I met this girl and we have been on 2 dates during the past 10 days ... our dates both have been very well and she said she enjoyed both of them, but she never calls or txt me!!! its alway me trying to call or txt and I guess it aint cool this way ...
do you think that mean in reality she does not like me but doesn't want to say that? Its now about 4 days that we have not called/txt or I have not done that ... she was kind of busy with exams but still a phone call or a txt would not take that long ...
what do you think?
2007-11-05 15:26:55 · 27 answers · asked by Alan K 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well... she wants you to call/txt her becuase it makes her feel happy that sumone is thinking about her...
u should talk to her about it tho...
Good Luck
2007-11-05 15:30:05 · answer #1 · answered by XxRazerHeartxX 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm old fashioned and think that a guy should always do the calling at least in the beginning of the relationship. I'm also in the middle of grad school and understand that sometimes the only time you think about calling someone or the outside world is at very inappropriate hours. I would cut her some slack and at least wait until she's not so busy in her life. Then if she still doesn't call you either talk to her about it or move on.
2007-11-05 23:31:13 · answer #2 · answered by boiler4ever2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm the same way. i'm not good with keeping contact with people... it doesn't mean she doesn't like you though. she might just be shy with phone calls or texts. leave her a message on her voice mail saying how you really enjoyed spending time with her and that you would love to do it again. maybe say how you noticed she doesn't like to call/text people but you really felt a connection and it would be a shame to lose that. then leave your number again (a cell number would be best) and say you hope to hear from her soon. if that doesn't work, she's a lost cause and you need to move on. think about it... if she's like this while you're dating, she's gonna be the same way if you ever end up together and that's not cool
2007-11-05 23:39:25 · answer #3 · answered by hahapsht 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she wants to see how much you really like her. Some girls like to be pursued. They don't like to make the first moves or be the first ones to call. Does she return your calls or text message you back after you call her? if so this is a good sign maybe she does like you. If she doesn't maybe she is not into you at all or she is probably a very busy person.
2007-11-05 23:35:38 · answer #4 · answered by C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the girl likes you and girls like it when the guys do the calling and stuff they dont just think its w/e and also this girl probably has really strict parents and dont let her do anything but studying before exams so continue calling her and etc just not too much or it will get annoying max of 2 calls a day and max of 10 texts a day but only if shes answering them if not max of 2 ovver a period of time though!!
good luck!!!
2007-11-05 23:32:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
At first I read your post, I felt she was blowing you off. I now look at it and say she maybe tied up with exams. I don't know how you guys have set things, but she is not tied to you. Yes a phone call or a text would be nice, yet we don't always get what we want.
2007-11-05 23:32:14 · answer #6 · answered by ny2az061277 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't hound her too much or she will disappear. If your gut instinct tells you she doesn't want anymore dates then let that be. Or you could text her one more time and ask her for a date and see if she responds with a 'yes'. If you go on a date then lay it on the table and see how she really feels about you. If she doesn't respond with 2 days then let her float away.
2007-11-05 23:31:13 · answer #7 · answered by Izzy h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give it time if you like her, although if a girl was really into you then she would call or text. i'd say if you really like her be careful, and if she is interested let her come after you(since you have already tried to call and text her). if she doesn't then she wasn't worth it. plus, if you're not happy with having to do all the calling and texting, then that is not the situation you will be happy in so it's best to see if she does try to get in touch with you. if not then you're better off without her, even if it doesnt feel like it right at the moment.
2007-11-05 23:30:01 · answer #8 · answered by hey hows it goin 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
At this point she might not be into you. Start ignoring her and you will see she will start to want attention from you again. if not just move on. is a numbers game my friend, move to the next. the men that are the most sucessful on dating women are the ones that dont give up and keep asking women until you find one that works for you
2007-11-05 23:32:04 · answer #9 · answered by Qbanmedic 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she was in the middle of exam's then you need to give her a break, and if you just cant stand it text her something like good luck then wait until exams are over and ask her out again and if she ignores you then most likely, she's moved on!!
good luck on this!!!
2007-11-05 23:33:50 · answer #10 · answered by hppy2b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes
us girls just dont feel like talking well at least for me
and if shes got exams chances are shes busy! wait it out
keep callin n stuff maybe after shes not bsy shell talk to ya? i know thats how my ex was
i thought he hated me every 3 days lol if still nothing she might not like ya but hey
im single :-p
2007-11-05 23:31:33 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋