Singles & Dating - 5 November 2007

Background: Guy I have been going out with is going to fix something in my home next weekend. Today I sent him our astrological makeup which really sucks, if we're being honest, but did so as a joke as we had discussed it before.

Anyway he wrote back: "it has been very nice knowing you
though. i'll send a contractor over this weekend to
take care of the ceiling, and stop by sunday to see if
the work was done well. Krap, and i was just about to
ask you to wander down the path with me just alittle
longer."

While I know he's joking, I don't like the "sass" in it and want to reply in turn with something really cute, not offensive, but not wimpy either.

Any thoughts?

2007-11-05 04:55:50 · 4 answers · asked by xerendipity 2

My boyfriend lives about 3 hours away from me. I love this guy to death. But I have met some one that really makes me laugh and smile. Now my boyfriend has told me that it was ok if I saw someone else but it just doesn't feel right to me. I am not going to talk to this guy for the time being because I don't want people to start talking and then everything will get back to my bf but this other guy and I are really good friends. I don't want to be putting him off forever. What can I do?

2007-11-05 04:42:10 · 18 answers · asked by Lacye F 3

my bf has this freind that actually tried to break us up, but we just assume it was her, but he says no proof no reason to wrry, so she calls to tell her probs here and there i know she likes him, so i wanted to have someone call my voicemail saying hey its me just thought maybe ud like to grab some lunch friday,let me know. just so he can see the shoe on the other foot any help plzz.

2007-11-05 04:38:11 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Why can't I make any good friendships or relationships with real people and not only by internet? No, in case you are wondering, I am not ugly...!

2007-11-05 04:37:32 · 14 answers · asked by Emily Allan Poe 3

I'm considering getting this done, but wonder how this will affect my sex life. Do most women find it uncomfortable or painful, or does it increase pleasure for them.

I'm not interested in whether or not anything thinks it's "gross". I want to know if you've experienced it and how it felt.

2007-11-05 04:35:36 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok so... my life is DRAMA so i WAS with a man who is in the military and anyways he has 2 kids so id be a stepmother and anyways his freakin WIFE who i thought was his ex is still married to him and he got caught because he used THERE emergency credit card to call me collect so she called me and informed me about everything and so i called him and asked and he said that when we met he decided to go through with the divorce and that is true he moved out and let his wife stay in there house and basically he has lied to me about EVERYTHING pertaining to him and her but with me i belive he loves me and he wanted his cake and to eat it to. they havent been together for awhile since weve been togethere but i guess my question is is how much would you put up with until it wasnt worth it?? i feel betrayed and hurt and dont know what to do and have no one to talk to he was the one i told everything and he feels like **** which of course because he got caught and will lose me if he doesnt change

2007-11-05 04:35:10 · 23 answers · asked by lacie s 2

I wasn't sexually active until my early 20's - sex was always uncomfortable, alot of guilt and repression - i've had maybe a handful of partners, one or two "steadies" and am now in late 30's
I've never felt that I "got it" regarding sex - like there was some huge aspect I was missing out on - it was an empty gesture - it was never what I'd call "fun" considering the amount of stress, anxiety and tension associated with the entire course of events leading up to/during/after the event
I think it's basically too late for me at this point to have a sex life, I never really "dated" either, not casually, other than mingling if there was a large group
I even had a period thinking I might be gay, (had gay friends, was open to the possibility, but I know that ain't the issue either)
I'm fairly sure it's some repressed issues from growing up that I'm just now beginning to realize, really ****ed my head in terms of having "normal" sex relations, well, "normal" social relations, period

2007-11-05 04:33:21 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Me and my ex are still pretty good friends, but we've both realized that our relationship can not be boy-f girl-f. Part of the reason is because he doesn't want to commit to a long term relationship, which I'm okay with...I'm glad he's being honest, he just wants to have fun right now, and we are both young 16 and 17. We obviously admit that we are atracted to each other physically. So is it wrong to still kiss him, and "mess around" as long as we both aren't dating anyone els? Does it make me a sl** to just be friends with benifits?

2007-11-05 04:32:10 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

im a bit concerned. i know alot of men have porn addictions, but i seem to have one aswell. is this normal??

2007-11-05 04:30:35 · 12 answers · asked by Kat 1

the next day she sent a text asking of my welfare and to know what i was doing.she also apologised for the what went wrong the previous day.i don't really believe her explanation so i refused to answer her txt but rather asked her to send me 3 txt messages confirming her love for me at 3 different times of the day..........till now she has not yet sent those sms.what should i do?am i doing the right thing?should i resume contacting her as before? i am confused((
don't want to lose her!!!

2007-11-05 04:29:42 · 9 answers · asked by Shady 1

2007-11-05 04:22:57 · 8 answers · asked by . 7

ok please help me out...If guys call a girl everyday for 3 days straight and then out of nowhere he stops calling should the girl call HIM and see what's up or should she forget about him? Thankkkkkkks! :)

2007-11-05 04:21:54 · 22 answers · asked by RoXsTaRuh 1

My BF gave me a bunch of clothes to sell on eBay. I just got a call from a guy who goes to the (small) gym that my BF belongs to, saying last week he had left his jacket there & now I'm selling same 1 on eBay. I've been to that gym w/ my BF & the guy saw my name on guest roster. But I hadn't been there for over a month & I told him to look @ roster for proof. My BF goes almost every day, & was there the day after the guy said he lost his jacket there, & he gave me eBay stuff incl. the jacket, that next day. I asked my BF & he said he got it from a friend 6 mths ago but to give it back to the guy "just in case" it's his. To me that sounds like an admission of guilt - if it's not the guy's jacket, why return it? Now the guy thinks I stole his jacket but it was really my BF & he won't fess up. I want to break up w/ my BF b/c I don't want to be w/ a thief. Yet I don't want to get him in trouble at the gym by saying it was him, not me. What should I do? PS He's got money, y would he steal??

2007-11-05 04:20:21 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok, I have this serious crush on this girl we are both 16, we are already friends and I see her a few times a week but I don`t go to school with her.

Last weekend we went to a concert with some friends and all I wanted to do was kiss her, and thats saying something for me.

Whenever she is around me I feel like she is trying to tell me she likes me. Stopping right infront of me and throwing her hair around she often offers me chances to do things with her.

She is always smiling at me and touched my arm in a "friendly" way about a week ago. Sounds obvious right?

But I am not the only guy there is another guy that she plays in a band with, an old BF that moved faraway [they still talk] the point is I can`t be sure if she likes me as much as I like her and I`m scared to death to try to find out. I don`t want to mess up our friendship but is she this friendly with everyone or should I chase her just a little. And let me say this I haven`t ever felt this way before. It`s killing

2007-11-05 04:15:06 · 9 answers · asked by Taylor 3

I've been dating my bf Kyle for 3 months now and I thought that everything was going great, I mean he's every girls fantasy guy. Sweet, Charming, Sexy, amazing in everyway. But now this girl who I used to be friends with likes him. I mean is stalking him and me. Shes on the yearbook team and ruined his senior quote saying that hes dumping me because hes not getting any and that hes going to her because he loves her and not me. It's an on going thing with her and us. Shes doing anything and everything to be near him. Shes going to all his golf tourtaments and just following us around. She thinks that we're friends with her and that shes going to get him but shes not. When will she stop?

2007-11-05 04:13:00 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-05 04:11:17 · 49 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am normally not the jealous type but recently my boyfriend made a comment about one of our friends saying that she was "hot." It really bothered me and I think that it was because it was a mutual friend and not some girl on the street. I feel disrespected. I am overreacting?

2007-11-05 04:10:24 · 33 answers · asked by Lola 2

2007-11-05 04:08:47 · 7 answers · asked by Shells 1

anyone interested in emailing their age difference fantasies?

2007-11-05 04:06:03 · 5 answers · asked by bluesbrother74 5

would you consider yourself more or less sexually experienced than the "average person"?

2007-11-05 04:03:59 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

i am a mother of four all of whom i have given up for adoption, and I want to enter the dating scene again but I am afraid that guys will judge me by my past instead of my future. do guys really date women who have had kids.

2007-11-05 04:03:16 · 16 answers · asked by Sheena C 1

My teacher acts real weird around me. He...
1. Gives me only 100s
2. Seems to praise me all the time in front of the class
3. Only gives me extentions on work
4. Calls me his special girl
5. gives me massages during tests to help me relax
6. Wants me to stay after school everyday
7. He invites me over to his house on the weekend
8. He always gives my boyfriend failing grades
9. He wants me to ditch my boyfriend and go for an older man
10. he cries every time I bring up graduation

Am I thinking to much into this?

2007-11-05 03:56:16 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous

Chris and I have had history since Freshman year, I'm a sophmore and he's a Junior now. He liked me as soon as he laid eyes on me, but I didn't feel the same. Then, during the summer he got a girlfriend named Holly. They were off and on, and he even told me that he'll always love me.

I started to like him. I told him how I felt though I wasn't ready to commit which we both know. I told him by summer I'll be grown and ready. He still calls me often, and talks about Holly all the time and rubs in my face the fact that he's going to move to PA where she lives and go to Penn state starting this summer. When we were supposed to...start a relationship.

Holly is his girlfriend on myspace also though they call each other and visit one and other. She's also a ***** and often taunts me calling me hurtful names. It's hard to move on when he keeps calling, and I'm not sure what I should do.

2007-11-05 03:55:19 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

so i have this guy i like and all my fiends say that he is intregued by me. but i dont know how to flirt with him to get him to like me more. he's a christian so its not like he's perverted. but i dont know what to do. i need some chrsitian advice.

2007-11-05 03:44:50 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-05 03:44:50 · 5 answers · asked by angel 2

i really like this guy and he is in my first hour. we havnt really talked much besides saying hi in the hallway or him asking me a question in class. it seems that when ever i look at him out of the corner of my eye he is lookin at me so i will turn to make eye contact but he will turn away does he like me i do have his myspace but he never goes on im thinkin about emailing him and telling him but he never goes on so wut should i do . im really shy.

2007-11-05 03:42:43 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

How long do you think it should be before you take the next stage in your relationship, eg buy a house, get engaged. I have been with my boyfriend for 3.5 years and we live together but in my house (he wasnt ready to buy one after 2.5 years together so he went and bought a property by himself). I now wonder if im in a relationship with a man who will never want to commit, but I just dont know if im being over sensetive to the situation?? Why are relationships soo confussing??

2007-11-05 03:40:07 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a female friend that my wife really dislikes one night after telling her i was a party that she was at. I came home to find my clothes outside of my door. Ok so she might have been a little jealous but here's the thing she asks me to cut it off with my friend and i tell her fine ill do it. In turn i ask her to cut off her male friend who openly let her know he is romantically interested in her. She throws herself on the floor hysterically crying saying he's just her friend and why cant she talk to him? I dont really care if she talks to this guy or not but hysterically crying and screaming? She sounded like somebody cut her pinky toe off for chrissake! Is that normal?Or does that mean that they have/had something going on? Awhile ago her best friend told me that i was the guy she wish she got with and that my wife was cheating on me. I chose not to believe her and stuck with my wife but now im looking back at both these situations and wondering ....did she? HELP!!!

2007-11-05 03:39:18 · 15 answers · asked by mrdrproffesorcrayon 1

I am in Love with them woman, she is in Love with me. we have been together a year and plan on getting married in the next year or so.
My parents know we live together and love her to death. she has a good but very different relationship than the one i have with my parents.- for the most part when it comes to this kind of thing they have always had a dont ask, dont tell kinda thing going, my parents and I have a very open and honest relationship... im not saying one is better than the other....
just given where we see and feel about the other is it better to just let it lay until we are married or to tell them truth.
i need examples, stories, reasons and honesty from you guys.
thanks

2007-11-05 03:34:49 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Do you think you could last?

2007-11-05 03:28:26 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous