Earlier in the week I decided that I should move up towards my boyfriend, so I looked around, found a cheap place, I planned on moving in tomorrow.
The reason I was going to move up there was because my job was up there, and my boyfriend lives up there.
Now that I lost my job yesterday, I got to talking to my boyfriend, and I found out that he never liked me like a girlfriend. We were only dating for 3 months. I told him to give it some time, and he still broke up with me then decided that if he realizes that he wants me back, then we'd get back together. So he wants time alone for a while.
Well, I don't know if I should move in my new place or not. It's not too late for an answer. I am supposed to get a key tomorrow, then leave my $100 deposit.
But I don't know if I want to be up there where the ex is, I'm scared he'll think I'm stalking him.
Although I HATE living with my parents. He wants to be single a while.
I want to move out of my parents place, question is, should I move?
2007-12-07 06:31:01 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Go for it I know that you dont want him to think you are stalking him but forget him right now you dont wana be limited because he is there you could move there and find mister right. Just take a chance. And just to look on the other side if you move there maybe he will wana get back with you just maybe. Dont LIMIT YOURSELF U ALREADY GOT THE APARTMENT.
2007-12-07 06:36:43 · answer #1 · answered by Moonglow 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I didn't see where it said how old are you? Maybe you should still be living with your parents. At least until you find another job. How do you know where the best job available is?
Have you finished some kind of college? or schooling besides high school? How can you get a good job without further training? Stay home and get a good education and a good job and make him wish he could have you and then say sorry charlie. I would get even.
2007-12-07 14:52:12 · answer #2 · answered by Vanessa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you should go ahead and move. If he see u later on with another guy then he just might come across of being jealous. You're old enough to move so move and start your new life without him and as long as you wasn't moving up there for the wrong thing in the first place
2007-12-07 15:52:38 · answer #3 · answered by Jasmine R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not move up there.
First off, u should never relocate yourself soley for the sake of a guy....they arent permanent.
Now that you've lost your job and your boyfriend...the last thing you need is to be in an area where you'll potentially see him. It seems like ur tryin to had to get back with him if you move up there after everything thats happened. You've lost all reason to move. So don't.
2007-12-07 14:36:04 · answer #4 · answered by chocolatechip_lover 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You definitely need your own place if your a grown person.
But is that the only place available? Maybe you should wait until you find another job. Then find a place close to your job.
But let them know soon. You want a good reference when you go to rent another place. Explain you lost your job and until you find another one you are not sure where you may be wanting to live.
Besides if you are not working a miss a rental payment you ruin your credit to get another place you can afford later.
2007-12-07 14:37:50 · answer #5 · answered by Ruth 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow!! Your orginal intentions were to move their because of him..so in a way that is sort of stalkerish. However, getting out of your parents place seems like a good move. But you are out of a job too..
If you can really afford to move..I say bunk him...and move...but if you can't afford it...it would not be a good idea!
2007-12-07 14:37:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should move. Who cares if he thinks your stalking him. You could find a really good job up there also you can't live with your parents forever. So take a dive you can do it. If I was as old as you I would do it. I love my parents but I would still do it.
2007-12-07 14:38:13 · answer #7 · answered by Jaquelyn H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait til you find another job to move. That's just plain sensible!
You are SO lucky that the BF was honest with you! Honesty is always best...even if it stings! Good luck! Hugs, Gina C.
2007-12-07 14:38:58 · answer #8 · answered by Gina C 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you should not move.
But your question should be is my ex a jerk?
Answer: yes why would you even give to sh*ts about this guy he told you he never liked you as a girlfriend. Girl screw him. Don't wait for him to come back and if he does take and kick his a** out of your life.
2007-12-07 14:40:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Answer is how can you>No job no clue on what to do>Stay home till you have funds & a job>Forget the BF>
2007-12-07 14:36:11 · answer #10 · answered by 45 auto 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋