Singles & Dating - 7 December 2007

Serious comments would be great!

2007-12-07 07:32:30 · 6 answers · asked by Brandon 3

There's this new guy at my school, we became friends and he asked me out tonight. We went to have a drink and we made out. I'm starting to like him, and I think he likes me too. He wants us to go out tomorrow again but I'm going to cancel so I don't seem that eager.

Anyway, the thing is that I got dumped in the past 3 relationships I was in for different reasons. The first guy didn't love me enough, the second made out with another girl and the last guy dumped me for his ex. I am so scared to fall in love again and start dating because I don't want to get dumped.

I'm willing to give this guy a chance I just want us to go slowly, but I don't know how.
Any advice would be useful on how to make sure he likes me but I'm still scared of getting dumped...

2007-12-07 07:31:31 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-07 07:30:10 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

i just read q&a on dating someone w/physical handicap..so thought about how does age affect decision

2007-12-07 07:28:09 · 10 answers · asked by grnnnta 2

If you tell someone you want to be single, and you dont feel about them the same anymore. They want to work things out and you dont. They have ask you wait untill after Christmas to break up?

2007-12-07 07:26:43 · 17 answers · asked by gurlypunkyprep 2

i asked a question if i should tell the guy i like , that i like him.. and u all said i should so i did and he told me that he has a gf!i cried for an hour and he told me that he does not like me!
it hurts soooo much i am gone deprest!
i don't know what to do! plz help me! I have never felt this HURT in my intire life.....what do u d
best answer gets 10 points!

thanks guys...
oh ya and tell me if u r a boy or grl so i know what side u are coming from....
:( thanyou

2007-12-07 07:26:24 · 4 answers · asked by hjlkjh 2

They either have some kind of mental problem or just won't respond to anything you send them. I can deal with a lot when it comes to someone's personality. I'm really laid back and will let most things slide. I believe no one is perfect. I'm not looking for some girl with a supermodel body and IQ of 160+. It seems like there are 40 guys to everyone girl so why try? I thought looking for a girl in real life was bad. Online is even worst. Sites like eHarmony want a outrageous fee for you to join. When you do fill out their questionnaire it never finds any matches for you. I live in a small town and finding a girl where there is nothing but corrupt churches and no clubs is hard. The ads on TV make it sound like you are guaranteed to find a date. Am I the only person that is run into this problem?

2007-12-07 07:24:14 · 5 answers · asked by Higurb M 1

There is this guy, i have known him for ages, we went to the same primary school and i have recently started talking to him again. He likes me but i dont think i feel the same, but i am really tempted to go out with him. The only thing is i can't just go out with him once because he is so sweet but a little bit of a bunny boiler and he will pretty much think we are going out if i go out on a date with him one time, and he will tell me i have broke his heart. I dont want to do that to him, but i am really tempted to go out with him. Also, my friends have told me to give him a chance, because i might not like him because i am trying to stop myself from liking him because he is a bit, different.

I don't know what to do :(

2007-12-07 07:22:02 · 7 answers · asked by Yeahh (: 1

Is it possible to have a relation with a girl from another continent?
I am from Romania and she is from west coast of America.
pls.tell me your sincere opinion
Tank you

2007-12-07 07:20:22 · 5 answers · asked by Black Scorpio 2

http://www.gargoylestatuary.com/images2/LionSconce.jpg

on the shoulder blade
in black and gray

2007-12-07 07:18:28 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

What do you do?

2007-12-07 07:16:44 · 9 answers · asked by Brandon 3

my boyfriend controlls who i talk too,what iwaer where i go and a whole lot of crazy thing and it doesnt look like hes getting any better(from 1-10 i give it 4).The reason he's like this is because i cheated like 2 years ago,and we have a 3 month old baby girl together so should i stay or should i hit the road.

2007-12-07 07:15:32 · 10 answers · asked by Love peace and chicken grease 3

well im worried well i never had sex but oral my bf came out on me thr alot of time but not inside so please tell me is it any way possible to get pregnent like tht

2007-12-07 07:14:40 · 77 answers · asked by Anonymous

isn't that like an oxymoron??

men=sex ((that's well known
so... whf??

2007-12-07 07:03:10 · 15 answers · asked by proud 'n sexy VT 5

I love being with my boyfriend all the time. We've been together 3 yrs on Nov. 19. It seems as though we always do the same thing. Eat at the same restaurants watch movies every other night. We'll go out occasionally to somewhere new but that's rare. I would like to be surprised from time to time with a rose or a letter he left for me but I don't want to tell him to do it because that defeats the purpose. How do i hint that I like small romantic gestures? He makes more money than me and I think he believes that buying my grand gifts for birthday/christmas will make me happy.

I could care less about the big gifts. I would just like to have a surprise romantic gesture that doesn't cost anything.

What do I do?

2007-12-07 06:55:29 · 5 answers · asked by jcb2387 3

We've been together for almost 2 years (in April). I know this may sound lame but I've always had this problem with him talking to a bunch of different women on myspace. We are both mature and older (21 & 23). One day I was looking at his page and noticed that he had all these girls who were taking pictures of themselves in thongs and looking all whore-ish. I confronted him about it in a joking manner, and the next day he had blocked me from viewing his friends on his page.

I caught him online adding all these girls again, and he denies it when I ask him. Should this be some sort of red flag that he may be unhappy with our relationship, or should I just take it as typical male behavior?

2007-12-07 06:43:55 · 14 answers · asked by B.K. 2

My boyfriend and I have been together for about 6 months. We are living together, things were going well until last week he decided he wanted space but did not want to break-up. He made it pretty clear that it wasn't me it was him and that he has to better himself so that he can one day give me the things I want. He is 36 and I am 27. Can anyone tell me what exactly he means by this? And what is a good way to make this work? He still wants to see me and talk to me but not live together for right now.

I just took a suitcase and left - everything else is still at the house.

He is very stressed about work, bills and money

He is the one that calls me and says he misses me and loves me

And swears to GOD he doesnt want to date anyone else.

Should I give into him wanting to see me? Or should I just say you wanted space and seeing me isn't giving you your space?
And let him figure it out with out me around?

I am so confused someone help me!?!?!?!?! PLEASE! =0(

2007-12-07 06:41:29 · 18 answers · asked by cutie11134 1

theres this boy that i think likes me (hes gave loads of signs and everyone i have told seemed 100% he does) and when he came into form today, he come over to my table but and leaned on my chair (which was on the table)
Then he started singing Bleeding Love by Leona Lewis
"I dont care what they say i'm in love with you...they try to pull me away but they don't know the truth..." << thats the bit he sang and he never looked at me the whole time he was singing...think he was nervous or something?
i sed to him when he was singing.."You dedicating that song to me?" and he just went red and smiled =)

so what you think?
coinsidence?
or did him singing that song mean something?(like him trying to tell me how he feels without making it obvious)

please help me x

2007-12-07 06:41:18 · 11 answers · asked by SophieKayy 2

I asked a lady out, she dresses very conservative, never talks about guys and when I sent her some flowers she seemed happy but nervous.

She declined my invite for a date and so I told her I accepted and respected her decision. A few weeks later she told me to forget the whole thing so I thought everything was cool.

A few weeks later (3 months after I asked) she blew up at me for no reason and now seems to ignore me. I've been told that she is gay and I know she has several gay friends. I didnt know this when I asked.

Why couldnt she just move on when I told her I was cool? Particularly as she said to forget it?

2007-12-07 06:39:21 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

here's the deal. i've been with this guy since winter of 2004. we've now lived together for almost 3 years. we've got a very realistic relationship and have been through a lot together yet always come out on top. i know for a fact that he loves me more than anything else in the world (and i him) but when ever the subject of marriage comes up he's so against it. i on the other hand wish to be married. i over heard him talking on the phone to a friend the other day who was telling him that another friend of theirs was getting married. the phone was loud enough that i could hear the person on the other line say to my boyfriend, "so when are you marrying your girlfriend?" and my boyfriends response was, "not for a very long time. that's just not what i'm all about." my feelings were hurt. i just don't know what to do about this situation. i don't want to get married NOW but definitely before i to close to 30. we are even buying a house together this summer!!!! what gives?!?!?!

2007-12-07 06:37:16 · 40 answers · asked by kestrelk8 6

im 18 an my mom is overprotective. i'm currently a freshman in college but i commute from home. my mom gets my guy friends diver license and takes their information down so they wont do anything bad to me. she has to talk to my friends before letting me stay at their place. she says i have a curfue since i'm still living under her roof. so if i go to a college campus tomorrow night do u think its best if i go even if my mom won't let me? my mom will probably want to talk to her. i think i should be able to do what i want since im 18 now right?

2007-12-07 06:33:50 · 12 answers · asked by emma 1

My baby will be going to work off shore in a week or so and I'm thinking about writing him a love letter, just letting him know things I haven't told him. (I'm not breaking up with him) I'm not wanting him to write back (if he do then that's good, and I don't think that he's a writing type he's 27 and I'm 22.

How do u think he would respond to it?

And 'i do tell him other things, it's not that I'm shy to tell him it's just that I get everything out by writing it down.

2007-12-07 06:33:46 · 2 answers · asked by Jasmine R 1

Earlier in the week I decided that I should move up towards my boyfriend, so I looked around, found a cheap place, I planned on moving in tomorrow.
The reason I was going to move up there was because my job was up there, and my boyfriend lives up there.
Now that I lost my job yesterday, I got to talking to my boyfriend, and I found out that he never liked me like a girlfriend. We were only dating for 3 months. I told him to give it some time, and he still broke up with me then decided that if he realizes that he wants me back, then we'd get back together. So he wants time alone for a while.
Well, I don't know if I should move in my new place or not. It's not too late for an answer. I am supposed to get a key tomorrow, then leave my $100 deposit.
But I don't know if I want to be up there where the ex is, I'm scared he'll think I'm stalking him.
Although I HATE living with my parents. He wants to be single a while.
I want to move out of my parents place, question is, should I move?

2007-12-07 06:31:01 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I don't want to bore people with the simple question does it matter because of course it matters, but my question is, if a guy or girl was really nice person, you really thought they were great to chat to, they were intelligent, fun, friendly, made you feel good, just how much does looks matter for this person to make you want to be more than friends? Do they have to look perfect, can they have the odd flaw and you still like them very much?

I was talking to a friend today and he said to me that I am over complicating how easy it is to get dates, he says that too many people are hung up on having to look a certain way to get a date and believing they have no chance with certain men/women, but he said in reality looks don't really matter, of course you cannot look like a slob or if you look terrible its a problem, but if you are 85% of the population and look normal then you should believe you are good enough to date anyone by letting your personality shine.

Do you agree?

2007-12-07 06:30:59 · 24 answers · asked by Carlton J 2

2007-12-07 06:27:44 · 24 answers · asked by Fool to my self 3

My boyfriend and I had been together for 2 years and we planned to conceive a baby in October because we both wanted one and October would give me enough time to graduate before it was born. We had several reasons. First being that we both are very responsible and both have jobs as well as being college bound. His parents have been having a hard time together and we hoped that by taking the stress and drama off of them and puttin git on us with a pregnancy then we could unite them on a single issue and they could rekindle their love. He also has a desperate wish to be a father because when he was 14 he really was the father in an accidental pregnancy however his ex was very cruel and has always denied him any contact with his daughter. All these reason seemed good and we got right on trying. However after 4 months of trying with no luck and the situation with his parents not getting any better he has gone off the deep end and broken up with me. Any advice or comments?

2007-12-07 06:24:46 · 11 answers · asked by If I Could....I would 2

Here in the US I'm used to seeing fat guys with fat girlfriends/wives so I always assumed that there was a mutual attraction among the obese.

However, on a recent trip to Thailand I noticed fat Americans with slim, shapely, young Thai girls and that made me wonder. Are overweight people attracted to other overweight people or are they only together because they have no other choice?

2007-12-07 06:19:25 · 12 answers · asked by Smart A 2

2007-12-07 06:15:13 · 27 answers · asked by Blah 2

Ok, last week I found out my boyfriend had been cheating on me. I confronted him about it at his place but he wouldn't admit it. We argued for a while until he finally admit he'd been cheating on me for 3 months.

I'm really not usually a violent person at all but that p***ed me off so much, I just punched him as hard as I could in the jaw. It knocked him out cold. I'm only 17. I'm athletic but not muscular (I'm a cheerleader) and he's 21 and pretty buff. I totally didn't expect it! I was just angry. He was knocked out for about 40 minutes. It was really funny, but when he came to he freaked out. He went to the cops and I've been charged with assault. Was I in the wrong?

2007-12-07 06:04:45 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

Would you date or marry someone even though you knew they had a short time to live??

2007-12-07 05:50:48 · 47 answers · asked by Carlos de La Vega 3