girls dont like to look slu*ty so they date the bad boy for a while but settle down with the good guy. works both ways
2007-12-17 10:07:32 · answer #5 · answered by ... 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have to agree, I used to be a really nice guy to girls but, I guess they don't really like that now I am a complete *** to em and they seem to like it why? I don't know
2007-12-17 10:04:48 · answer #6 · answered by NEVER EXISTED.... 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on how you define "finish first".
if you hang out with sluts then they like the asshole. If you hang out with good girls then they may like the new you.
Which one are you?
2007-12-17 10:05:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
jerks finish first...
2007-12-17 10:09:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Premature ejaculators.
2007-12-17 10:07:32 · answer #9 · answered by Captain S 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i guess assholes
2007-12-17 10:05:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋