2007-12-07 06:27:44 · 24 answers · asked by Fool to my self 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well I'm a really nice girl and I just got dumped (yet again) by a guy I know is a nice person, but just can't get over his ex who left him 5 years ago for another woman!
As a few other females on this answers page have said, I'd never ever dump a nice guy. But for some reason they all want to dump me!
You maybe should try to widen your circle of friends and meet new people. Even after being dumped so often I still live in the hope that there must be someone out there who will love me and want me.
2007-12-07 21:06:12 · answer #1 · answered by Lesley M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well that's a broad one. I find bad boys very tedious, but on the other hand show me someone who is too nice and easy and willing to please and will do whatever I say and won't present me with SOME kind of challenge and I run a mile... it's all about balance. My boyf is a really really nice guy but he's also stubborn like me so he's not afraid to have a good heated debate with me which keeps things interesting.
There are some girls out there who will only ever be attracted to bad boys because they like excitement and drama. That's just the way it goes.
2007-12-07 20:32:22 · answer #2 · answered by waley 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont know why to be honest with you, it just seems to be the way works - nice girls also get dumped by guys. I however, would not dump a nice guy unless i had an incrediably good reason and would never go near a bad boy. i have more respect for myself.
2007-12-07 06:52:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that there is a possibility that there is still some genetic influence from caveman times hanging on...
Women are still attracted to hunky males who have attitude - but not necessarily smarts.
Also there seems to be a period of time - between age 14 and 26 - when females want excitement and stimulation. Then when their biological clock kicks in - around late 20's to early 30's is when they start looking for someone nice to settle down with.
2007-12-07 06:49:00 · answer #4 · answered by pstottmfc 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not so sure that it's "nice" guys that get dumped, although it might seem like that. Personally, I think it's the men that are subservient to their girlfriends and always willing to do what they are told and what's wanted of them- a woman gets bored of it. When someone starts merging their entire personality into yours and acts like a lapdog, the whole thing is doomed.
2007-12-07 06:51:38 · answer #5 · answered by Clare 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
nice guys go off to work each day,looking forward to a cosy night in or an intamate night out,they buy the house,car etc pay for the holliday,try to make things just as their woman like it.unfortunatley just as they begin to think everything is perfect,out comes those famous last words.YOUR BORING,and thats when you find out shes boning the guy from across the way,the one with the tatoos who did a 5 stretch for gbh,in your bed every chance she can,its just the way life is,they then divorce you take the lot and leave you on your ****,the up side is they spend the next ten years pretending every thing is great,whilst being battered regullarly,and being bled dry by johnny bad boy,karma,to sum up ,woman are programmed to want excitment at any cost.
2007-12-07 07:02:18 · answer #6 · answered by alanblakebfc 2 · 6⤊ 0⤋
well,nice boys get dumped for several reasons
the media give the bad boys a nice image.
the world itself is not nice.
people follow the strong always
nothing exited about them,so they can't attract anyone
but ilove being nice after a years of trouble.
2007-12-07 06:53:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's probably because they have a bad choice of women.
I wouldn't dump a nice guy!
2007-12-07 06:30:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I like nice guys,
2007-12-07 06:32:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
because they're too nice and a girl likes to have some kind of attitude in a relationship. most of the time nice guys r too safe too! girls like adventure.
2007-12-07 06:30:48 · answer #10 · answered by AWO USN Airman 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋