There is a guy that I work with whom seems to be trying to make overture towards me. The problem is that I am not interested in him in that way. I like him as a person but that's it. The guy has no car, he has 3 kids and I am pretty sure that there is an old lady in the picture.
2007-12-17 12:26:31 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sometimes the easiest way is the hardest. tell him that you only see him as a friend. period. i had a similar problem and that's what i said. if you go in detail explaining why and so and so, it won't work. so tell him that there is only friendship between you guys. don't worry about hurting his feelings. he'll get over it.
2007-12-17 12:31:03 · answer #1 · answered by verisimilitude 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are several options:
1) Avoid him or act coldly in such a way that he gets the hint. Not everyone will get it, however...
2) Pretend you already have a boyfriend, and talk about him randomly.
3) Just tell him you aren't interested. This is usually the best thing to do if he actually asks you out or otherwise overtly comes on to you.
2007-12-17 12:34:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
LOOL yaa u shud deff tell him to eff off sincerely and start callin him bro or something, say theres this guy you're interested in or when you converse mention what you like in a guy in a relationship which doesnt involve his characteristics at all
2007-12-17 12:34:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well if he ever does say that he likes you..............just tell him that you are not interested, but in a better way.
Its good not to give him the idea that you like him, because if you give the wrong impression, hes probably going to do everything he can to get you.
I dont know what else to say to you.
2007-12-17 12:31:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No matter how 'easy' to try to make it on him, it's going to hit him like a brick wall. Just tell him you're not interested and leave it at that.
2007-12-17 12:32:04 · answer #5 · answered by akiratheoni 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Next time you converse with him at work, tell him you've been dating this guy and need some advice. Or just say you have a boyfriend casually.. "oh my boyfriend and i were out at the...... did you go, apparently it was cool" just bs something up
2007-12-17 12:30:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
some times there's no easy way, but the best way is to just tell him what you just wrote you like him as a person but you don't want to have a relationship with him.
2007-12-17 12:31:49 · answer #7 · answered by benthr 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
WHOA steer clear! looks like daddy's lookin for a maid! Dont let him down easy, tell him to f*** off
2007-12-17 12:32:26 · answer #8 · answered by Mellissa 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, what if you consider yourself in his place ? ha? don give ure self expensive value , you may fail !!!
any way , try to understand him and tell him that you don want !!!
To be safe , select places where you would like to spent with him !!
2007-12-17 13:00:35 · answer #9 · answered by gedimesh 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him the truth if i were in his situation i might need the girl i like to tell me the truth as a kick in the *** to get me moving and getting my life on track
2007-12-17 12:32:18 · answer #10 · answered by SMG 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋