Singles & Dating - 5 November 2007

Here's the question. I've been on lots of firsts and a few second dates.
What do ya do on the 3 and 4th. Guys what are your expectations of sex, making out, etc?How soon? How fast? If looking to turn it into a relationship? And not just a F**K, per se?

2007-11-05 16:19:19 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

am having a long distance relationship my bf always claim to get tired after an hour if am lucky but most of the time only 30 min of talking to me on the phone he say he he loves me and whats to marry me but i mean if you really love someone 30min to an hour should not be enough for you.you but when it comes to drinking with his friend he can stay up LATE

2007-11-05 16:15:56 · 28 answers · asked by victoria 2

Every weekend i invite this guy over (plus some mutual friends), i get him drunk, he does stupid stuff, and then i take advantage of him. plus, i record how drunk and stupid he is with my cell phone and then put it on youtube. is this genius or wrong?

2007-11-05 16:07:32 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay so there these to girls i work with there sisters and they know i like this guy at work. the older sister told me that her younger sister was goin out w/the guy i like. are they both lying jus so it gets to me. the guy i like hardly ever talks to these girls.

2007-11-05 16:02:15 · 15 answers · asked by shortyT 1

My ex s going all crazy on me. we have a kid together, but I have moved on and am dating another guy!!! Every time I go out with my BF he calls and bugs us. I don't know what to do!! My BF and me are really close and even thinking of getting engaged sometime in the near future!! My ex is trying so hard to get me back, i tell him I don't want to go back to him. I'm scared that if I **** him off that he won't be around for our daughter!!

2007-11-05 16:00:51 · 6 answers · asked by rhianon_elizabeth 2

I broke up with someone and I still love that person but she doesn't love me anymore and I know that the relationship we had could never be the same. Even if the girl decided she loved me I still wouldn't want to get back together with her because things are so different now. However, its been 3 months since we broke up; I moved to a new city, got rid of everything I had that reminded me of her and don't talk to her. For some reason I can't get her out of my head, she's there all the time and she's in every one of my dreams. Everyday I keep loving someone who I could never be with again. Has anyone been in a similar situation? Can anyone give me some advise on moving on? I need to move on, but can't.

2007-11-05 15:58:24 · 17 answers · asked by kevcim06 2

im a 25 year old african american that lives in brooklyn and need friends in my life. I seem to attract the bad crowd. anyone know of any website to meet or chat with people my age?

2007-11-05 15:57:01 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am attracted to one of my managers at work. I haven't acted on it for the obvious reason that he is one of my managers and I didnt want to date someone I work with. However, I found a new job and this is my last week at my current job. We have started flirting more than usual recently, and I am very attracted to him, not just sexually but he has a great personality as well. Im not sure if he is attracted to me (I am attractive, but I am not sure if he feels that "spark") or if he just enjoys flirting with me, with alot of men do without realizing it (just my experience). Should I just go for it since I'm not going to be working there much longer anyways or no? If yes, how should I approach it?

2007-11-05 15:56:55 · 3 answers · asked by kitty10185 3

I like this girl that I've met this year, but I can't quite figure her out. In the mornings, we would see each other and talk on the train station before school. We would never have awkwardness between us. We would talk, but not flirty talk, just general stuff. We have one class together, but we dont sit next to each other anymore (thanks to my teacher's racial desegregation), and if we see each other in the halls, sometimes she would poke or tickle me as I walk by. Once, she grabbed my cell and called her own so we'd both have each others number. The thing is, she is pretty hot, and I'm kind of a loser (if you looked at both of us in the same picture, you wouldn't believe we would be going out since I'm out of her league). Also, I believe that my friend continously hinted to her that I liked her.

So my question is, should I make a move soon since I'm afraid that she will get tired of waiting or should I become more flirty,which im not, none of my past relationships made past a week

2007-11-05 15:55:07 · 18 answers · asked by Donaldo 4

2007-11-05 15:52:57 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

and you haven't met that person yet....only by phone.

2007-11-05 15:51:08 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm tired of crappy relationships, I'm in school, I work and I am a fun and pretty girl from what I've been told. I've completely put my heart out once and got my heart crushed. All guys want now seems to be is sex and I want a relationship...Is that impossible to find?

2007-11-05 15:48:49 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok so I'm 20 and my boyfriend is 27. We've been together for almost two years. We never talk about past relationships. Well he knows that I've been with 2 people because my friend told him. I have no clue about him though! Is it wrong for me to wonder or to even ask? I know that he's older there for probably more experienced but if he said a big number it may break my heart...Maybe it's better not knowing?

2007-11-05 15:48:23 · 2 answers · asked by mhk2358 2

more then just once a night,

2007-11-05 15:46:46 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have a friend who is 35 and he is dating a 20 year old girl. my males friends don't see it as anything bad. my female friends see it as disgusting. what do you think?

2007-11-05 15:39:54 · 19 answers · asked by The Allknowing Edgar 1

okay so just GIVING HIM the note was stressful enough for me, I MEAN MY HANDS WERE SHAKING and this was a big step for me. it was supposed to be from classmates to better friends and closer. and the letter wasnt like A LOVE LETTER POURING OUT MY FEELINGS FOR HIM, but it was really really really flirty and it asked him these weird fun questions like "are you part black? and how are tall are you" ( i know, its an inside joke dont laugh) and it was like a page long about other random stuff and the teacher TOOK IT after he only read ONE LINE (i heard him say this, he didnt say it to my face) but i dont get why she took it... I mean class didnt start yet when I gave it to him. I deliberatley said on the note "i dont want you to get in trouble for passing notes in class" so i gave it to him before class but she still took it. what if he thinks its a love letter?? afterclass, I walked past him and made eye contact but we both didnt know what to say to each other and just left. what do i do??

2007-11-05 15:34:54 · 37 answers · asked by I'm A Big Girl Now 1

ive always been weird about opening up in relationships, trying not to get hurt...The last one noticed it and i allowed myself to trust him, really thought i could. He gave me no reason not to. We had so much fun together and HE was the first one to say he loved me. He broke up with me for what appared to be no reason. Ive started dating since but cant seem to get past the fact that this last guy seemed great and turned out not to be, so why would the next one be any different?

2007-11-05 15:34:49 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

seriously anyone know anything?

2007-11-05 15:31:45 · 36 answers · asked by Anthony Kellen R.I.P. Taylor 3

Me and my guy just made love for the first time a few weeks ago.. Eversince then, he has been very happy and acts even more loving to me. I know its awful but I feel a little resentful to him. I know that I wanted to do it too but I kind of regret it. I love him very much and can't see myself without him but I feel like I let myself down. I always promised myself that I would wait for marraige.......So now I feel like a complete failure. I can't help but look at him and think he's the cause of it all..........although I KNOW that is unfair to him. Am I a jerk for feeling this way? What can I do to stop feeling these regrets :-( Please save any RUDE comments.

2007-11-05 15:30:54 · 7 answers · asked by Lonely Love 06 2

2007-11-05 15:28:51 · 4 answers · asked by Hippi Heather 1

I met this girl and we have been on 2 dates during the past 10 days ... our dates both have been very well and she said she enjoyed both of them, but she never calls or txt me!!! its alway me trying to call or txt and I guess it aint cool this way ...

do you think that mean in reality she does not like me but doesn't want to say that? Its now about 4 days that we have not called/txt or I have not done that ... she was kind of busy with exams but still a phone call or a txt would not take that long ...

what do you think?

2007-11-05 15:26:55 · 27 answers · asked by Alan K 1

GIRLS : lets say you had a crush on this really cute guy. but you have lost interest in him because after a few weeks, he hasnt made his move yet (even after you gave him some signs and showed some interest). my question is, if this guy finally decided to make his move and ask you out, would you still be interested ?!? or is it TOO LITTLE, TOO LATE ?!?

i am asking this because i think i missed out on an opportunity at a girl, and i think she lost interest in me, so i need to know if its too late or not !!!!!!!!!!!

2007-11-05 15:24:53 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous

after High school or when you an 18 year old HS Senior. K ive had the hots for my teacher since last year, and I wanna make a move on her someday. Is it ok to do so after I graduate?

2007-11-05 15:21:18 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I don't know why I feel this way but it just happened. The only problem is he's 12 and one half years older than me and he's married! I definitely can't stop thinking about him but here's the kicker, I'm pretty sure he likes me back that way and I have no idea what to do. I don't want to give up on him but if he's happy with his wife then I don't want to mess that up either. So what should I do?

2007-11-05 15:19:57 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-05 15:19:07 · 6 answers · asked by Alexis 1

ok this guy and i like each other. he won't go out with me because he lives in another city and he said he would kiss me instead should i say yes or no?(he also said that he could grab me)

2007-11-05 15:17:36 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-05 15:14:50 · 3 answers · asked by miss not so priss 1

2007-11-05 15:12:15 · 39 answers · asked by SOMEONE 1

they're all very cute.

2007-11-05 15:08:23 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

he asked me out, and i, like always i said no. now i have been asked out by 3 guys, and turned them down! i dont know why i do this. i really like him. he is my neighbor, i am a junior in high school, and he is a freshman in college, he asked me to go out with him, and i asked if he was serious, or if he was joking. but i really like him, and now its two days later, but i really want to be with him. what can i do?

2007-11-05 15:04:27 · 10 answers · asked by sunny 4