We've been together for almost 2 years (in April). I know this may sound lame but I've always had this problem with him talking to a bunch of different women on myspace. We are both mature and older (21 & 23). One day I was looking at his page and noticed that he had all these girls who were taking pictures of themselves in thongs and looking all whore-ish. I confronted him about it in a joking manner, and the next day he had blocked me from viewing his friends on his page.
I caught him online adding all these girls again, and he denies it when I ask him. Should this be some sort of red flag that he may be unhappy with our relationship, or should I just take it as typical male behavior?
2007-12-07 06:43:55 · 14 answers · asked by B.K. 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I wouldn't stand for this" typical male behavior."
2007-12-07 06:49:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alrighty. I have gone through the exact same thing with my boyfriend. In a sense, it's typical. My boyfriend is a flirt and just loves women. This is an innocent way to do it, without being tied down to them. He can block them at any time he wishes.
Just lay down the rules. I told him that he's not to get phone numbers, and to keep it STRICTLY to the internet, no meeting in real life. As well, when the girls ask "don't you have a girlfriend" to not lie about it, and tell them front up that he does and that it's serious, and they shouldn't be expecting much from him.
You could ask him if you can see his messages. If not, ask why. If there is nothing to hide, he shouldn't have any issues with that.
If the problem keeps up and it makes you feel very uneasy, give him the ultimatum. It's you or his myspace. This kind of behaviour often leads to cheating, so set the boundaries and make sure you know whats going on. Don't let him hide it from you.
2007-12-07 14:53:54 · answer #2 · answered by Reptilia 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
personally i believe myspace is one of the worst things in a relationship to come between two people.............but if he is hiding his page from you then i thnk that he might be up to something.... im a guy and ive been through everything as hard as it seem for anyone to believe it well almost everything and if they were just friends to him then he woudltn care that you were looking at them. If u joked with him too its like he should have joked back with you if its relaly just friends and nothing else.. im not say hes cheating on you or anything im just saying you should be careful and watch out so you dont end up getting hurt incase something were to happen... there is no need for him to not accept you for crying out loud your his girlfriend thats so bad and that is very sketchy so im just saying becareful.... try not to play games but why dont you give him a tasste of his own medicine and just block ur page im sure he wouldnt like that
2007-12-07 14:55:37 · answer #3 · answered by Luis V 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My ex bf did the same thing to me if your bf really loves you he should have not be adding girls that are half naked in there pics so I think your bf is stupid for doing something like that he's a pig.....don't just sit there and not say nothing talk to him about it in a serious manner and tell him how you feel about him and those half naked girls on him myspace =]
2007-12-07 14:51:41 · answer #4 · answered by gone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I don't think that you have anything to have to worry about. Those woman on myspace might be entertaining to him,but you are the one that he spends time with, love you for other reasons than you have a nice body. Then again do something that will take his attention off of myspace and on you.lol
2007-12-07 14:52:12 · answer #5 · answered by chocolatedrop08 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he sounds like a pig.. i know its just myspace but why block you? what else could he be hiding other than on myspace.. if he cant respect the way you feel about things then there is a problem.. he knows you don't like it and continues to do it.. if he really cared about how you feel he wouldn't be making you feel like this he shouldn't make you feel anything but happy..
Maybe he thinks hes cool because all these girls are trying to be his "friends".. i don't know but if you do have a problem with it he should do something about it.. and he chose to block you... what does that tell you?
and regardless if people tell you its just myspace dont worry about it.. you cant control your feelings if it bothers you.. then it bothers you..
2007-12-07 14:56:03 · answer #6 · answered by cdlc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looking at naked women is not a red flag in my book. HOWEVER, that's not what he's doing and that concerns me. He's adding them as friends, corresponding with them, AND he blocked you - the last one is the big warning for me. Not to mention that he's lying to you.
I don't know that he's necessarily unhappy with your relationship, but he's borderline cheating. Talk to him about it, and if he makes you suspicious with his answers, it may be time to move on, ask for a break, or leave him completely.
2007-12-07 14:50:22 · answer #7 · answered by xK 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Somethings not right. Typical male behavior? If my boyfriend did that and thought he could get away with it he'd be mistaken. Change the situation around for him. Ask him if you did the things he did if would he be okay with it?
red flag that he blocked you from his friends**
2007-12-07 14:48:40 · answer #8 · answered by jcb2387 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
girl get rid of that lame! he doesn't want you to see what is going on because he's doing something that he shouldnt be doing.I was in the same situation.It's no joke me and my guy were together for 3 years and he was meeting these girls on myspace then sleeping with them!!! hope that helps you out some.
2007-12-07 14:50:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hate to break your bubble, but doing this is not mature. You may all feel mature, but the actions say no.
He is a sneaky bas**** and I would make sure if you stay with him that you always use a condom.
Yoda out
2007-12-07 14:48:29 · answer #10 · answered by Yoda 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋