Singles & Dating - 7 December 2007

2007-12-07 12:33:28 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

be honest.

say if you were smarter, more popular, and had a better reputation, would you date someone who was pretty smart, average with friends, and has a decent reputation?

thoughts and opinions please? thanks.

2007-12-07 12:33:21 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

We were doing so great getting to know each other and I think I showed too much emotion too early, and pushed too hard. He seems distant and different. Is there anything I can do/say to maybe make this better?

2007-12-07 12:28:45 · 20 answers · asked by Meg H 1

2007-12-07 12:25:57 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have been dating my boyfriend for 2 yrs. he went to his company xmas party and didn't tell me about it or invite me. his daughter was the one to tell me he was goin and renting a hotel room there. i know he isn't seeing anyone so what do i do? breakup or have a long talk with him?

2007-12-07 12:21:19 · 10 answers · asked by frogloverhege 1

I am 4' 6" and 70 lbs. and 12 years old. (well, turning 12 next week)

2007-12-07 12:20:16 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

My bf of 2 years will not accept me being friends with my ex. I never really was in love with my ex, but we lasted 4 years because we have an incredibly strong friendship connection. After 2 years with my beloved bf, he said there is no way I can keep in touch with my ex or he will leave. He said its not fair and makes him feel like crap. But I am finding it so hard to let go. My ex has a girlfriend and everything!

Is it unfair to ask my bf to just accept it knowing he might leave me? I have had an unhappy 4 years due to depression and feel i cant have what i want! My bf trusts me.. he just says that it makes him feel bad cause i had a physical relationship with my ex. Please help!

2007-12-07 12:17:59 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

glances at you, how would you glance back????

2007-12-07 12:16:16 · 7 answers · asked by *im in such an adventure (life)* 1

2007-12-07 12:15:20 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

the other night i went to my friend's birthday party.she and everyone else there including this guy go to a different school than me.the guy there said he wouldn't mind making a move on me then later he put his hand on my leg.then he added my myspace and wanted to talk to me on aim. so he IMed me and we were talkign and he was acting really strange and he said tell me about yourself. what makes you you? etc. and i told him im really confused what do you want me to tell u? and later asked me for my photobucket password and login info..and i said no why do you want that? and hes like well you can tell alot about someone by their pictures. i said no. and then i later asked him if he liked me and he said he doesn't know me well enough or something and later he said this 'well i keep my eyes open to girls everywhere.so in truth i like alot of them' so i said 'ok that's cool.' and he said 'if you need to go you can now'... what he said REALLY REALLY OFFENDED ME...i can't remember

2007-12-07 12:12:35 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

my exbf and i broked up the first time a couple of weeks ago cus i was confused about me loving him or my friend james more. i finally figured out that i love my bf more, it took a while for us too get back but we did. we were back too normal with no problem except he hates james now. well after 3 days he broked up with me for no reason, but he said he wanted to be friends. after that he started to give james and other guys who was flirty or talking to me or touchy a nasty look. my bf wouldn't even talk too me at all really and we weren't that close but i still do love him. after a week, he calls and says he still has feelings for me and he was **** talking about james, i told him that i have a bf already( i lied, cus idk wat too say, plus i was mad at him) and he began too be mean and ignored me. i finally told him i don't want to be his friend and for him too stay the **** away from me? i want him back....
wat should i do or am i screw?

2007-12-07 12:10:19 · 4 answers · asked by lil hottie<3 1

2007-12-07 12:06:18 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

its been 5 months and we have yet to be physical with her and im not talking sex i just mean like touching and stuff like that and i totaly respect her and i know she wont want to so i wont force it but is there a way i can get her into it so that she WANTS to do it

2007-12-07 12:02:44 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I need to know if I messed up when I told the woman I am sleeping with currently that I don't want her masterbating.
I said that because our times together are sooo good and I am getting attached to her.
I don't touch myself either, I only want her to do it. Please be honest.

2007-12-07 11:55:19 · 4 answers · asked by tyler 1

anyone just need to vent about something? im a good listener and i want to eventually become some kind of theapist, something with pyschology. so ill email you back with advice. im also just bored, and i know what its like too have something bubbled up inside and noone to talk to about it. so go right ahead, im listening .......

2007-12-07 11:52:37 · 21 answers · asked by IceM88 5

Ok...i was in my keyboarding class and this girl just walks up and starts typeing on my computer...she puts "hey...wats up" then i put "nothin...u?" then she puts "nothin...so did u have fun last night" i put "huh doing wat?'' she puts "well from all that screaming" i put "wat i wasn't screaming?'' she put "oh yea i was"...i put "wat were u screaming from" she put "i don't know wat was i screaming from" i put "oh yea i showed u a pic of urself'' she put "oh yea that wat ur saying right now''......does this mean.........

2007-12-07 11:51:43 · 12 answers · asked by Cristian 2

There's this guy i'm having sex with. could it turn into something more?

I've never just had sex with someone. Not my style. But I met him at my former college, we hooked up. have been talking ever since.

I made an excuse to visit again but didnt want to seem like it was all about him-- so i went out with my girls. he called to see what i was up to. ended up leaving his friends to come find me. we hung out, danced, had an awesome time

went back to his place and we hooked up again. it was AMAZING. we stayed up, talked and snuggled til 4 am. its weird i'm so comfortable with him, we have amazing chemistry. my friends say hes a really nice guy.

he said he wished i lived there, that he would love it if we could hang out more. i joked about being just a booty call and he said, "if thats all you were, why would i go out of my way to call so much just to talk and love every second of it."

i can see myself liking him..is this bad news? should i stay unnattached?

2007-12-07 11:49:09 · 29 answers · asked by autumn 1

Love can really rip you apart.

2007-12-07 11:43:02 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have to tell the man I love that I can no longer be friends with him. How do I do this? What do I say? The long and the short of it is that I went out with a guy I had been friends with for a year first, we only went out a few times before I ended it because I was afraid of letting him in on my personal issues. We remained very good friends and to this day, we talk on a daily basis over the net. I was at his place for a party back in October, which is around the time I realized just how in love with him I truly was, but it was too late because he had moved on and is seeing someone he loves. I told him how I felt about him and he said that for now we should just be friends. I tried just being his friend. I tried very hard. It's just too difficult to be his friend right now. I can't talk to him daily, knowing that friends is all we are. Therefore, I have decided that while I would still like to keep in touch from time to time, I don't think it is good for us to be so close.

2007-12-07 11:38:56 · 1 answers · asked by Rachel 2

would u be ok with that?

2007-12-07 11:36:10 · 1 answers · asked by S i r i 1

If i ask a girl out, and she says yes, i'll be happy and so on. But if she turns me down, then i'm pretty sure that it'll spread around the school, which I dun want to happen. Because she might tell her best friend, and her best friend will definitely spread that. And after that, my friends will know, etc. And than, i'll probably be too embarresed to talk to her again in class, and her best friend, who i see everyday in 3 classes, and same next semester, will probably look at me in a different way. Basically I think that if I get a yes, i'll be happy. If I get a no, i'll be worse off than i am now, even though people say that if its a no, u r no worse than before. So how do I get over this? And i'm worried of this, because i'm still not sure she likes me, so theres a big chance of her rejecting me still.

2007-12-07 11:32:15 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

like...that u cheated? And are u gonna tell?

2007-12-07 11:30:07 · 8 answers · asked by S i r i 1

i'm going on a date sometime next week

i find it easy to talk to people but there are times when there is an awkward silence b/c i don't know what else to say lol

any tips?

2007-12-07 11:27:33 · 12 answers · asked by sky l 1

There is this guy that I broke up with. I feel really bad about it, and i still like.. love him!!! I want to get back together with him.... he keeps like pushing me away, and he always flirts with my bestfriend. He knows I like him.... what should i do if I want to go out with him?

2007-12-07 11:25:04 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous

I keep thinking of you,
but I can't say I don't want to,
I don't know what to do,
I thought i wanted to see you,
but when i did my heart almost died,
I tried not to but when I got home,
I dropped to my knees and cried,
I wanted to stay for a little bit,
but I didn't because I knew,
today I would be regretting it,
I didn't mean to cause any trouble,
but when I tried to fix it,
I got in double,
I didn't mean to embarise you,
i'm sorry I freaked you out too,
without you I don't feel alone,
but I really want to talk to you,
atleast on the phone,
I'm still greatful for all we had,
but when I think about it,
it makes me sad,
I'm happy I met you,
and have these memories,
I'm happy that I loved you,
but i'd be even happier,
if you loved me too.

2007-12-07 11:24:51 · 14 answers · asked by bisexualgirl 2

We keep fighting about what I want, like it seems like I always feel like I want more, like she doesn't do enough for me, it'l be like silly things about her giving me a good morning tex or something but the point is that she never does anything without me having to tell her to, I don't know what to do, I love her and I know I can't bear to be without her. It jus seems to a point where everything she does just to keep me happy because of previous arguements. Like I have to fight with her about something then she will do it after, theres nothing she will think of, of her own accord. I've spoken to her about this and she just doesn't give any kind of real input, she just thinks I've made her realise and now she does mean it, but maybe she's jus got it into her head that she has to. But I can't let her go...I'm stuck..help me

2007-12-07 11:14:54 · 3 answers · asked by Anon 2

Was it planned or spontaneous?

2007-12-07 11:11:44 · 49 answers · asked by AAAA 3

on monday my best friend broke up with his girlfriend of 2 weeks. okayyy so i like my best friend and i had a friend tell him on monday ( after the break up)and then on tuesday we talked on the computer but i messaged him on myspace saying how i didnt want things to change beetween us and he said that he understood then he said that we were going to the movies on saturday and i agreed and at first he asked me if i wanted to go with other people and i said that i dont care and then he said i dont care and we went back and fourth saying i dont care and then we just changed the subject and before that about a month before we went to the movies and he let me wear his jacket and wear his jacket and was holding my hand during the movie and last week wen he was still with his gf he kissed my cheeks and my forehead and was touching my butt. and yesterday he came to my house and i asked my friend to ask him how it went and all he said was that it was cool.did/does he like me watll happen sat.

2007-12-07 11:06:26 · 3 answers · asked by Jessy 3

Ok im in 8th grade and have a gf but the weird thing is 3 other girls are like obsessed with me its crazy! One of them even admitted to liking me. The other two are freaks they talk about sex and stuff, and are just plain teases and just today a teacher asked if we're going out..So overall I want to know what I could do to just watch myself so I dont get in troulbe or my gf doesnt think im cheating on her or whatever

2007-12-07 10:50:19 · 30 answers · asked by TrackBeast93 3

I am always known to be the "quietest and shyest" person in school so recently I have been trying to be alot more outgoing and talking more. Guys always like to joke around with me and saying I am being too loud (when really I am just sitting in my seat doing nothing) I respond by laughing and joking back. Is this being flirty? I certainly don't want them to think I like them or leading them on because I like somebody else :/ I just want to be friendly and not be seen as so serious.

2007-12-07 10:50:08 · 14 answers · asked by Nat 3