Or keep pictures of the ex in their night stand, flash drive, computer and know that they are still looking at the pictures.....
2007-12-17 10:31:35 · 8 answers · asked by HappyCat 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't know buddy, I got rid of all my ex-gal pics when I got married but I do know that my wife still had a couple of an old bf. Can't say if it's normal or not.
2007-12-17 10:36:42 · answer #1 · answered by Mike S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hello. I am actually in the same predicament and not sure what to think, but honestly, it kills me. I feel like the whole "Letting go" aspect has not taken place. I found a box of pictures, love letters and cards, all from the same and most recent ex. The excuse was, "I forgot I even had them." They were in a clear, small tote and we just moved in together. I on accident found them when putting things away in our home office. I'm trying not to feel jealous and confronted the situation nicely, but tonight I went into this screensaver icon to pick a new myspace layout or background and found a "Discreet" section and guess who that was featuring? I'm upset and very skeptical. Some people on here are telling you it's not a big deal, but I wonder if they've been in your shoes? It hurts and I don't feel it's natural. I for one feel betrayed in a way because I refuse to seriously date someone, let alone move in unless all my baggage is gone, out of respect for my new love and myself. How do you feel about these responses? I mean, try to be positive, but I know it's tough.
2007-12-20 20:57:29 · answer #2 · answered by Lisa S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would get suspicious if my guy was keeping pics of his ex, but thats just me being paranoid. Maybe don't confront outright, but keep an eye on where they go and how long they are gone. My sister's new husband had a girlfriend, which she found out after they both got pregnant
2007-12-17 18:37:34 · answer #3 · answered by blackrose17 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your significant other is still in love with the ex.
My first husband did the EXACT same thing when we were married but these pictures were flat out porn pics. He said that he keeps them in case he needs them for court.
What a joke!!!
2007-12-17 18:37:58 · answer #4 · answered by conny 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO this is not ok. Why do they feel the need to do this....I found naked pics of my boyfriends ex and I made him throw them away. That is disrespectful and wrong. Why does this person have these pics, they could have them put away soemwhere an not look at them all the time.
2007-12-17 18:37:38 · answer #5 · answered by pink 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that it's too weird. it IS strange if the pix is locked. But if it's out in the open, along with other casual pics..it's cool.
2007-12-17 18:35:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes,its quite normal.Relax.
2007-12-17 18:36:42 · answer #7 · answered by Zaid 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's normal but it's not at all right
2007-12-17 18:36:07 · answer #8 · answered by puffy2step 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋