Singles & Dating - 7 December 2007

ok so I like this guy right? and he is really sweet and he makes me CD's when I ask him to and sends me all this music and stuff. he does lots of nice stuff like that you know? and like we talk n flirt a lot online and stuff. (I dont have any classes with him, but I know him super welll since ive known him for 9 years)But then at school he'll talk to me (when he gets the chance)when he's by himself or maybe with just a couple friends, but once he's with his whole dude group, he's like all obnoxious and like "omgg. a girll. we're way cooler than you. go die."
and its pissing me OFFF!!
cause i mean he's really nice and i like him a lot. and for a while there I thought he might like me too. but why do dudes always gotta be so obnoxious around their friends??
and does anyone have any advice on how to know if he likes me?? im afraid to tell him since we've known each other so long. dont wanna make things akward. HELLPPP!! thanks!

2007-12-07 10:02:57 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

my best friend has a boyfriend and so do i ....... my boyfriend told mr that he loved me and has kissed me... i love him too

but... my best friend and her boyfriend have not kissed yet... its been a little over a month and i am comfused with how my friend has been acting... she knew i had a date lats night and i think she tried to delay me from going to my date... she is always shaying how we need to hang out when i am already with my bf.... i only get to see im once or twice a week.....



why is she acting like this... she has a bf.... please help!!

2007-12-07 10:02:17 · 19 answers · asked by Dev<3 3

What goes through their mind?
What posses them to act the way they do?
Why are most of them liars?
Is this a transistion faze?

2007-12-07 10:01:20 · 2 answers · asked by Lundon R 1

but idk i feel weird adding him should i add him, and he knows i liek him my friend told him and he said he might want to date me, and i liek him too

2007-12-07 09:58:31 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have a boyfriend and i invited him to my house for lunch and then i showed him my room he ternd off the lights and started to make out with me do u think he might make me not a vergian?

2007-12-07 09:55:00 · 18 answers · asked by magee 1

my boyfriend and i broke up today and i am taking my act test tomorrow...i've been practicing for 2 months and i felt pretty prepared...after the breakup i cannot relax i can't stop crying i don't know how to relax before my exam or what to do to stop thinking about him...

2007-12-07 09:53:19 · 5 answers · asked by tragiclove430 1

OK, I went out with this girl for like two years, and then we broke up. We still talk and we're really good friends. But lately I have been having feelings for her. I want to get back together but whenever I like talk to her and stuff I just find it weird, cause we've gotten so close. But everytime I look at her... well you know... Any help please..... O ya she has a boyfriend... they've been going out about a month!!!

2007-12-07 09:53:00 · 5 answers · asked by Colts_Fan_2010 1

ok so at school i have a reputation of being a naughty.....im not gona go into details about how i got it(it wasnt sex) i just wana know how to get rid of it?i mean i dont like it cuz the girls at my school think im a whore and so do the guyz...but the guyz like it and are messing with me about it and its annoying and i dont wana be known as "naughty"!

2007-12-07 09:44:40 · 7 answers · asked by meow!!! 1

I used to be a really funny guy and I wasnt really shy now I'm really shy and really self confident and dont know what to do because know girls really like personality but it seems to me I have lost a great personality that I used to have

2007-12-07 09:44:19 · 2 answers · asked by Pre 1

(or til my $$ runs out).....any good tips for having a good time?

2007-12-07 09:44:01 · 5 answers · asked by NakdWhtGuy 3

Theres this girl I like but I dont know if she likes me. A lot of the time she will look at me and smile so I smile back and sometimes she nuges my foot with her foot and she touches my arm sometimes too but I dont know if she likes me or not help?

2007-12-07 09:42:51 · 4 answers · asked by Pre 1

When the men request it? Or when the women decides she doesnt want to get distracted and finds no one close to who she is dating and would prefer to only date him?

2007-12-07 09:42:07 · 5 answers · asked by DearAbby 5

Why did you do it? -or- How did you feel?

2007-12-07 09:40:58 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have my ex on my tail and a new guy they both treat me good, but the ex dumped me to go to the army and then he decided not to go and now he wants me back and the new guy well he just wants me to be happy but i think i'm still in love with the ex please help me!

2007-12-07 09:40:27 · 20 answers · asked by playgirl69 1

2007-12-07 09:40:06 · 11 answers · asked by i luv T.I. <3 2

well do you do it for needs hmmmm

2007-12-07 09:38:37 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-07 09:38:29 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm 15, 5'2" and petite. I have feelings for a guy who's 6'4"ish, and not just tall but big. Like 300 pounds big (not fat, I mean he's 6'4"). What would your reaction to a couple like that be? What challenges could a couple like that face? Other comments?...I'm not saying I wouldn't be with someone because of what others might think, but I was just curious to hear your opinions. Thanks:)

2007-12-07 09:37:31 · 9 answers · asked by Lala 1

(im 14)
well i only met her a week ago but
she broke up with her boyfriend for me the day she met me.
she seemed really cool when i first met her but i dont even like her as a friend anymore.
it seems like the closer she grows to me the more i don't want to be with her.iv'e been with her for only 5 days but ive gone farther with her than anyone else. she gave me head yesterday and wants to lose her virginity to me(im a virgin too). everything was going pretty good untill she said" i can tell were going to be together for a long time"-the my stomach turned.
i guess shes emotionally attached to me but all i really wanted was the physical relationship.

so i guess what i need to know is how can i break up with her withought hurting her?she said she loves me more than anyone shes ever been with and weve only known eachother for a few days. i almost think she somewhat crazy, and she has a strange disposition.

she says she loves me but i im only saying it back to humor her. =/

2007-12-07 09:36:27 · 20 answers · asked by snowcone101 1

What is it about Christmas time that makes other people become so intrusive into the personal lives of others? I am a single, straight, 28 year old male and I have always been single. That's right, I've never had a girlfriend or even experienced me first kiss. Big deal right? Well my parents leave me alone about this, but not my extended family, friends and even co-workers. It's especially weird at work because I never mentioned that I am currently single. Obviously people are really interested in my life for some reason. This conversation inevitably leads to everyone asking me why I still live at home. They just don't get that I have no need to move out and that my family enjoys living together. I live with my parents (rent free) and other adult siblings and everything is working out great. When I need to move out I will. When I need to have a girlfriend I will. Are people simply jealous that I have complete freedom and no financial responsibilities?

2007-12-07 09:35:44 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am in a relationship with a divorced woman 10 years older and extremely sexually experienced. She does wonders with her vaginal muscles and helps me come in various ways. She confided she was once a prostitiute on the side for extra money. She has assured me she is not HIV.
Should I terminate this relationship?

2007-12-07 09:35:34 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

Im fourteen and live in spokane WA it is winter time and im thinking of going ice skating. is this a good idea? or should i go somewhere else?

2007-12-07 09:35:23 · 32 answers · asked by Nick E 2

OK, this has happened to me twice in a short time span and I'd like to hear from the ladies as to what could be going on.

So twice now I've met a cool lady in a bar (not slutty, but smart and fairly good-looking), talked for a while, it got late, we went to her house, and I got attacked. The clothes came flying off, we had great, awesome sex, woke up the next morning with smiles painted across our faces, had a nice breakfast together, and I left saying that I'd call back. All in all, great conversation with plenty of physical tension.

The problem is, I call them a couple of days later, leave a voice mail message saying we should hang out sometime, and they never call back! With the last lady I met, we met up again on the next day, wound up in bed again, had a great time, and now I don't hear back from her either. I don't get it... it's frustrating because I'm not looking for a one-night stand.

2007-12-07 09:33:40 · 8 answers · asked by markt74 1

I have a friend who only knows me when, I have money and she always waits for me to invite her to my home. When I say to her shall we go out she always says" I haven't got any money I am so short." But because I have nobody else to ask and I have'nt been out for ages we go out and my expense. She's all right after that ringing me and being all nice and friendly, then she will start saying she is short and needs to borrow and this is her words 2O pounds or one hundred and fifty pounds, I usually give her 20 pounds and she takes it with a bit of a look. Then never ever mentions handing that money back. But I emailed her once asking for it she came the next day and without giving me the twenty pounds said "did I give you your money back" I say no and then she hands it to me. I have recently stopped inviting her out for meals or even going out, she has become very aloof with me and has changed with her manner. I've known her since childhood. Should I cut her off? She is my only friend.

2007-12-07 09:32:46 · 5 answers · asked by nicecupofteanicecupofcoffee 2

Well 3 0r 4 years ago back in high school. a classmate of mine (one i didn't really like) came up to me and gave me this long story about this guy in my neighbourhood that had this huge crush on me.He paid my classmate money to tell me that and to give me a love letter. Now cuz i kinda hate that classmate, i can't believe anything he says, and i somehow never saw that "neighbourhood guy" b4, i didn't take the letter and said i don't give a ****! Months later i see the "neighbourhood guy"- his name is D. and he is sooo very attractive, i like seeing him alot.But like he passes me straight and acted like i don't exist. However,we ended up on the same bus ride home once and he was all gentleman like and all opening the door for me and stuff.after that i hardly saw him around.Now last yr I started hanging out with this guy who really likes me and stuff but bcuz of our age difference i find it hard to pursue a relationship with him. and then I find out that the guy and D are really close friends, like brothers and ****…So like after that I kind of cooled out on hanging with the guy. However recently like in August, the guy comes back confessing his feelings and stuff and well we started going out. Not dating to me, he always said lets hang out cuz I told him I didn’t feel the same,lets be friends and the fact that D is like his brother, D is always around…I can’t help not stare at him and fantasize about him…but he never speaks to me, he ignores me every time and don’t start conversations with me…He is a very respectful guy and he seems the type that will never cross a friend for a girl. But his Friend and I are just friends and there will never be anything more. More over D is the one I want,but he is so quiet and keeps to hisself and won’t talk to me….How do I get him too? I tried dancing with him once at a party and he was like “NO, I don’t want u by me, go ask the other guy to dance and u talk too much” (which I don’t) But when we’re out, he still seem to be going out of his way opening doors for me and offering me stuff.Then he acts really arrogant, he has no gf and according to his friends all he does is fu*k girls he doesn’t check them. I feel so confused, I just want to throw myself at him…He is a Scorpio and I’m a Leo,we’re both 19( I don’t know if that can help,I heard signs have a part to play sometime)What advise do you guys have out there for me??

2007-12-07 09:31:58 · 2 answers · asked by KurleySue 4

I've broken up with my boyfriend THREE times and now we got back together and the first time we broke up was because my boyfriend's friends were tormenting him and saying he shouldn't have a girlfriend and then he got back together with me because he thought it was pretty stupid for him to have listened to the bad advice his friends gave him. The second time we broke up was because he had ALOT of stuff going on in life and he didn't have time for a girlfriend and then we got back together once his life cleared up a bit and the THIRD time he broke up with me was because he told me he had to focus on grades in school. But i found out from one of his friends that he broke up with me because he didn't like me anymore. And if you didn't know, we're in seventh grade and recently last week, we got back together and for some reason, we hardly seem to be as close as we used to. Back then, we would hang around each other like every second of the day and we would hug and talk more, but now . . .

2007-12-07 09:29:52 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

It is our first date. He gets nervous and stops talking, then I babble on like an idiot because of awkward silences. What do I do???

2007-12-07 09:29:51 · 20 answers · asked by Helpfull 2

Some men move to quick on the first date and some men wait for months..

2007-12-07 09:29:28 · 1 answers · asked by DearAbby 5

ive dona alot of stuff but sometimes i get all obnoxious when im with my crush
any help?
links would really help!

2007-12-07 09:28:23 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

There are always bulletin telling girls what to do for guys so I wanted to do something different. but I cant find a bulletin like that and I have no idea what to put in it. if u know where I could find a bulletin like this or have ideas of stuff to put in it I would really appreciate it.
thanks!

2007-12-07 09:27:04 · 4 answers · asked by Heather M 1