We broke up one week ago, her decision. She wants to be friends. says that we can be friends, start from the beginning, and take things slow. She doesn't want to see me right now bc she says i still have feelings and only when i can be her friend we can see each other..
We started out our relationship really fast from the get go, three weeks of knowing each other and have been dating. for 2 months, until last week.
It is so hard to see her as a friend than a gf.
She says she wants to be single, have fun with her friends..
what should i do?
is it the end?
this is really bothering me.
She has been hanging out with her guy friends and will take vacations with them this holiday. She wont even spend Christmas with me, instead it will be with someone else whom she calls a friend, an the unknown gender, due to information, when i spoke with her three days ago. In doing no contact and will try to heal my inner wounds.. hope i will be okay and over her soon. thx for reading.
2007-12-17 19:46:09 · 9 answers · asked by mangolove 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well if you do get back together, make sure its for the right reasons. than again, she's been pretty clear on the "just friends" part.
my suggestion is to find yourself someone else because if your ex wasnt serious about splitting up with you, then she likes to play mind games and thats a bad thing, a VERY bad thing (i know, i'm female lol). try and find yourself a girl thats straightforward to the point, you may not like everything she has to say but she'll never screw you around either and you'll always know where you stand!
2007-12-17 19:51:14 · answer #1 · answered by UnholyAngel 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well - she said that she only wants to be friends..... so, yes, it is the end.
She hangs out with guy friends and takes vacations with them? Sounds like that she doesn't want to be anyone's girlfriend..... sounds like she wants to be a player......
Girls have been dealing with Guys thinking like this forever.
If you want a girlfriend, and not a friend, just look around, you can find a girl that wants that.
Maybe try to avoid girls that have a lot of guy-friends?
2007-12-18 03:52:32 · answer #2 · answered by TheNickname 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will be OK. Don't let all this get under your skin. She is clearly not ready for a serious relationship. Give her as much space as she wants. In fact, you might even start looking around yourself. There's lots of pebbles on the beach, you know.
2007-12-18 03:49:51 · answer #3 · answered by Richard B 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you can ask her out and say you can't accept reality!You explain to her how much she mean to you.Tell her you have been feel bad when you see her with her guy friends.Also tell her that you will treasure her and treat her like princess.Ask her to give you a second chance.
2007-12-18 03:53:59 · answer #4 · answered by Jennifer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the question is what do you want to do????
can you handle being her friend? if no, then don't be her friend.
sounds like you do still have feelings for her. rather that guys are her friends or not you have to respect her wishes and move on. just be to yourself and family till you get your head together....... wish you the best
2007-12-18 03:54:41 · answer #5 · answered by godvsl7 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like it's completely her, not you. I think she might be wanting to see other people. Just give it a break and who knows? maybe you'll be up and atom in no time.
Feel Better!
2007-12-18 03:50:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friends is friends. If it is a female you lable them GIRL FRIEND and if it is a male you lable them BOY FRIEND.
Your problem is that you want to be something extra than FRIEND.
2007-12-18 03:55:58 · answer #7 · answered by ADCHOP 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are so many beautiful girl over there waiting for you, good luck
2007-12-18 03:52:36 · answer #8 · answered by william 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her sorry and i love you! Watch romantic movies and guess yourself
2007-12-18 03:49:15 · answer #9 · answered by boo! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋