i have been dating my boyfriend for 2 yrs. he went to his company xmas party and didn't tell me about it or invite me. his daughter was the one to tell me he was goin and renting a hotel room there. i know he isn't seeing anyone so what do i do? breakup or have a long talk with him?
2007-12-07 12:21:19 · 10 answers · asked by frogloverhege 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
that's fine
2007-12-07 12:27:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe you need to make the comunication in your relationship stronger.. he might have done this and not tell you and think its ok. 2 years is a long time but maybe you havent had so many talks in this two years. You have to tell him what you didnt like about this situation. I know sometimes us women think our guys know what is wrong and that they can read our minds or maybe if you hint something he will get it.. but for the most part it doesnt work...
so i think you should talk about everything that goes through your mind. communication is a key for a good long lasting relationship and if you dont have this or if it stops happening it wont be long till it ends.
also something that is very important is that you need to let him know you Both have to work at it because if not you will feel like you're the only one making an effort and it will cause more fights..
I hope i helped .
Good Luck
2007-12-07 20:32:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's the deal, when someone you love sneaks around behind your back and does not tell you about a party and gets a room, they are up to no good. You know that already, right?
So, let's stop denying what is going on here. How do you know he isn't seeing anyone? I think you need to say to him you know about the party and the room and you think it's time to end the relationship. I will tell you if you give him a chance to "explain" it will only be some made up story.
Sadly, you really need to face reality here.
2007-12-07 20:30:07 · answer #3 · answered by MadforMAC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well find out what the hell is going on, because if he didn't tell you abou the party or the room, them sorry to say he is cheating. No one would do that if they were not doing something wrong. sorry ,sounds like you are being made a fool of.
2007-12-07 20:30:57 · answer #4 · answered by Terri S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave.
There is someone at his work that he wanted to hook up with.
Evidence [a] he didn't tell you about the party [b] he arranged a hotel room.
Actions speak louder then words! You deserve to be with someone who WANTS to be with you!
2007-12-07 20:26:05 · answer #5 · answered by kkb2256 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off i would personally be like what the hell? but i think you should talk to him about it. dont nag or anything like that or make him uncomfortable just tell him how you feel and tell him what happened.
2007-12-07 20:25:05 · answer #6 · answered by AJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should give him a break, haven't you heard about " man day". maybe he go out all boys it isn't proper for you to come w/ him.
2007-12-07 20:29:29 · answer #7 · answered by Germinator 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont break up with him. talk to him about it. what if he had a reason. it is near christmas he could be trying to suprise you or something else.
2007-12-07 20:24:58 · answer #8 · answered by Joel C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him aboutt it maybe hey had a reason to
2007-12-07 20:28:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you surely want to continue TALK it out
best luck
2007-12-07 20:26:14 · answer #10 · answered by dhivya r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋